I’m sure you have experienced the excitement of getting a girl’s number. A girl or girls who you felt as if you had some chemistry with and you were confident you were going to see again.

She was giving you all the signs and there was no reason for you to not think that you were going to see her again. You text her and she responds with, “Sorry I’m busy but maybe another day?”

That sucks and if you have any experience with women you know that the longer she gives you that excuse the less likely you are to see her. So let me give you a few reasons a woman may be saying that to you.

Number One – She Gave You Her Number To Get Rid Of You Believe it or not a lot of women do this. Some women have a hard time saying so they will give you their number to avoid what they think will cause conflict.

At times some women will give you their number will no attention of every seeing you again. Don’t take it personal, it has nothing to do with you. It has more to do with that woman having weak boundaries with her inability to say no. It’s apart of the game so accept it and move on.

Number Two – She Is An Attention Whore Women love attention! It is literally a drug for them. Rather single or married women love attention, it validates a lot of them.

If you get a responses but every time you mention hanging out she never replies she is an attention whore. Delete her number and move on.

Number Three – The Attraction Died Out Attraction is fleeting. A woman may have truly been attracted to you when she first met you but when you text her the next day she doesn’t feel the same.

There are many reasons for this; she is having a bad day, got back with her boyfriend, met another guy she likes more then you, etc. As your game gets better it will happen less and less but this is just apart of the game.

Number Four – You Are Needy In Your Text This is truly a killer when it comes to texting a woman you just met. I have been guilty of this in the past and a lot of my students are guilty of this.

Nothing will kill your chances and kill the attraction a woman has for you than being needy through text. Neediness is repellent when it comes to women. You will never see a woman again if you are needy through text, she will see it as a big red flag and you will be like every other guy.

Number Five – She Is Actually Busy Believe it or not women do have a life also and aren’t just sitting around planning their life around you. If a woman is attractive more likely than not she has a social circle and other things going on.

Here is the difference between women who are stringing you along versus those who are actually busy. She will tell you, “I’m busy on that day but how about this day.” A woman who is truly interested will give you solid answers. I have had this happen on numerous occasions, just play it cool you will get her out for a date.

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