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god damn it :))
/r/seduction01/11/22 03:55 PM
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The cold hard truth is she met someone "better" . That could mean a hot guy that banged her well, maybe went to a bar and hooked up, maybe someone with more financial security. Does it really matter? Dating is a shit show right now and women don't value the connection as much as you think or as you've been trained to think. The narrative since we were young was that women are special snowflakes and you need to woo them n shit. Nope, nope, nope. The same snowflakes are the ones getting fucked in …
/r/seduction01/11/22 03:53 PM
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If you think the chance of getting harmed is more than 0% i would just look for another girl, there are plenty out there and it's never worth it
/r/seduction30/10/22 03:31 PM
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Fair enough, i don't know enough about the culture to have an opinion on that, i was just saying if she is a normal conservative girl
/r/seduction30/10/22 03:30 PM
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i swear to God or any fake deity that you think is thinking about our puny lives that she won't slap you. These type of innocent girls are the best imo and are totally worth the pursuit. If she agrees to a 2nd date she likes you. But that doesn't mean she will let you kiss her that easy so even if it doesn't work the 1st time, laugh it off, change the subject, try again later. But yeah, would love to know if it worked.
/r/seduction30/10/22 09:44 AM
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​ women are women are women, they respond to same stuff, especially since she is not used to being touched by guys. But this girl seems to be girlfriend material, so really think if you want to go for it or not. Break the touch barrier, and go for the kiss, no excuses. you got this bro, try again
/r/seduction30/10/22 09:27 AM
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I don't think u needed IOI's. The fact that she accepted the date and was with you for 6 hours is a big freakin IOI. Did u try to kiss? She is from a conservative background, how do you think she'd know how to flirt? I had girls like that and you really need to know what you're doing and push the boundaries. From my point of view you messed up on multiple levels. You didn't know how to take charge, you're now complaining on reddit and you didn't learn anything from it. Sorry if it seems mean, i …
/r/seduction30/10/22 09:14 AM
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yeap, this is the way
/r/seduction29/10/22 06:48 AM
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you might be right, but even that trait that she does not show her ass off is a high regarded quality, at least in my book
/r/seduction28/10/22 09:21 PM
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yeah, don't look at that. Look if she is prioritizing you in group interactions, how much she laughs at your jokes ( especially if she laughs at your bad jokes ) , is she sits close to you, if she touches you, prolonged eye contact, if through texts she responds quickly, if she asks you questions bout yourself and is genuinely interested in you, if she remembers stuff about you. Those are much better Indicators Of Interest ( IoI's )
/r/seduction28/10/22 06:46 PM
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Solid. Thank you.
/r/seduction28/10/22 05:49 PM
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Do this : Ask something about her and follow up with your perception about it, or stories about it. Don't wait for her to ask. Do this 2-3 times. 4th time ask something about her and don't say anything about it yourself, wait for her to ask and leave it a bit silent. See what happens. If she doesn't ask, dump her on the spot, too self involved
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:53 PM
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Yeah, exactly, i think a cute girl with an awesome personality is the way to go. Not sure if you're a gamer, but i just stumbled on girlfriend reviews channel, and even though she's not gorgeous that sense of humor makes her a catch
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:45 PM
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So is Mate : become the men women want, not sure what the hell happened in the previous comment, i didn't have a stroke or anytegdbndbefblb.e.
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:44 PM
16

Damn!! Whoever you are, you are the man. Teach me your ways
/r/seduction28/10/22 03:46 PM
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If you feel the need to act a certain way i don't think the relationship will last. One of the times you will slip up and she will see it and the trust is gone. My best relationships/hookups were when i was 100% myself. Nasty, crazy, kind, emotional, manly. If she can't learn to love that then your foundation is off and sooner or later it will crumble. So my advice is, be yourself as much as possible. Not needy, maybe you need to change some stuff about yourself that sucks, but the things you li…
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:25 PM
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True, you move on but there's limited offer, so you can move on what...5-6 times before that's all the girls of reproductive age that are single? So the stakes are high
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:25 PM
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I don't buy any of the other answers, it's innate actually and you just need to overcome your instincts. As a society we've been living in 200 people tribes for most of our history, if the girl you liked from that tribe didn't like you back, the chances that you could never reproduce would be astronomical. I think oneitis is actually the healthy standard and if both people have it for each other it would be called true love. If only one person has it it's a sickness. It's a pick-up artist invent…
/r/seduction28/10/22 01:17 PM
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ok, maybe she really didn't have the time but the other points stand
/r/seduction27/10/22 10:24 AM
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It's a bit complicated since the culture is different, but women are women and being disinterested and rude is the same across the globe. This is how i see the situation, maybe i'm wrong but you got: Hard to meet-up ( i understand the culture but there are girls working 12hours and still going on dates, if a girl really likes you SHE WILL MAKE AN EFFORT ) She was looking at the phone and especially tinder, that shows a low quality woman and disinterest. There's no culture excuse for that. If she…
/r/seduction27/10/22 08:04 AM
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while good pics do make a small difference, maybe half a point, it way too little for OLD standards. women swipe right on the top 5% , you won't get there just with good pics.
/r/seduction27/10/22 06:18 AM
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While that it's true, i was saying it gets normalized in the looks department, where an average guy that talks well, dresses well can do pretty good but the same guy online gets crushed. Being intelligent and being socially apt are 2 different things, i've known really smart women falling for shitty lines and dumbasses, that's experience. Same as rich guys who crush their fields and end up broke cuz a girl played the game better. Git gud :))
/r/seduction26/10/22 05:43 PM
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ok, fair enough, if we're talking specifically about looks, average women tend to be prettier than average men. But i was talking average ( as in the average of their whole person, looks+money+charisma+real life experience etc etc ) and when you combine those, average men are less in the looks department but more in the other departments. That's why i always say OLD is a losing game for normal men but good for normal women. "Average looking women don’t get any romantic attention from ig" I disag…
/r/seduction26/10/22 04:38 PM
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yeah, it's still online stuff. In real life things are normalized for women as well
/r/seduction26/10/22 04:32 PM
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sure, but you're talking about values here. i was just talking context, not values for women, where he is on the social hierarchy on that specific situation.
/r/seduction26/10/22 04:32 PM
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yeap, but what can you do...some people are just like that, life will show him what's what.
