Once you've met a wide range of women, you'll begin to figure out which types you tend to vibe with better and you'll begin to categorize women into phylum.

ex.

Phylum 1 : women you would genuinely just want to be friends with, no sexual attraction whatsoever

Phylum2 : women you would want as fuck buddies

Phylum3 : women you'd want to just chill and netflix with (actual chill and netflix)

Phylum4 : women you'd want to go to concerts with. I myself enjoy classical music and have met an opera singer that enjoys it as well.

Phylum5 : women who are up for spontaneous adventures and so on and so forth.

Phylum6 : relationship material. she's worth investing a majority of my time into.

When you have oneitis, is it really because you are enraptured by her? Have you met enough women to fully decide that she is worth your time or are you just desiring her out of scarcity. There are times when oneitis is appropriate, if you've truly found someone that you're like. Yeah, I've met this type of woman and that type of woman, but HER. I won't meet one like this for months/years. (NOT saying I'll never meet anyone as amazing as her, no, you will)