The number one thing most guys struggle with is being clingy and needy. That comes from a scarcity mentality, it’s a belief that the ONE GIRL that they like is the only attractive girl who will ever like them which makes them act as if she is the only attractive girl in the world.

If that girl doesn’t like you back then you world will end and no other woman will like you, please! I use to think like this and it’s simply not true and when I thought like that I got my heart broke OVER AND OVER again.

Looking back at it my scarcity mindset is what got my heart broke, it wasn’t the women at all. Besides taking massive action to approaching women the abundance mindset is the foundational key to success with women and dating SHORT AND LONG TERM.

I have a client that I’m currently coaching who takes massive action but most of the time he messes up his chances with women because of his clingy and needy behavior.

I have helped him get rid of some of his scarcity mindset but it isn’t completely gone yet and it’s something that affects his results. His mindset shows in his body language, conversation and follow up text when he gets a girl’s number.

Ridding yourself of the scarcity mindset and having the abundance mindset is a core essential to success with women and dating. All men who are good with women have this mindset.

You can learn all the techniques you want and you may be able to attract some women here and there but you will never be keep women around without the abundance mindset.

Here are three steps that I have used and still use to obtain and reinforce the abundance mindset.

Number One - Do The Numbers At this current time according to worldmeters dot info there are 7.5 BILLION people on the planet! Out of those 7.5 BILLION people on the planet HALF of them are women. We are talking about 3.75 BILLION women.

Sure not all of those women are single and attraction but let’s just be super conservative and say that only 1 million of those women were single and attractive.

How long would it take you to approach 1 million women? You will probably never approach that many women in your lifetime even if you were a super pickup artist.

Out of all those women some of them are going to like just from the law of averages, it’s inevitable. You think out of 3.75 BILLION women NO WOMAN will ever like you? STOP!

Just off the sheer numbers alone if you are willing to approach you will find some women who will like you. If you gain the skills needed to get good with women and you are an approach machine now you are talking pussy galore.

I tell my students all the time, you will never turn on the news and hear the newscaster says, “The world has ran out of beautiful women and there is no more pussy available.” It is simply never going to happen. There is an infinite amount of women for you to talk to. I live in Los Angeles and in the county alone there are 10 million people.

Of those 10 million people 4.9 million of them are women. Again not all of those women will be single and attractive but even if just 1 million or even 500,000 of them are that is more women that I will be able to approach in a lifetime.

Those stats also don’t take into account the women who come to vacation in Los Angeles, many of whom I have had sex with and the women who come here to be an actress, move out of their small town, etc.

If you live in a small town, MOVE! Not only will there be more attractive women but more job opportunities, business opportunities, etc. Rid yourself of thinking there isn’t enough beautiful women in the world, the NUMBERS show other wise. The numbers are FACTS not motivational BS.

Number Two -Play The Numbers I’m going to tell you what a lot of dating coaches and pua’s won’t tell you. In the beginning of your journey with women and dating you are going to have to take massive action and approach A LOT of women. There is no way around it.

I know you have seen marketing from other pua’s or dating company’s selling you trick and techniques that tell you other wise but it’s simply NOT TRUE. You are going to have to put in consistent effort for AT LEAST 6 months, I say a year really but 6 months is the bare minimum if you want to start getting laid consistently.

If you don’t like that or can’t accept that fact then tough luck. There is no way around it and if any other person tells you other wise they are lying to you. I have been in the game 10 years and coaching for the last 3 or 4 and you simply can not skip this step.

I’m going to give you a number in which you need to operate in order to achieve your goals with women and dating as soon as possible, you need to approach 40 to 50 women a week.

You can approach 20 women on Friday night and 20 on Saturday night and 10 on Saturday day. From my personal and coaching experience approaching 50 women a week is the number that will get your dating life up and running.

Before you start to worry about having to approach that many women for the rest if your life you aren’t going to have to do that. Like I said previously, you will only have to approach that many women for 3 to 6 months and you will basically never have to worry about women and dating again.

If you do that for a year consistently you will be unstoppable. If you don’t believe me instead of bitching and complaining go out for 3 months and approach 50 women a weekend and see what type of results you get.

Number Three - Spin Plates Once you have gotten the skills needed to succeed with women and dating I highly recommend that you date multiple women for a couple of years.

This will not only show you that there are a lot of attractive women in the world but it will also learn how to manage relationships, keep women around, different character traits you like in women, etc.

Spinning plates will also improve your vibe infield as you will naturally be less clingy and needy because you actually have other options.

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