/r/seduction26/10/22 03:48 PM
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True but women are more social creatures in some ways and pick guys depending on the availability, not exactly the characteristics. The same guy that is ok and she would date him if he met him at dancing, would be a guy that she swipes left on tinder, would be a guy that wouldn't talk to in a club cuz he's not 6feet, is the same guy that on a yacht he's surrounded by guy with money and he's not top of the food chain. So context matters. For guys, context doesn't matter, we know what we like and …
/r/seduction26/10/22 03:48 PM
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i'm not passive aggresive, i'm full on aggresive, i told you you're a spoiled little shit. you don't even see the irony here. Anyway, i'm done with you, go fuck yourself
/r/seduction26/10/22 02:48 PM
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Kudos on her if she knows her own value, but sadly she's overvaluing herself. Ig and social media made girls think they are better than they are, that's why there's so much confusion right now. In the old days, you met in real life, so mediocre chicks ( 5s-7s ) would see the hot guys go with the hot women ( 9s-10s ) assortment theory i think it's called. So they would understand that they don't get to play at that level. Now they don't see that and are happy " now knowing " or just " hoping " li…
/r/seduction26/10/22 02:46 PM
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fuck off, but also thank you :))
/r/seduction26/10/22 02:39 PM
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Pretty cool post. The thing is, i'm old enough to remember things were not this, 10-15years ago. If you kissed someone that meant something, if you went on a date that meant something. Things changed a lot and in my opinion for the worse, the attraction is not there because these 5s-7s think they deserve only 9s - 10s or they just can handle their sexual stuff with dildos vibrators and all kinds of gadgets. If the same girl wouldn't of had the sexual experience of really hot guys or modern devic…
/r/seduction26/10/22 02:31 PM
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So you deleted your comment like a little bitch, cuz you got downvoted to hell, and you you tell me to stfu. Boy, you got problems, i pity the women that you date
/r/seduction26/10/22 02:23 PM
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hint. it's not he pictures, it's the guy. If he looks good he can have selfies and still have a ton of matches even if the ( shitty ) norm is that guy shouldn't take selfies. That' why tinder is shit for normal people and great for good looking people.
/r/seduction26/10/22 12:31 PM
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The man took time and wrote to you a very good response and you're acting like a spoiled little shit. No matter what hobbies you have or how interesting you are, you have therapy to go to that's more pressing.
/r/seduction26/10/22 11:32 AM
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yeap, true that. For long term i think somethink that will be based on both your values is the best one, like volunteering or political stuff
/r/seduction25/10/22 03:12 PM
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Somewhat i agree but: Bars: Separate tables but there's no reason you can't go over there and introduce yourself. You are breakin the norms but if you're polite and nice it's usually not a problem. If a girl is open to meeting people, she will do it anywhere. Clubs: Yeah, but that's why you have to try and not give up, people are there to have fun. But it's hard to talk so maybe not the best place. I'd add volunteering/dancing or any social thing that you can be a part of will get u some chances…
/r/seduction25/10/22 02:26 PM
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Yeah, it seems you have some serious issues, no joke. I mean, i like women too but you need to have other hobbies, friends, a life besides fucking.
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:00 PM
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Thanks for the advice! I’ll wait a little longer to ask if their relationship status. I already make my intentions clear when I first approach, there isn’t really a need to jump to the status. I definitely need more practice, appreciate the feedback
/r/seduction24/10/22 06:52 PM
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if she likes you it doesn't matter what type of a hotel it is more or less.
/r/seduction24/10/22 06:50 PM
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ok, i used to live in the Philippines and public displays of affection are kinda frown upon there too. So just invite her to your place to cook for her or watch a movie or something.
/r/seduction24/10/22 04:49 PM
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Pretty good interactions, i like your vibe but to be honest the "are you single" line is not that good, in my humble opinion. Since you need her to make a decision about you right then and there. Which is kinda fine if you're very good-looking, otherwise game will come in handy. So if you ask right off the bat it takes that option away. But if you don't ask and just talk a bit, make her laugh a bit and feel comfortable, the chances that she will say she's not single go way down. " i have a boyfr…
/r/seduction24/10/22 04:43 PM
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Very true, and if you're not in the top 10% it can def crush your self esteem.
/r/seduction24/10/22 04:36 PM
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Well, you basically talk to her, go for a walk and try to touch her on the lower back to "guide" her and just be friendly/flirty. Now it depends on you how bold you can be, i had situation where we sat down for a coffee and literally dragged her chair closer to mine ( most like that, it shows some strength and assertiveness ) , or if we're on a bench in the park just get closer to her, to make it obvious i'm in charge and i know what i want. Girls usually know what's up, so if you're kinda funny…
/r/seduction24/10/22 04:35 PM
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I have a friend like that, scored so much pussy you wouldn't believe it. He got married to , i kid you now, a girl that used to go and suck Dubai cock for a living. She was a nice girl overall, but surely had some deep issues. His parents were against it..but he is a dumbass. Long story short, they got divorced in a few years. Still a dumbass pretty boy. Some people live life on easy difficulty and don't even know it. No growth, no wisdom, no maturity. The buddha had to leave his easy life to ge…
/r/seduction20/10/22 09:11 PM
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Pretty sure here it's about people talking with the intent of going on a date ( like what normal people do ) and some girls string guys along just for the validation/attention. So it's a list of things to watch out for, when you meet a narcissist. The same can be made about men, guys that lie about their intention, that make a girl feel like she's the one only to ghost after. That's shitty behavior
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:16 PM
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Oh God, repiller, chill out, i know it's way above your maturity level but guys can be friends with girls. Also, i'm not saying to just be friends with her to fuck her, just be friends if you like her and have the same values. Anyway, i'm done, go bother someone else, you're boring me
/r/seduction20/10/22 06:11 PM
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Expectations come from normal human behavior. Like if you meet a friend you expect him to be nice to you and are surprised if he's not and he should have a good reason. Like if you meet a neighbor, you expect him to be polite or at least neutral, not to want to stab you. And if you talk to a girl, with the obvious intention of dating, you expect to..you know.. go on a date. Are we so removed from reality that normal human interaction has become a thing of the past? "If you expect a woman to agre…
/r/seduction20/10/22 05:17 PM
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Actually no, it shows some people are just shitty. Expecting to talk to someone and meeting up, when they show interest is normal human behavior. Having posts like this that show shitty behavior is pretty helpful
/r/seduction20/10/22 03:57 PM
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nope, didn't say 10% 220, i hate roided up morons that think that's the norm. I'm saying decent body like brad pitt in fight club, lean with some muscle. I can't throw up random numbers like how much would mercury poisoning make you insulin resistant because there is 1. how much poison you have, 2. how much you can detox. And that's just one simplistic example. Also, you talk a lot about choices. What does microplastic do to the prefrontal cortex? There are plenty of people making shitty choices…
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:54 PM
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yeah, you're just wrong, as many people are, including a lot of shitty trainers. There's immense variability in the human genome and without targeted help you won't see a good body probably ever. There are thousands of chemicals we are exposed to everyday that affect everything in your body, endocrine system, liver, hormones etc. Only the damn xenoextrogens make is hard as fuck to have a normal functioning body. Things like mthfr gene, mercury poisoning, thyroid gland problems and the list goes …
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:54 PM
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Actually it's a really good post, it shows narcissistic traits and a lot of inexperienced men ( i fell into that trap a few times ) don't know how to handle or recognize. It's actually one of the best posts i've seen here in a while, if i'd have an award i'd give you one.
