The First Kiss.

nike747 · 2016-05-15T07:05:00+00:00

It's not a big deal. When you guys are close and being flirty and jokey with eachother and touchy feely, then you look her in the eyes and give her a pec.

Don't do it randomly.

TheXXL · 2016-05-15T11:58:00+00:00

Idk I can't seem to go in for a kiss even though I can tell I'm getting signals IOI's based on seddit.

Is it because you don´t feel it, as in, not feeling the urge to grab her head an make out with her? or is it more, that you feel it but it´s scary because she could reject you?

In the first case i would say, you are not attracted to her, so just go on and find another girl, If it´s the second, make yourself aware, she might turn her head when you go in for the kiss, just keep cool and continue with whatever you done before. Then try again a few minutes later.

I've never kissed a girl. Any tips for kissing her

Yes: don´t just ram your tounge into her mouth. Start small, gently kiss her upper, or lower lip, then slowly pull back.

idk if we'll be sitting across

In most cases this means you have a table in between you, this is the worst configuration you can think of. Avoid it at all costs! If you have to get up to sit besides her, just do it. Don´t be scared.

or beside each other.

Ramp it up by doing Kino to her, preparing her for this next step, and it´s a very good way to feel her out if she is even ready for it. Watch her body language when you touch her, if she pulls away, try again later with less intensity.

Should I just lay one on her at the lounge idk how to go about it.

Try this: When you meet, look at her, smile, then open your arms, hug her and give her a kiss on her cheek. Don´t worry, i have yet to meet a girl that activley tries to avoid that.

stielth · 2016-05-15T12:16:59+00:00

Dont plant one out of the blue without warning. Just go in for it! This is just a classic case of overthinking and not following through on the signals you have already gathered.

Title	The First Kiss.
Author	PheerlessKnight
Upvotes	3
Comments	3
Date	May 15, 2016 1:53 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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