Took her on a date…

eszibit · 2022-10-30T09:14:17+00:00

I don't think u needed IOI's. The fact that she accepted the date and was with you for 6 hours is a big freakin IOI. Did u try to kiss?

She is from a conservative background, how do you think she'd know how to flirt?

I had girls like that and you really need to know what you're doing and push the boundaries. From my point of view you messed up on multiple levels. You didn't know how to take charge, you're now complaining on reddit and you didn't learn anything from it.

Sorry if it seems mean, i don't want it to sound like it. The only good thing you got going for you, is that these types of girls don't pressure you into anything and they can give u multiple chances, since they are not just dating around and hop on to the next guy.

Plan another date, have fun ( stop with the waste of time, having a good date is never a waste of time ) and for the love of God be more manly and touch her ( friendly ) and go for a kiss. She might say no 1-2-3 times, but as long as she's not offended or upset, just carry on, make her laugh and feel good and try again.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-10-30T08:57:51+00:00

What did she want? Women often times enter dating without a specific goal in mind. If she's from such a background expect problems. Many just want to get married before doing anything at all

Unique_Suspect8711 · 2022-10-30T15:10:36+00:00

Jesus. Do you read what you write?

You literally said her innocence turns you on (you kinky bastard you) and now you are surprised she didn’t just give you head in a park on a first date (im being sarcastic don’t get all emotional on me)???

Gal has zero dating experience, she was probably excited to spend a day with a fun boy and my man…it will take a long time before you even kiss her. And she will blush big time.

Decide on your target market. Date Jessicas and get head or date inexperienced quiet girls and do the work.

Another option is that your game sucks and you thought pulling a repressed girl will be easy lay. If that’s the case, you’re an asshole

Milksteaknow · 2022-10-30T13:05:40+00:00

Did you not go for the kiss at the end? Regardless of IOIs…always go for the kiss. Some girls simply don’t show IOIs yet when you go for the kiss you’re taken back by how into it they are.

Petyr111 · 2022-10-30T13:03:31+00:00

So you didn't go for a kiss and is complaining about her? I don't get it.

Always kiss in the first date. Is she refuses, there won't be a second date from my part.

What did you want her to do?

cryptosis420 · 2022-10-30T15:30:38+00:00

https://youtu.be/TrRbB-qUJfY

weird-but-hawt · 2022-10-30T14:59:12+00:00

I would never date religious arab girls from those backgrounds...

Their families are unwilling to adapt to Western values and you might get stabbed to death by one of her brothers to honour the family.

Repulsive-Fee393 · 2022-10-30T13:26:02+00:00

So when I was younger I took my now ex gf out for the first time, she was hot so I was quite nervous, but my headspace was i’m going to kiss this girl whatever happens. So I pick her up from work, we stop at McDonalds for a drink, get on the bus, end up at the park on the benches, it’s kind of awkward and quiet, but like I said headspace, I pick my moment and go for the kiss, she rejects me, turns away and continues talking, she’s still here and I’m still hanging in so a few minutes later I try again and we lock lips for about 2 seconds before she pulls away and says why are we kissing, ffs right. Anyway a bit more chitchat and I go for it a third time and we’re now making out. Sooooo idk micro ioi’s might not be worth reading into too much, maybe the macro point of view is more important. But you definitely should have kissed her, idiot.

Title	Took her on a date…
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	42
Comments	57
Date	October 30, 2022 8:54 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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