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:26 PM
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Judging by your comments you just need validation/attention. You probably "earn" women's attention because you look good, since they approach you. And don't give me gym bullshit, gym only works if you're body wants to build muscle, if it doesn't it's a whole lot more complex. Good for you, lucky to be genetically blessed. It's like a rich kid saying " why do you guys chase money, isn't it just handed down? And opportunities just arrive for you? " .
/r/seduction20/10/22 10:15 AM
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So you don't understand how social interactions work huh? Of course people will comment on stuff you say, otherwise it would seem he's not listening to you. Also, how the f could someone know what you want him to comment on or not. " back when i was thinner " and he says " ok" compared to " my job is really stressful " should he say "ok" then too? How would normal conversations go? I swear to God, most women want guys to just read their minds. Stop dating, take some time to read and go to therap…
/r/seduction20/10/22 10:12 AM
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A lot of women will think arrogance is actually confidence so they will fall for them. Also these guys probably look decent/manly, so maybe they have the looks for it. Also a lot of women are really dumb when trying to find a guy and they have shitty values for it, so quantity means nothing really. The high value guys you know maybe don't have that much skill with women or just prefer normal women because the 8+ , the models, the stunners, usually are very fucked up by instagram and society in g…
/r/seduction19/10/22 05:09 PM
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Maybe he's better than you in some other ways. Not trying to be a hater here, but just looked a bit on your profile and you have a few pics where you're asking for advice for your hair. You look pretty good, as in manly, but look so aggressive, especially in those pics. I have no idea how you are in real life but judging by the limited ammount of information, like the "rant" here and the mean mugging face there, maybe you are too angry at times and upset? Also asking random people advice for you…
/r/seduction16/10/22 11:15 AM
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i feel you're a good candidate for this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F2JJ4N2uXuc 😂
/r/seduction15/10/22 04:38 AM
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are you dumb or just pretending? I'm talking strictly about looks here. Looks is how healthy you look and how good body fat to muscle mass you have. You can't honestly picture in your head a 50yo with some muscle and little body fat vs a 20yo guy who is 250pounds of mostly fat?
/r/seduction14/10/22 08:18 AM
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It's not about muscles, it's about being fit and dressing well. Think of a brad pit type vs a fedora fat fuck :))
/r/seduction14/10/22 06:06 AM
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Yeah, girls love a deep voice, it shows a good amount of testosterone. Think Barry white, Jocko willink or Kratos from the last god of war, not sure who voices him. A deep voice is a panty wetter for sure.
/r/seduction13/10/22 06:50 PM
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" I've heard it be said that a woman can determine whether she would sleep with someone within 5 seconds to 15 min of meeting them" I heard this too but i don't believe it to be true, i know girls that are turned off even though the guy looks hot, something like " he looks good until he opens his mouth " and on the flip side, normal guys that can flirt their way into a girls pants. Like for guys ( some of them, me included ) when a girl tells me she into astrology my interest tanks. Or, i this j…
/r/seduction13/10/22 06:30 AM
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Yeap, truth be told getting ioi's before the interaction makes it much easier, even if it's even fake ioi's.
/r/seduction13/10/22 06:23 AM
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Sure, but i meant to say that sometimes IOIs are just normal friendly behavior ( that's why a lot of people are confused ) and sometimes girls try and show interest and fail due to shyness or lack of knowledge. So instead of trying to figure out shit like that ( but i do get your point, besides the obvious ) just shoot your shot and see what happens. For me i picked up a russian gorgeous chick that didn't give me any iois since she was sunbathing, but did get heavy iois from a chinese chick at a…
/r/seduction13/10/22 06:18 AM
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Yeah, no. There's plenty of people that think they get the signs but it turned out a glance is just a glance. Truth be told women are no better at flirting than men are. Look at how most approach bumble interactions, look at videos where they are asked what they do special when they want to get a guy. Basically flirting is stupid simple, just look decent ( as in put together ) and hit on her and convey the information that you're attracted to her. No IOIs no shit like that.
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:57 AM
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you dont know the joke? it's from steve martin.
/r/seduction12/10/22 07:07 PM
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Most people want to find someone. Most girls have a lot of options, fwb, orbiters. The fact that she replied but didn't say " hey, i need some me time right now" and just ghosted kinda says she had someone but didn't want to burn this bridge. I could be projecting but having been in the dating world for some time, even though what you say might be true, i think it's the exception, as in the 1%. How many girls do you know irl that have options and don't use them? i don't know one
/r/seduction12/10/22 06:18 PM
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not the best choice since monday is a work day and people usually do stuff on friday and saturday. If you really can't in another day try a bit earlier like 5-6 instead of 7-8 so you have a bit more time.
/r/seduction12/10/22 06:03 PM
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it's easier to schedule a date for thursday, the success doesn't really have much to do with it
/r/seduction12/10/22 05:53 PM
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thursday is the best, wednesday 2nd best, friday and saturday Usually on the weekends people already have plans and if it's a 1st date you won't have that much priority. So thursday and wednesday are your best bets, montay and tuesday are too close after the weekend and people want to recharge
/r/seduction12/10/22 05:49 PM
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Also some women don't know how to throw signs or are really subtle. Like really. Like " omg, i glanced at him for one full second and he didn't get the hint, why can't men get it?! " 😂
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:20 PM
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You know that look women give when they wanna fuck your brains out? yeah..me neither 😂
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:18 PM
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She had another dude until now. It's up to you, i'd try and talk and schedule a date, but at any sign of her not being serious i'd drop her. One time you understand, 2nd time shows a pattern.
/r/seduction12/10/22 03:25 PM
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"hey, i loved talking to you the other day, i want to get to know you better, want to grab a coffee/drink?" Something along those lines. If she's not inexperienced she understand it's a date. On the date, body language is kinda important, eye contact, manly presence and...well, i don't know exactly how to describe this, but a deep desire for her. Like " i don't just want to get to know you, i want to fuck you right here right now " . Imagine if you didn't eat for a week and there's a roasted chi…
/r/seduction12/10/22 02:00 PM
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The environment has a social component, there's a lot of " i want a 666 guy, 6 feet, 6 digits bank account, 6 i forgot what " . You have a lot of 5" girls that want tall guys, most have no inner values so go by what society tells them, guys that are tall and rich, doesn't matter if he's a jerk, or if he stole to get the money. There's a biological component too, they want to feel protected and feminine, but as long as the guy is bigger/taller that shouldn't be an issue. If in 1-2 years they go t…
/r/seduction12/10/22 12:38 PM
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True, but you do agree that you are sexually attracted to her and want something more than friendship, right? That's what i'm trying to say that you need to convey, not that you need to marry this girl
/r/seduction12/10/22 12:34 PM
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That's a bit of a problem, make it sure she knows it's a date. If she thinks it's casual you will be put in the friendzone
/r/seduction12/10/22 10:34 AM
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You don't know unless you ask her out, it's too general to know for sure if she was friendly or wanted more than that. Some girls are awful at flirting and they think normal conversation counts as it, so you won't ever know unless you man up and either flirt with her or ask her out on a date and show interest
/r/seduction12/10/22 09:36 AM
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I think it's just the psychological threshold for women, so if you're above 6 feet you're good enough, regardless if she is 5" or 5'9 . So it's not so much about the difference as much as random number that is preferred.
