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[–]FunnyKiwi 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
How did wwi soldiers charge trenches knowing they were going to get gunned down... they grew a pair and decided they didn't give a fuck about what was going to happen. Sorry about the exageration, just do it. After you get rejected the first 5 times its easy as fuck, and you will notice you dont give a fuck anymore. Once this initial fear is broken you will be the smooth talking man you always wanted to be.
[–]SoSmoothSinatra -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think the WWI reference is irrelevant. Many soldiers were drafted (forced into combat) Once they got there it wasn’t “growing a pair” that led them to charge trenches. Rather, knowing that if they didn’t they would be shot for desertion (which is still an act of treason). But yes, you do just need to grow a pair and take action. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take, even if they were going to be slam dunks on a child’s 3ft rim. Tackle the fear, you will be surprised how mediocre (probably not the right term) it was to let this fear hinder your life.
[–]FunnyKiwi 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yea, ik that they didnt really charge the trenches on their own will, but you get the point. OP is scared of talking to girls, meanwhile men his age have been throwing their lives away... its laughable when you compare the two
[–]SoSmoothSinatra -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know, I’m just fucking with you. <3 I agree. Fear is all mental and is ultimately only overcome through action (charging the trench, regardless of outcome). To OP: Here’s a good post that should help you get over this anxiety and fear you’re having. I would say “good luck” but that would mean this is a game of chance. You’re capable of doing this. Our species has done it for thousands of years. Get out of your own way, an abundance of joy (women) lies on the other side. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/76jyll/the_beginners_paradox/?st=J8TLLDI3&sh=8fad1f51https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/76jyll/the_beginners_paradox/?st=J8TLLDI3&sh=8fad1f51
[–]Tagterium -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Because they ran together as a regiment (group dynamics), they knew they would face serious consequences for not obeying orders or last but not least they were extremly motivated/aggressive and just wanted to see the enemy die.
[–]FunnyKiwi 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Injoker11 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
You just absorb the emotion of anxiety and convert this energy into arousal and courage. Emotions are just energy. Anxiousness is a low vibration energy, you can convert it into high vibration. Don't suppress them or try to control them. You should be glad you feel this emotion. It means you're alive. But the fact that you can't get past with the starting point of anxiousness, means you have an energetic blockage somewhere in your gut.
[–]DirkDieGurke 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do what you need to do, and if you're afraid, do it with fear.
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