Self-development question I had an argument with a lady friend about. In my opinion, if you're working on yourself and you're constantly growing and improving, then you are far better than the lazy dude in his mid 20s that lives at home with his parents, no education, eating junk food, not taking care of his health. She was arguing that it's wrong to think highly of yourself, because if you view highly of yourself, you'll view lowly of others, which i disagreed. Just went in circles.