/r/seduction12/10/22 05:08 AM
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usually it matters, sometimes it doesn't. Some girls are fine with it, more rare but they still exist. I'm 5'7 and dated/ons three 6 foot and above girls, if you know how to handle it and she doesn't have "set in stone " rules it's not that hard. Also had girls 5'7 and under that told me they don't usually date guys under 6' but made an exception. So take your shot, always
/r/seduction11/10/22 08:05 PM
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1st thing, usually you need a cluster of tells to be sure that someone is interested, like looking at you and smiling or playing with hair or sitting close by etc. Only one sign of interest is pretty weak but can still be good. Sometimes you don't even need a sign of interest to approach. 2nd thing, if she responds lukewarm it's a big win. As long as it's not a cold response/mean/obv disinterested you have a shot. so talk to her some more, try and find common ground and invite for coffee. For a …
/r/seduction11/10/22 07:23 PM
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Actually it's good advice if it's not misinterpreted. Working on yourself means working on the thing you lack, otherwise you wouldn't really need to work on that, would you?
/r/seduction10/10/22 07:02 AM
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Try tinder and explicitly say what you're looking for. Try fetlife, people are really open there
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:42 PM
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1st of all you don't owe her anything, if she's in trouble 911 or her dad or someone else. 2nd of all the girl that was with you was 100% in the right saying she should come with you. It was kinda disrespectful from you tbh. stop being so naive, your ex clearly is an asshole/manipulator, cut ties with her and move on
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:38 PM
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I don't know man, a girl told me one time that my dick was too curved, she reported me to the dick-curving-police :)))) /s Anyway, don't think about it, it's fine, she's seen worse proably. Just make sure it's really clean
/r/seduction09/10/22 12:30 PM
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Run my friend, run as fast as possible
/r/seduction08/10/22 08:33 PM
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Well, your gut feeling is right, talk to her about it. Remember, this casual dating is a really new notion, the default mode is dating for marriage for the last 2 millennia.
/r/seduction08/10/22 02:37 PM
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yeap, this, don't lead her on, that would make you a pos.
/r/seduction08/10/22 02:30 PM
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not a place, specifically, not talking about going to random chicks. But from the people we met, from school, from friends of friends, that kind of thing. Be friendly, get lot of social circles and have game and you will have a lot of women to pick from. Clubbing is the worst place to pick up chicks
/r/seduction08/10/22 11:16 AM
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Short at 5'8? dude, you're a bit delusional, the average height in the world is 5'7. I'm 5'7 and did pretty good with girls and trust me when i say i don't have the looks for it. Also i had a friend 5'5 but damn the man had game, had a lot of hot chicks. From what i'd guess it's just that you don't have good game. A lot of people don't, it's a combination of being comfortable with yourself, having charisma, being funny and a lot more.
/r/seduction08/10/22 07:29 AM
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I'd say you probably look good and don't have game. Read Models, read Mate: Become the Man Women Want and i'd watch a lot of comedy to understand timing and how to be funny, that always helps. That should be a good start
/r/seduction08/10/22 06:57 AM
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yeap, as long as it's a decent setting and you're being respectful
/r/seduction08/10/22 06:13 AM
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This gave me a good laugh, thanks mate, i'm sure you are a beautiful motherfucker too, mostly on the inside 😂
/r/seduction08/10/22 06:12 AM
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I don't trust IOIs or get that many, but i was surprised about what you can manage by being bold and shooting your shot. Think i missed too many opportunities because i waited for stupid IOIs
/r/seduction07/10/22 08:01 PM
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Stop lieing to the guy! Yes man, google search good information, highly sex woman shows red lips, shows a lot of epidermis and acts like goat in heat. You go and ask her bang-bang ? if she highly sex then she says no but thinks yes so ask her again. If she flip flop away probably no woman but bigus dickus.
/r/seduction07/10/22 02:16 PM
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😂😂😂 the naivety is strong with you. I'm not saying it in a mean way, i used to be like that too. Dude, it doesn't even matter which one says she has a bf, one says she wants to fuck and the other wants you to bring sex toys, like...clear fucking signals 😂. Also, i had my fair share of girls that had bf's , and they looked like the most good girls possible that would never cheat. So yeah, it's a done deal 100%
/r/seduction06/10/22 08:26 AM
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Yeah, don't overthink it, they wanna fuck. Good on you bro, come back with how the night went down.
/r/seduction06/10/22 08:20 AM
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Some people are scared of a setup, but i don't think it's the case here since you know her from the gym and from a normal interaction, not from OLD If a 3some will happen it's probably the girls intention, guys think they control more than they do, but the girl will actually decide that she will fuck u. As for the date, just act normal, have fun and don't have expectations, you never know what will happen. You could try and get them to play "never have i ever " game , google it if you don't know…
/r/seduction06/10/22 07:18 AM
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"you're right, my bad" And that's it. Stop over thinking it and resume your life like nothing happened and don't talk about it again or hit on her. Also this was bad flirting :))
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:44 AM
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Therapy for why you crave male attention, daddy issues maybe? But as others pointed out, no self respecting guy wants a girl that wants male attention/validation , so you can't have male attention and have a decent bf. Maybe try an elegant-sexy look, just show a little bit of skin but not much. If you have a tight fitting top then loose pants and viceversa. " I get guys staring at me constantly but they almost never come up to approach me" So you get male attention, the approaching part is trick…
/r/seduction04/10/22 11:51 PM
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It can be rebuilt and that's in few cases, but i don't think you can do it. She gave you multiple chances, and fucked it up. I did that too when i was younger but the girl was stunning and i was just stupid. I think she's hurt, the ego of a woman is a fickle thing, she feels lead on and toyed with. And probably disappointed in you. I'd recommend something that usually is avoided in this shitty real world that we live in and it's brutal honesty and just come clean, there's nothing to lose anyway.…
/r/seduction04/10/22 05:31 PM
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Of course, it's not that you can't understand what someone is saying, it's the other person's fault. "Participating in an act you also look down on or judge women for is illogical. " I wasn't looking down on them, project much? I was telling how you deal with women with high body counts, i'm not taking advantage of them if they like this lifestyle, it's their body their choice, right? I don't care what she does but if she's hot, she likes sex and i like it too, of course i will take the opportun…
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:41 PM
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I was saying the emotional damage that she gets when she doesn't make good choices and fucks around. I was saying naive that she listens to morons that tell a girl that it's allright to fuck around like guys, because women and men are the same. You're twisting my words, you can't argue properly or understand what i'm saying. You're shifting all the blame to men, as long as it's not rape ( which i'm fully against just for the record ) women are responsible FOR THEIR BODY AND WHO THEY FUCK! So if …
/r/seduction02/10/22 08:50 PM
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How is it contradictory and predatory? I'm telling guys to not invest emotionally into a woman that has been around the block. In the old days we used to call them hoes, everyone knew who they were, but now most women have been brainwashed that it's normal to fuck around. You should take your high horse and teach women not to sleep around, how about that?
