WARNING: LONG READ, BUT HIGHLY VALUABLE

i want to talk about the importance of screening in this post. i have a great example that is from a day game approach that i did which ended up in me getting a number and texting with the girl to set up plans

i approached the girl in the park as she was walking by. she's a 30 year old white chick. did a basic approach, walked up to her, said i had to meet her, and then went into chatting. i was pretty solid in my overall frame/body language and she was into me from the get go. laughing at my jokes, smiling at me, open to conversation, giving me lots of IOIs, etc. was going good. then i started sexually framing the conversation. i commented on her attire which was tight shorts and said they looked great. nothing overt, just sprinkling in some sexual flavor into the convo. eventually i got her number and said we can make plans to meet

i go to text her and she responds quickly. i asked for her schedule and she was busy most of this week. now at this point i tried to screen this girl hard. i suggested drinks and then i hinted that if drinks go good maybe we can put on a film at my place. she calls me out and says that's pretty forward. fair enough, but this is vital information. why? because i am SCREENING.

screening is important as fuck. if you are not screening, you are wasting your time, period. after she called me out i tried to pull back and see if she wanted to just meet for drinks, she said she would if that's all i was expecting. i said i was down. i had an idea of how i would proceed, i won't get into it because in the end this set went to the shitter anyway. so i hit her up the next day to try and get her schedule. she doesn't respond. hit her up the day after which is today and asked if drinks are still going to happen. this is the text exchange:

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this text conversation is HUGE because it confirms so much. first of all. my last 3 texts were me "concern trolling". ideally, after she gave me that rejection text that i am too "physically motivated" i would have just stopped responding. if i was running high volume, i would have nexted her off right there, boom, it's done. but i wanted to delve deeper into this, so i started "concern trolling" which you can see from my texts. and it was so so key that i did this because look at her last text.

"yeah i would tone that down in the future with someone you just met... you need to let girls build up trust first"

this is MASSIVE. now, to the average guy or average chode what does this mean? well, these guys would literally take this text at face value. they would be so god damn chodey that if they were put in this situation again, they would take it 100% slow, don't try to seed a pull, don't try to make things sexual at all, go on 2-3 dates and get pecks on the cheek each time. these are the guys that would take this girl's advice and try to "build up trust first".

when i see this text, what do i see? i see just another girl that has been screened out. when you're doing pick up, over 80% of the girls that you approach need to be screened out. this girl in particular, should have been screened out much sooner. she managed to slip through the funnel though and is getting screened out now. and the reason she is being screened out is because she is not sexually and physically open. when your goal is to fuck girls, cultivate fuck buddies, and overall have a blast of a sex life. you NEED to screen out exactly these types of girls. because THEY ARE NOT YOUR MARKET. it's like selling a TV to a homeless man. you don't sell to the homeless man, you sell to the rich CEO. because the rich CEO has money and he will be incredibly lax while he is making that purchase, it's no big deal to him. the purchase is a massive deal for the hobo. similar to this girl, the idea of sex with a cool and decent looking guy that she just met is a MASSIVE deal for her. which is why in the end, you SHOULD NOT be associating with these girls. you should be screening them out as soon as you determine their prude/virgin tendencies

to expand on this, i was texting with the same girl for a bit more. and the more i've been texting with her, the more i'm convinced that she should have never gotten this far in my funnel. you have to be careful when you're texting with these girls, because they try to brainwash you into believing that girls won't fuck you on the first date. her argument is that she needs multiple dates before she "gets to know someone" and then goes home with them and considers sex

if you're a guy in the pick up community, you need to screen these girls out as soon as possible. i have fucked plenty of girls on DATE 1 and it has been so easy for me to do it on a handful of occasions. that's because these girls were horny and sexually open. this girl that i am texting with is not. she is sheltered. and she even gave me a sheltered response at one point by saying that "tinder is for getting laid". it's outstanding. first she doesn't know the reality that there is a decent percentage of women out there that will fuck you on date 1 no questions asked because they LOVE sex and don't see it as a big deal with a random dude that looks decent. second she doesn't know the reality that tinder is absolute dog shit for the bottom 80% of men in terms of looks, it does not work.

HO-LY SHIT. but it's okay, i expected this level of ignorance from someone, female or male, that hasn't been involved in the dating/casual sex sphere as much as i have (been doing this for almost 6 years now).

tl;dr SCREEN HARD, DON'T BELIEVE THE BULL SHIT