Having a good state of mind is key to meeting new partners. The past two or so weeks, I was finally able to get over a mental slump that I was in about women. I said to myself in my head “stop doubting yourself. You know that you can make a girl very happy and you are decently attractive and that’s more than enough. Every time you meet a girl, go in with the intention of making friends and see what happens.” I have noticed girls check me out more than ever before. Also, once you have this mentality to socialize with girls instead of looking at them as potential holes and nothing else, they come to you a lot more easily and will even go out of their way to interact with you. This mentality has made me a lot more content with myself, less nervous around women and in public in general, and it has helped me feel more attractive as a result. Instead of avoid human interaction in public and acting like I don’t see people, I now feel confident scanning a room, having a convo with a stranger, and checking out girls with no fear of them looking back because yes, I was checking you out.

Find what state of mind works for you. Tell yourself the truth, observe how other people interact and go about their lives. This could be more of a general post instead of just once/seduction, but still this is my advice. I hope you all have a great holiday season.