/r/seduction02/10/22 08:31 PM
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high body counts show that the girl is either naive and doesn't understand the emotional dmg, either is impulsive as fuck or has a drinking problem or self esteem issues. But the answer is always the same, have fun with her and throw her back in the pond, but usually having so much experience she is pretty good in bed so that's fun.
/r/seduction02/10/22 08:02 PM
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well, you started with the moon logic... if i'd say your opinions are fairy philosophy and they make you think this and that, how much would you like to give sources? Also, as i said, it's extremely complex and it would be hard to provide all the sources i need for a conversation that doesn't mean anything in the long term. These are some "fun" books to read and start seeing the big picture a bit better about that some chemicals do to us. Also Joe Rogan had another Ph.D that was talking about ho…
/r/seduction02/10/22 04:28 PM
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see how you are moving the goal post? i didn't say skills and charm don't matter, i said with the same skills and charm, with being healthier you'd do better. Also there's different type of fat, if you are 20 pounds overweight it's a thing, if it's 150pounds overweight your skills and charm would not matter too much. Also in your example you're just saying that you had no flirting skills at 26, that's not true for everyone. If you honestly think that fat people ( with the same skill set, charism…
/r/seduction02/10/22 04:18 PM
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Congrats on working on yourself, do it as much as possible and always try to have the attitude of " i don't know much, i need to learn and see a lot of viewpoints " . Be it about gym, nutrition, politics, philosophy, stock market, social skills etc, there's plenty to learn about, most people don't really know anything except their job and a lot of useless shit like nfl players, or they spew off the same shit that they hear from shitty sources without ever thinking critically about it or listenin…
/r/seduction02/10/22 04:12 PM
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Yeah, basically what i was expecting from you and the points that have been covered over and over again, but you have been somewhat civil so you get points for that. As i said, wasting time and breath and i'm sure no amount of sources or science can change your mind. I'm happy that that you're doing well fat and aging but pretty sure if you were fitter and biologically younger you'd do even better. Anyway, good luck to you
/r/seduction02/10/22 04:03 PM
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Broke dudes, even ugly, if they have the masculine, "i can kill people " attitude, that can be very attractive to women. It's the shadow carl jung talks about, the beast in the beauty and the beast. "So if they got nothing going for themselves, why would they be confondent in the 1st place" a lot of people can be confident without having anything to be confident about, they are just delusional. You see it in women too, the 300pound chicks who are "confident". Sadly a lot of women think that the …
/r/seduction02/10/22 03:39 PM
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Well, the reality is pretty complex and i've been studying this things for a lot of time because a lot of things don't make sense. We, as humans, are the product of our genes, of our social environment and, especially in the last 100 years, of our exposure to a lot of chemicals that have no business being in our body. That's why it's all this mix From our genes we have adapted to like some stuff, namely health that is expressed through beauty, that's why most people like the same stuff, be it an…
/r/seduction02/10/22 03:29 PM
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1st of all any guy who says all women are sluts is a moron. Just like any woman saying all men are pigs or whatever. 2nd, even if it's the context of bedroom fun, it's still shows how much of an idiot he is. Women have different likes and dislikes, but i do agree that a lot of women, maybe like 70% want to be dominated and like it rough to a varying degree. 3rd the broke hood dudes usually look good or have game or something else like that. 4th being masculine is pretty normal, but you shouldn't…
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:39 PM
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nope. Don't become friends, that's how u get into the friendzone. Hit on her, ask her out
/r/seduction30/09/22 11:10 PM
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awww, puppy love. well, the biggest problem for that age is that guys don't show direct interest and end up in the friendzone. Imagine a jock, he would be an asshole but he shows interest and that's manly and good. So, talk to her a bit, ask her about her day, maybe make a joke or 2 if it comes up and tell her something along the lines " listen, i think you're very cute and would like to get to know you better over a ... juice box? " not sure what u guys drink :)) . It's important to grow the ba…
/r/seduction30/09/22 10:02 PM
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Oh nice. In my opinion high value men is best visualized like a guy who is in combat with you, or even the guy leading. You don't want someone corrupt, or someone weak, or someone that lies etc. A strong kind beast that is smart and can get you through shit. That's what women want, a leader. And they will test him, if she says something and he pussys out, he is not strong. If she says something wrong and he will not correct her he is a liar or weak. Would you want your commander to not go throug…
/r/seduction30/09/22 07:37 PM
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wait, no, becoming a high value men means a few things like : Being healthy , maybe not a 6pack but flat stomach, and some muscle. Shows you have testosterone levels and can fight/run etc. It means making some money, shows brain health, good iq, good genetics, stability and options. Good social skills, meaning you can make friends, you can make connections, you are not a crazy person that wants to fight everyone etc. Read philosophy, read Marcus Aurelius - meditations , read anything that tries …
/r/seduction30/09/22 06:32 PM
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Fair enough, but my point was that if you do become a high value man ( god i hate this saying ) the women will want you and you will be in a position of power and everything will be much easier and that's when you'll see the insecurities, the fragile ego, the façade they put for the world. From my personal experience, i was lucky to have some beautiful women and before getting to know them better i used to think they are "magical" . So..we fucked, i got over them, they were not special but mostl…
/r/seduction29/09/22 10:23 PM
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Those beliefs come from a long line of ancestors that didn't have access to a lot of women and it was pretty uncommon actually to meet new women, you'd have your tribe of 150-200 people that you grew up with. It's an unnatural state and you'd best regard it like that and understand it, not fight it. It will always be there, but your will is your best friend and you can rationalize it and keep pushing yourself. It will get easier but it will never disappear. In my opinion your plan is kinda stupi…
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:55 PM
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Well, just because someone thinks something is true, that isn't necessarily objectively true. Like a guy who is fit and has a good face but is 5'5 will say that height doesn't matter and he still gets pussy. That is true but he gets it because of his circumstances. So it does matter but it's not the only thing that matters. Just like with everything else. So the point i'm trying to make is that your question is not going to get you what you need. The best thing you can do is to understand evolut…
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:59 PM
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shooosh, i bet you look good
/r/seduction23/09/22 05:25 PM
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This blew my mind when i read it at first but i was still young and kinda new to game. After reflecting a lot and studying a lot more, it's actually bullshit. Take 2 people, one is a fat fedora wearing, acne having, misogynistic dumbass that is not needy and has a i don't give a fuck attitude. Spoiler, he still not getting any women or any good women at least, maybe some girls with mental issues will be attracted to him since he reminds them of their father that used to beat them. ( even though …
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:18 PM
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If she likes you it's that easy, if she doesn't like you there's nothing you can do about it, but if she's on the fence about you, that's where seduction comes into play. But nice job
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:41 AM
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she likes you. either make a move on her or make it clear you don't like her that way, just know what u want and do it
/r/seduction22/09/22 02:52 PM
1

Are you asking if having sex changes you? Maybe a little, you just see that it's not that big of a deal. People put too much emphasis on sex since they don't have any deeper values in their lives, sure, it's fun, but you shouldn't live your life for sex
/r/seduction21/09/22 11:00 PM
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Depends on how mature she is, a mature woman would understand, but insecure girls ( of any age ) will take it as either a sign that you're not into her that much or that "you were too nervous " or some shit like that. So you can just explain your reasoning if she asks and it's up to her to decide how she will react.
