Hello,

I had quite the interesting conversation today with a lady. She's been quite direct in some matters and told me, that I seem quite serious and therefore cold and that it might come off as arrogant.

She ain't really wrong. I'm certainly the quiet kind of person and always pretty serious. Putting some thought into it I came to realize that I'd like to change that to the better and not just for the sake of getting women. I think that this is also a topic that might come up here every now and then and wonder if people have gone through a change like that before and what they worked on or if you folks have ideas on what one can do to improve himself in these things.

cheers