So I just want to know whats the general tone you would use when talking to a girl. I live in a small town and I don’t want to seem like a weirdo making advances on girls who know my friends.

Do girls like guys who are indirectly flirty or more direct with their intentions? I’m having a hard tine finding a balance as I seem to get more results when I’m a little cheesy and direct but when I try to be indirect and mysterious, I think I come off as uninterested and boring. Help?