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:54 PM
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2 reasons. Saying no to someone is always uncomfortable. I had to do it a few times to girls and it's never easy or pleasant. The safety issues is always a concern for women. What if you become a stalker if she says no, or you go crazy, etc etc. Also, the guys who say to not try and understand women usually have little to no experience with women, there's always a reason and most of the time it's pertinent. Sometimes it is emotional or weird but you take the good with the bad. Always try to unde…
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:16 PM
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Bring a bottle of wine because "it helps with the creative process" , as others said try to break the touch barrier as soon as possible but not awkward, be in a good mood and have fun.
/r/seduction20/09/22 04:24 PM
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:)))))))
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:32 PM
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haha, thanks, but don't call me master please
/r/seduction20/09/22 10:28 AM
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Cute girl, pussy smelled weird, backed out of it Do virgins count? they are usually really shy and don't know what to do and just stay there, but it's fun in some ways because of the trust and emotional connection. 2 hot girls really loved to be bitten, not hard but a bit, on the back, on the legs, kinda weird tbh.
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:06 PM
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Yeah, i think you're right, having a job is not the end all be all, there are plenty of guys with jobs but depressed. But..i don't know tbh, it's getting weird out here. The best we can do is to improve ourselves. Also maybe you can do something on the computer that makes some money? Like having a source of income is ok, not a job per se. "Also, it kinda sucks for men that when you see a beautiful woman and you're blown away by how she looks to the point it makes you behave differently around he…
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:42 PM
1

"True, but there are also lots of things I don't have in common with people and especially when together with groups of other people I hear people talking to each other (usually because of shared interests or experiences) and it often frustrates me that I can't connect with that, feels like I'm an alien sometimes...but you're right, both being human in and of itself is a big similarity." Yeah, i understand, that can suck, it's like being out of the loop for an inside joke. "I'm vegan and eating …
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:36 PM
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Everyone is trying to find the "perfect" partner, but wise people understand that beauty fades or is not that important ( just like money ) and that a good character it's more importanter ( just my stupid sense of humor ) . BUT, and it's a big butt, we do have a minimum requirement. Like a base level to even become attractive, as a gut to be at least normal weight and not have a belly and have a decent job. Those 2 things + game and good character always always always beats shitty Chads or rich …
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:13 PM
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Funny thing is that most of our lives are very similar, don't care if you're black or white, man or woman, old or young. We have the same needs that we want fulfilled. So of course you have things in common, past struggles, wanting to be happy, chasing a passion or a career, appreciation for different type of art. Hopefully moral values too, like trying to make the world a better place but realizing we need to understand it better first. But i'd concentrate on the autism and ocd thing first, i'm…
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:58 PM
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Because if you see people superficially, like " she doesn't want me therefore she has no value " you won't ever have good relationships. But i guess it's a difference between the women too, i had my fair share of pretty and dumb girls and it's not worth it, so now if she is just pretty and doesn't offer anything else i'm just moving on till i find a pretty and cool/smart girl. If she doesn't like me at least she is cool and/or smart and we can hang etc. So i guess in a way both points stand but …
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:46 PM
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Not even like that. Men and women judge a bit different people, that's why you see the weird tinder dynamics. Women see things in social settings a lot of the time, a decent guy on tinder that is an easy swipe left cuz he's not top 5% is an easy "swipe" on the right if they are in the same dance classes and he really knows his shit, or is the instructor. Or in another social setting where he is well liked and respected. Also on tinder women don't see the competition so they think they deserve th…
/r/seduction19/09/22 01:25 PM
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yeah, i actually thought a lot about this, let me counteract with a question. Let's say you meet a cool girl but she is fat, but you two get along nicely, she has her shit together and it's actually fun, she had to develop a personality. Fast forward 2 years and she lost the weight and hit the gym and looks good. In your whole honesty would you not be attracted to her and take a shot?
/r/seduction19/09/22 01:09 PM
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are you dyslexic? read it again and again until you understand. You don't wait for her to change her mind, you get on with your business and sometimes that happens without much effort. In the meantime you keep her as a friend because you should have good filters for what you date and not be shallow, there are good-looking women out there that are smart and cool and even if you aren't her type she usually has friends that are. mr goodtwoshoes? really? are u 12?
/r/seduction19/09/22 01:07 PM
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No, i don't care if she is attracted to me or not because : I've had plenty of girls get turned around by my personality, so even if at first ( and i had some confessions about this ) they don't see me that way women can change their minds. It's different for guys, we don't change our minds except if she becomes hot. If i like her as a person, which is a requirement to find her attractive, then i like her regardless, so she can become a good friend to talk to and hang out, and guess what, hot gi…
/r/seduction19/09/22 10:01 AM
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Nope, you're probably boring when you talk about topic, girls love it when someone speaks with passion and knowledge about a topic as long as he's articulate and charismatic, sadly most people that think they are intelligent have the charisma of an air filter. "This isn’t me expatiating on the factors compounding " translates to " this isn't me talking about " trying to sound fancy by relying on big words when it's not necessary is a turn off. The cases you need fancy words it's when it's specif…
/r/seduction19/09/22 09:50 AM
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Yeah, sounds good, nice job and gl
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:47 PM
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Don't be distant, just be normal. Be available if she wants to talk or hangout but don't make your life revolve around her, no matter how good the sex was. Chase your dreams and a good life and she'll come around ( maybe ) , chase her and you'll lose her. Be normal, be friendly and flirty and she wants more of that special D she'll come back, but don't play stupid games.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:43 PM
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I'd venture a guess she started catching feelings and needed some space to figure it out. She asked you for said space and you ignored it, proving that you wouldn't really be a good match for a bf. Now i guess she has second thoughts and i'd venture a guess she'll dump you. Lesson to be learned, don't get drunk and text and just listen to what a woman says and respect her decision, if she plays games she's not for you, if she's honest she will appreciate it.
/r/seduction16/09/22 03:59 PM
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You have to define single first of all. If single as in not currently in a relationship or marriage, sure, plenty of women. If single meaning that they don't have orbiters around, that's not possible anymore in this day and age. But that doesn't mean you can't have success
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:11 PM
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I'm 34 and had my fair share of women, sadly i didn't listen to my gut and lot of maybe's just wasted my time, sure, i was attracted physically to them but they had no substance, but i kept saying to myself to not judge too much and really get to know them, big mistake. Only met a handful of hell yes women, quality is rare these days, but when you see it that's when hell yes applies. Anyway, i won't change your mind and you seem condescending so i'm done with this conversation, have a good day.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:59 PM
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Again, you misunderstand. It's not a " omg, she is so fine, hell yes i want to fuck her " it's a more abstract thing like getting to know someone and if you're not 100% you want to have something with that person you'd best move on. So hell yes i want to fuck her because i'm so attracted to her instead of " yeah, ill fuck her, one more notch on my belt " and the same is with relationships too.
