A major mistake that I see most guys make (and one I use to make) is that they don’t plan their dates with women. FOOLISH! You will get laid more on a date if you plan your dates. None of the guys I know who are successful with women just wing their dates. They have the ENTIRE thing planned while allowing some flexibility. I can tell you that when I started planning my dates I started getting laid more.

No matter what women say they like to be LEAD! Even the most “independent woman” like to be lead. My girlfriend who is not only attractive but one of the most independent women I have ever dated and makes WAY MORE money then I do at this point, interviews and gets hit on by CEOs all day, is friends with Richard Branson, basically has a much higher status then me in life but I lead her and run the relationship. She loves it and has told me that she likes it and it’s one of the reasons she is with me.

I lead from the beginning of meeting her and I planned the entire date and we had sex on the first date. She told me later that she loved that I planned the entire date and that it turned her on.

It’s in a woman’s nature to be lead by a man, going back to caveman and hunter gather times. No matter how much the feminist try to say men and women are equal when it comes to relationships there are no such thing as an equal relationship as there has to be feminine and masculine energy even in gay or lesbian relationships for their to be sexual polarity. So you either getting lead or leading and as a MAN you want to be the leader. Leaders get laid.

Here are the 5 reasons why you should plan dates whether you just meeting a woman or she has been your girlfriend for awhile.

Number One IT ALLOWS HER TO BE IN THE MOMENT. When a woman has to plan the date she has to think. When it comes to seducing a woman (and a date is apart of the seduction process) you don’t want a woman to think. You want her to be in the moment, experiencing the emotions of your charm and you seducing her. The song that says, “Girls just want to have fun” is very true. Women are emotional creatures and they are ADDICTED to men who give them good emotions. Planning dates allows her to have this experience and she will love you for it.

Number Two IT’S ATTRACTIVE TO BE LEAD. Again women want to be lead. They may never say it out loud or admit but that is what they want. All you have to say on a date is, “I want to take you to this place let’s go, you haven’t seen X yet, we must go, this place is so cool, follow me.” 9 out of 10 times the woman will just follow your lead because you are being the alpha male and women are very attracted to that.

Number Three MOST MEN HAVE NO PLAN. It’s truly sad that most guys have no plan when it comes to date. You really are shooting yourself in the foot when you do this. You are basically communicating to women that you aren’t a leader and you are FORCING her to be the leader. Nothing gets a dryer pussy then a guy who expects her to lead. The typically, “Where do you want to go? What do you want to do? Can I take you do dinner? Do you want to see a movie? Which movie do you want to see?” You might as well cut your balls off, seriously. Instead of saying that, make statements instead of asking questions, “We are going her, We are doing this, I’m taking you here, We are going to see this” See the difference?

Number Four IT’S INTERESTING. Women love a man who keeps them on their toes. Imagine for a woman going on another date with a guy who invites her to dinner and a movie while asking her the same boring questions and watching you stuff your face with food. How interesting does that sound? Or a guy who takes her to different places on the same date which she doesn’t know where it is going to be because you are leading her the entire date. Women will always choose the second because it’s different.

Number Five YOU WILL STAND OUT. The quickest way to get another date with a woman or sex is to STAND OUT from every other guy. After I have taken women out on a date a lot of them have told me that it was the best date they had ever been on and we either had sex on the first date or second date or sometimes after. A lot of them told me after we had sex that the date is what made them decide to have sex with me because it was SO DIFFERENT. My grandpa once told me, “Women have memories like an elephant” lol and from my experience I have found that to be very true. Women remember a good date and when you give me them a experience that is different from every other guy you are bound to get laid more then every other guy.

BONUS TIPS I wasn’t going to add these tips but I figured it wouldn’t be right now to and I always like to give concrete steps as I hate vague concepts So here it is:

GROUND RULES FOR DATES

Do The Date By Your Place Or Her’s. Logistically this will make it easier for you to get her back to your place or her place by inviting her to your place or inviting yourself to hers. You can even tell her to meet you at your place and that you guys to go from there so when the date ends she has to go back to her car at your place and it will be easier for you to invite her up to your place since she is already there.

Go To Multiple Venues Try to go to a place where there is multiple venues in one are ideally within walking distance of each other or at least short drives within each other. The more places you and her go the more it will feel like you known each other and that builds comfort. You need comfort with a woman in order for her to have sex with you, her just being attracted isn’t enough.

Kiss Her In The Middle Of The Date Not The End Every guy goes for the kiss at the end of the date. Go for the kiss 30 minutes into the date once you have built some more attraction and comfort. Of course, you should be physically escalating on the entire date. One thing I learned from my original dating mentor is when you first meet up with a woman for the date, kiss her on the cheeks to condition her for the kiss. It works.

Don’t Spend Anything Or More Then 20/30 Bucks On A Date Unless you have a lot of money expensive dates add up QUICK! On most of my dates I spend NO MONEY or no more then 20-30 bucks. Even if you do have a lot of money I still wouldn’t recommend spending a lot of money on a woman you just met. Reframe from doing that until after you have had sex with a woman a few times, it weeds out the users and abusers.

End The Date First Your date shouldn’t be more then an hour or two unless it leads to sex of course. Act like you have a life and she isn’t your entire world. Say, “I have to get out of here but this was fun, MAYBE we can do this again. Talk to you later.”

Date Ideas

  • Playing Pool
  • Multiple Bars
  • Arcade
  • Cooking Lessons
  • Picnic at park or beach while playing boardgames i.e. Uno, Monopoloy, etc.
  • Bowling
  • Museum
  • Target - I love this date! It free and fun and most of the women I took their loved it. You just role play in each section of target. Put on clothes, glasses, play with the toys, listen to music. Just tell them you are going to look for a birthday present for you little cousin, brother, sister, etc and you want her to come with you and you guys with do something after.
  • Roller Skating
  • Ice Skating
  • Improv Comedy Show
  • Stand Up Comedy Show
  • Playing Ping Pong
  • Book Store
  • Dance lesson
  • Aquarium
  • Brewery or Winery Tour
  • Miniature Golf
  • Gun Range
  • Art Gallery
  • Flea Market/ Thrift Store
  • Karaoke
  • Bingo Night
  • Rock Climbing
  • Pottery Class
  • Netflix And Chill [At The End Of The Date]
  • Cooking Together at your place [At The End Of The Date]

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Wishing you much success with women and dating.