Earlier this year I was going out with upwards of two new women a week. I even got an "f-close" after a long dry spell.

But I got "oneitis" and obsession for a chick who was completely cold. I ended up all fucked up in the head because I wanted her a lot more than she wanted me.

I finally realized "she's just not that into me" so to speak, broke it off, and decided to take a 4-5 week break from dating (and everything else... flirting on the street, etc.).

Any advice for getting my head back in the game? I feel 50% desperate to get laid again, and 50% tired of it all. I'm exhausted from always having to be the initiator of contact, following up with flaky women, and suffering through date after date that leads nowhere.

Thanks.