/r/seduction03/08/22 07:22 AM
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It's funny how so many people have it backwards. Hell yes or no is actually from your point of view and i find it to be really true. It's to honestly measure your interest and if it's not at peak then you should not pursue the woman, you'll both just waste time and it's all about making your life as optimal as possible and only doing hell yes activities and hell yes people, meaning the ones you really want to spend time together. It's meant to make your life easier.
/r/seduction02/08/22 06:19 PM
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If you'd bother to read, i know, it's hard, but you can do it, i believe in you. Substudy B. Ten non-pregnant healthy Caucasian female student volunteers were recruited. All the subjects, aged 20–32 (mean 24) years and weight 52–63 (mean 58) kg, reported using oral contraceptives containing both synthetic ethinyl oestradiol and a progestin (brands similar to those used in substudy A) for several months before entering the study. In substudy B, total testosterone levels (Fig. 6) were significantl…
/r/seduction31/07/22 06:08 PM
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haha, yeah, i meant the "very racially good looking guy " you remind me of an old friend, i think 5'5 but he had really hot gfs due to his charm and boyish looks.
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:02 PM
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Yeah, people who don't think looks are important are just hypocrites. But saying that looks are the only thing that matters is ignorant as well. Good for you for banging all them girls, be sure to thank your parents for good genetics 😂
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:09 PM
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OP's case is not well made, that's why i said my piece. I will always double down when i'm right.
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:08 PM
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Looks are what makes you interested in a person, it shows health basically so it shows how healthy your offspring will be. But thinking that looks is everything is wrong, so there's a baseline that has to be met. "incels" are upset with it because the double standards when a 200 pound queen wants a 6feet and 6 pack abs guy. You can see it in okcupid data and Tinder data, that's where a lot of the problems come from. Luckily there are still people who don't have crazy standards but judging by the…
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:07 PM
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I'm calm but you're just mad you don't have any proper arguments. If you were a 9 or 10 you wouldn't have a problem with the scale, just saying. Keep on the good fight SJW
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:03 PM
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You don't make anything your reality or not, reality just is, it's objective. But other things that can make you a good catch are status, money, charisma, intelligence etc. "There are more important things than having a good jawline" Yeah, but there are people with no jawline https://www.jawsurgerylosangeles.com/before-and-after/ and no amount of game will overcome that. You are right that you can look amazing and have shit mental health or mentality but that comes back to overall health again. …
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:01 PM
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It's one thing to help each other, it's another thing to be delusional and not accept reality and that some guys (or gals) drew the short end of the stick. Since most people that look good will have decent opportunities in life, here usually will come the people who need help. But telling someone that needs massive help to just get out the hole that biology put them in is neither productive or helpful. Testosterone went down by 1% per year in the last 30-50 years, that's a fact, it's not up for …
/r/seduction31/07/22 02:17 PM
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objectify /ɒbˈdʒɛktɪfʌɪ/ Learn to pronounce verb gerund or present participle: objectifying 1. degrade to the status of a mere object. Note the word degrade. I didn't say a woman was only good to fuck, or the only value she brings to the world is as a sex object. I didn't treat anybody as an object of sexual desire but i can appreciate beauty when i see it. I didn't make any claims if the person is good or bad, moral or not, etc. Just like if i see a 100k car i can appreciate it's beauty but it …
/r/seduction31/07/22 02:10 PM
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https://academic.oup.com/alcalc/article/35/1/84/142595 Nope "The present results confirm our earlier finding (Eriksson et al., 1994) that alcohol intake is associated with an acute elevation in total testosterone levels among premenopausal women. The effect is more prominent among women using oral contraceptives, but occurs during the mid-cycle phase among non-users as well"
/r/seduction31/07/22 02:03 PM
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So when you can't muster up arguments you just say it's " just pathetic " , touche!
/r/seduction31/07/22 02:01 PM
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Actually i had plenty of success with women, but was just saying that things are more complex than just " you don't try hard enough herpa derpa "
/r/seduction31/07/22 02:00 PM
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I didn't put anyone in hierarchies, society does. Where did i self proclaimed i'm an incel? You're fun to talk to
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:59 PM
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I'm not objectifying anyone, if i'd say she has an iq of 130 and he has an iq of 100, would that make you mad too? And i didn't say they are bad people, just the opposite, but we can still live in reality where some people look better, some people have more money, some people are more kind etc? L.E: I didn't say i have problems, but you go girl, be a keyboard warrior
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:57 PM
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It's gross for you, it's normal for other people but they just don't express it, so no, i won't stop it. We can say that some people are better looking than others, putting them on a scale is just easier than saying " she looked just as good as Angelina Jolie in her prime " . What does how old tinder is have to do with anything?
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:11 PM
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I was pointing out that having exceptions to the rule doesn't disprove the rule.
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:04 PM
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ok, man, you do you.
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:02 PM
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yeah, i didn't say not to improve as much as you can, just saying to be more compassionate for others since some people even with improving their lives won't have success. Also understand reality and some people would be way more happy with some surgery than the tired old advice of " just be confident bro "
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:01 PM
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Muggsy Bogues 1.6m was in the NBA, that doesn't mean every guy that is 1.6 can get into that. You guys love to get an exception and think it applies to everyone
/r/seduction31/07/22 11:35 AM
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Your two cents are valid and appreciated but things are a bit more complex. If you look at people 50 years ago/500 years ago you see that we are slowly but surely declining as as a species. It's harder to find a partner because people are more and more sick/obese/hormone problem etc. Women are becoming men and viceversa ( phtalates, glyphosate, and God knows what other toxins are messing up your hormones ) . Also alcohol has opposing effects on women and man, makes testosterone go down in men an…
/r/seduction31/07/22 11:07 AM
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Well, to be technical, if you think Musk is the wealthiest man on Earth is a bit naive, i'm sure dictators like Putin, xi ping have a lot more money. Also he was born in a extremely rich family
/r/seduction31/07/22 10:35 AM
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sure, you have exceptions, but that doesn't really mean anything. https://www.economist.com/open-future/2018/06/06/how-much-you-earn-depends-largely-on-where-you-live There's a lot of data on this
/r/seduction31/07/22 10:34 AM
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You have to understand the survivability bias that happens on reddit, you will get more 1-5s here than 7s-9s ( for guys i mean ) so a lot of people here just don't have a chance with women. Telling them to "just improve yourself" is telling a guy born in africa " if you work hard enough you will have a good life" dude, that just ain't happening. Your view is short sighted, look on r/tinder and you'll see a lot of...not so goodlooking guys asking why they aren't getting any matches. Well, they've…
/r/seduction31/07/22 09:23 AM
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Sure, but just keep in mind society made beautiful women extremely shallow and had no expectations from them. So the chances of landing a beautiful woman that is fun and good personality is very small. Think Blake Lively, Jennifer Lawrence types. Also you need to be on their level so to speak, so you need to look good, have some money, have game.
