I was playing this game where you say different adjectives about a topic. I described a girl that i was dating as pretty, sexy, hot.

I realized that's exactly what holds me back when I am talking to girls. Normally if you ask me to describe a guy friend, I would probably go weird, funny, kind, sporty and so on. Personality traits and nothing about how they look.

Damn I do see girls as a piece of meat. No wonder I can't find things to talk about with them. I don't see the attractive ones as people, just a pretty face and a nice ass. That's got to change if I want to build an emotional connect with a pretty girl.

I don't know how many of us realize that we do this. And when you do start looking at them as normal people, you ease up and connect easily with them.

Just my 2 cents. Over and out.