When I was active on Tinder, paying for boost, gold, super likes..etc, I slept with 7 different girls in 10 days

And then I was rotating 3 girlfriends

Some of them were attractive, my sex life was great.

I thought if I have a good sex life, I won't look needy and desperate when I cold approach girls in streets/bars.

Which is somewhat true, you are more confident and less needy when you are sleeping with and dating multiple girls.

Girls can smell this confidence and be more attracted to you.

Until I met a friend who opened my eyes to a dark side of Tinder.

That it makes you lazy and don't NEED cold approach.

You approach less and go out less.

Tinder dates are also a big waste of time, in the 2-3 hours date that may fail, you can approach 10-20 girls.

So while my sex life was great, my cold approach skills deteriorated badly, approach anxiety peaked as if I am a total noob again.

For 3 months I have never had a lay from cold approach.

And ask yourself honestly, are the girls from Tinder what you deserve? Is that your true potential?

You start to rate yourself equal to your Tinder matches.. so you while you are having sex, you are definitely sure that hot girls in streets and clubs are out of your league because you match with wombats on Tinder.

So I deleted Tinder, and it was the best decision in my life. All the girls I was dating dumped me, and I stopped having sex.

And this made me really mad..this motivated me a lot to approach girls as if I am fighting for survival.

Not to mention a new feeling of pride and confidence that I am a man with standards who don't talk or text average chicks.

And yesterday I approached the girl of my dreams in the street, we had 3 hours insta-date, and we are meeting again tonight on New years eve.

We really like each other, to a degree that we are both nervous to fukk it up.

She is gorgeous, I can never match with her no matter how much money I pay to Tinder or how good is my text game.

She doesn't even use Tinder, so I could have never met her.

And I really don't understand you guys using Tinder, what do you do when you see a beautiful girl in a restaurant, cafe or mall..etc? Do you tell yourself I hope I match with her on Tinder one day 🤔?

You feel sorry for yourself because you don't know how to approach it. Cold approaching is a skill that all men must possess, like shaving and tying your shoe skill. Seeing a hot girl and being helpless is a really bad feeling.

Delete that shit guys and man the fukk up. You deep down know you are using Tinder because you don't have the tough mindset to cold approach...