What we ultimately all want.

Goofydoodle · 2015-09-15T16:53:39+00:00

Man I just wanna get laid and fuck bitches

thenakedspeaker · 2015-09-15T17:22:59+00:00

This is spot on man. In my opinion, once you get past the I just wanna fuck everything that moves stage, you arrive here. And it's a beautiful place to be.

mulciber_ · 2015-09-15T14:53:22+00:00

But you can't get better without practicing for hours right?

sedtawy · 2015-09-15T16:58:36+00:00

I don't know. Getting laid is pretty good. Haha.

No. Honestly, I just like the feeling of being social, doing fun things and hanging out with interesting people.

Spending time with women in whatever context is just part of that.

CrushHazard · 2015-09-15T18:01:49+00:00

I think every guy's goal is different. It depends a lot on a guy's "idle sex drive" (I just made that up), which is a guy's sex drive when he hasn't had sex with a woman for a long period of time (say a few months).

Obviously a man's sex drive changes when he is getting regular sex.

My idle sex drive has always been out of control. A lot of guys out there say that they don't have motivation to get some unless they do no-fap for a while. When I was single I would practically injure myself masturbating and still have a raging desire to get laid.

So yeah, for some guys it's more about just enjoying life, but for other guys out there, getting laid is top priority.

hollanug · 2015-09-15T23:12:07+00:00

When you said the female essence that resonates pretty deeply. We are all emotional creatures of this planet. Those emotions and desires are chemically bound to our soul and brains. This is something that makes us human. I feel like these connections that are bestowed upon all of us come flooding out when we are surrounded by others especially women. We desire for lust, love, compassion, friendship, and Stewardness to help adavamce through every emotionally spiritual moment of life. We have the sense of touch, and once we touch another loving being of existence, our brains release a flow of serotonin and other feel good chemicals that relax us. This was an evolutionary trait that was developed between many species who had to spend time in hiding, or in caves running from beast and the daily struggles of life.

SlipstreamDrive · 2015-09-15T23:37:54+00:00

Don't forget 'get money'

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2015-09-16T04:55:48+00:00

I was just thinking about this earlier today. Most guys use and learn game to get women. They're essentially learning skills that aren't taught in school or from parents. While it is good to get better with women, being more confident in life, and all the other benefits, you absolutely CANNOT derive your happiness from women's validation of you.

There are downsides to game that I have seen firsthand; some of my friends devoted themselves to game and they've become misogynistic and are constantly seeking new women as if they are trying to fill a void in their heart. If you take game to the extreme and become a social robot, you lose your sense of self. I highly doubt you'll be able to have a girlfriend because you'll always think some hotter girl is out there (if you think game is life). Overall, integrating seduction into your life is fine but be careful not to go overboard.

Title	What we ultimately all want.
Author	unorthodoxintrovert
Upvotes	7
Comments	12
Date	September 15, 2015 2:23 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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