Tinder Sitch

dvdchstr · 2017-10-01T22:29:15+00:00

So you were trying to get her to chase but your message kind of sub communicates the opposite. Like it establishes that you're going to try to put together the best date ever, which 1. Is a lot of pressure on both of you and 2. Makes the 'if you're lucky' come off weird because it doesn't fit with the frame you're actually communicating.

I would just drop this one. In the future maybe drop the idea of negging entirely. It's just so easy to see through and lets her know that you thought she needed to be negged, which means you perceive your own value as lower than hers.

If you really want to try with this girl maybe something like 'how about just drinks and maybe you can show me some secrets of the YouTube trade'. It's a long shot but I don't think there's a magic line here. Going direct like this takes any pressure off and shows her you're interested in and not intimidated by the things she works hard on.

paladin400 · 2017-10-01T22:35:43+00:00

Saying stuff like that only works in person. It requires confidence, the right tone, right body language and the right set up. Saying it on text however....to someone you just met....it comes off as both slightly desperate and pretentious.

There is no recovery from that. Keep it light, keep it simple next time. And it goes without saying, don't make sentences like that

throwawaylata · 2017-10-01T21:38:17+00:00

You fucked up

derptwerk · 2017-10-01T22:57:08+00:00

it's not necessarily that you fucked up. some girls are occasionally weird as fuck. last night I used a pickup line that I made up and the girl said "was that you showing that you're also a big bowie fan or was that a genius way of getting me to ask you out?" and then I followed that one up with a "maybe it was both", followed by bam a second line in the same vane as the first, thinking "fuck yes. double whammy. smooth as butter" and then: she just doesn't respond. in any other universe, I had her. but nope. in this universe, this girl is just weird. maybe she just couldn't be bothered to take things in the way I was obviously pulling them in, maybe she just changed her mind about my pics. maybe it could have been any of those things. sometimes you've just got to understand that girls aren't always consistent. sometimes the wind will change and so will their mind.

Title	Tinder Sitch
Author	tulipszs
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	October 1, 2017 8:57 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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