This mistake makes me want to tear out my eyeballs.

Whenever I see a guy do this, I know it’s over for him and that woman.

It’s even more frustrating, because he’s done all the hard work!

He’s approached, caught the woman’s interest, won her over, swapped contact details…

Then, he’s made his excuses and bailed!

I understand the motives behind doing this. If you do it, you probably think you should escape before saying something to ruin it all.

But that attitude will harm your chances of her coming out to see you in future.

The goal isn’t to get her contact details, it’s to spend time with her.

So, don’t bail until one of you absolutely has to!

If you both have time, I recommend inviting her for a quick tea or coffee. This ‘instant date’ helps her get to know you better and makes her more comfortable with the idea of meeting again.

So please please please stop these ‘hit and run’ approaches. More time with her = more comfort = more likely to meet again.

If you're new to daygame, start inviting all girls for a quick drink if the set is going well.

Sometimes, she won't be able to, but you have nothing to lose! This is a good video that explains the benefits of asking her on an instant date.

On top of that, I'd recommend challenging yourself to stay in set just one minute more than what you're comfortable with! This will help you build up a tolerance for toughing it out in socially uncomfortable situations.

Often, when you do that, a new conversation topic will pop up and you'll end up spending an even longer more enjoyable time together.