When we speak for self improvement, one finds it easy to speak about a lot of changes a guy must undertake in order to become competitive in the field of dating >>> finding pussy >>>>>fucking that pussy.
Huge changes never being accomplished.
Small changes never being accomplished.
Any change needs a big drive to be accomplished for a small duration of time, then go again to the beginning.
A fat woman who wants to get married, can lose weight until she finds a guy and marry him. Then goes being fat again.
The clue here is the phrase “for a limited amount of time”.
Every change lasts for a limited amount of time. Yes. That's it.
How the hell you want a guy to torture himself so much whitout any other reason but to get laid AND in the same time he must stay indiferent for the outcome (pushing his penis to the hole of woman he speaks to).
What can we do about it?
Start small. (Buy better clothes, concentrate on body lunguage , go out one more day a week). Know that big changes aren't easy to achieve and maintain.
there doesn't seem to be anything here