/r/seduction31/07/22 06:26 AM
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Looks beat everything when it comes to sex. Game beats everything when it comes to fun in the relationship and keeping your woman. Money beats everything when it comes to having a good social circle, meeting a ton of women and usually marrying a gold digger
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:38 PM
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If it's once in a blue moon i'd accept it, but otherwise it screams of disrespect. Putting herself in a place where she can cheat and "telling" you that you can't come is dubious at least. If she was mature and good gf material she would not go or invite you along. Also you should take a long hard look at yourself. I don't know how many guys had the luck to date a 10, but i had, and she was a royal pain in the butt. Seriously, shitty person. Not saying all of them are like that, but if you start…
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:23 PM
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Some girls suck at showing interest and then they complain to her friends that they "cant get the guy" . Also, when you like a girl just hit on her, you'd be surprised how many go from neutral to liking you
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:56 PM
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Unless she is in danger never put yourself in harms way. You don't know if the guy is crazy, has a gun, has a blade, is really good at fighting. Plenty of dumbasses died defending a woman's honor and nobody knows their name. If you're in a club go talk to security or if you have a policeman nearby, otherwise just move on.
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:25 PM
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The more you meet women ( and people in general ) you will start seeing some trends. Some people are "higher value" and even though i hate that term is can accurately represent good qualities in someone. Like trustworthiness, kindness, femininity for women and masculinity for guys, etc etc. Basically the things you'd wish in the "perfect" partner. The problem is that few people are taught by their parents how to be a good person and even less take the problem in their own hands, meditate on thei…
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:27 PM
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Stop overthinking, a lot of people are just shitty. The good women ( just like good men, good friends ) will be honest and say what they mean and mean what they say.
/r/seduction27/07/22 09:34 AM
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Yeap, that's why i said the caveat
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:40 AM
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There is one small caveat here. I used to live in the Philippines and people are very nice and polite there and as a white guy you are seen much better looking. So the status+ the people feeling safe makes it more friendly to approach if you do it respectfully. On the flip side, if you live in a dangerous country it's the opposite effect.
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:01 PM
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Cold approach is kinda weird if you're not in a good setting. Sorry but the approaching at a mall and crap like that is just weird a lot of the time and most normal people know that. The only cold approach that is kinda good is at a beach, at a bar, in a club ( but the music is loud as fuck ) . Also the better you look the more success you will have in OLD or cold approach but those are just the outliers. But the warm approach is the best, that's how people used to meet. It's organic, it's natur…
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:14 PM
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you too man, take care
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:41 PM
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Romania. Sadly after some years of decent living it's becoming a corrupt shithole with the guys at the top stealing everything. Pretty sure in a few years we'll be kicked out of the EU ( it's the only thing that kept us afloat ) and that's when everything will really get fucked. The worst thing is most people are too apathetic to do anything about it, or too busy with "living their best life" and that means usually working a lot and spending money on things they don't need to impress people they…
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:25 PM
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Politics matter most of all for normal people. Depending on who makes the laws, can make them to favor normal people, everyday working class Joe or to favor Bezos, Musks, and multigenerational wealthy families. That's why until normal americans won't get their heads out of their asses and vote someone that wants the good of the people ( like Bernie sanders ) . The even more interesting thing is that depending on what americans vote i can feel it in my 3rd world country. Because of the dollar bei…
/r/seduction24/07/22 01:28 PM
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Actually it really matters what's your view on politics since it shows your ( lack of ) maturity. If you think that politics don't matter, you know, the thing that affects abso-fucking-lutely everything, you're a moron. Same standard is for women too btw. I wish you were born in the 30s too.
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:07 PM
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Basically she was hitting on you. "come do shots with me" "come to my room so i can show you something" "come and let me suck your dick" Believe it or not, this is how women flirt ( except for the last one, that was just for lols ) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xa-4IAR\_9Yw
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:04 PM
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ez, stop wasting your time with moronic people. that's how all these thots came to be, too much simping
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:32 PM
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There's a lot of misinformation around. Online, yeah, you need to be really good since women compare you to the first profiles they see, and those are the top 5% guys. So in their minds is abundance of good looking wealthy guys, now only if she would find the right one... But live, in person, it's much easier. But you do have to have some game/charisma, not be fat - skinny/normal/a bit lean is fine, and be nice without being a pushover
/r/seduction19/07/22 09:06 AM
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bahaha, i'm actually glad this happened to you, maybe you can learn something from this. play shitty games win shitty prizes.
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:37 PM
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You don't need to, some people like multiple partners but plenty of people like monogamous relationship. Just be specific with what you want when talking to women
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:57 AM
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yeah, you missed your shot. I did this in the past too. There's an old saying that should be with you in all your interactions with girls. Look at what a girl is doing not at what she is saying. IF she spent so much time with you she was clearly interested and it's "last minute resitatence" i think was the term for it. It's her saying to herself she's not a slut ( but later will rationalize that she just went with the flow. Everybody misses some opportunities, don't be sad and learn from it
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:21 AM
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Congrats, you met the 2022 female that is obsessed with HER! her "reality" and spirituality, her opinions without anything to back them up, her photoshopped IG and curated online presence. Sorry mate, narcissism runs wild these days, no wonder she doesn't know how to have a proper interaction and ask you about yourself. You will meet a ton of these but through the cracks there are good women too so don't miss them when you have your chance cuz it's a dying breed. P.S if it was me, just hit it an…
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:52 PM
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Any advice that says to be mean to someone is immature to say the least. Be nice but don't be a pushover, if a girl acts bad call her out on it, if she apologizes give her another shot, if not move on. People overcomplicate this because of a shortage of decent partners
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:14 PM
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I could understand this coming from a 19y/o but for 26 she seems very immature. If you're matching on tinder it's implied it's for dating, not fucking friendship. Fucking friendship sounds good but i guess it depends on what you're emphasizing, haha, get it? i'll show myself out. Anyway, yeah, tread carefully, it's gonna be a headache, some people don't really grow up
/r/seduction17/07/22 06:52 PM
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oh, and the pirate on the boat... - "i'm too smart to read" He has the attention span of a 3 year old and the hobbies of a 15yo. That's why i said it's a corrupt place and with enough money you can do pretty much whatever you want here.
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:42 PM
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There's also https://www.reddit.com/r/Rateme/ , same things apply. They use a scale of objective symmetry and balance, it's pretty interesting.
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:37 PM
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porn and masturbation will drain you and replace a biological need
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:35 PM
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Depends on every person but usually it gives you more motivation to pursue women. If you masturbate once a week maybe not a big deal but for most people it's a compulsion to do it every day almost.
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:35 PM
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Ok, fair enough
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:47 PM
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Friends will bump you up a few points. To be nice and because your personality will influence them. If a friend tells you you're a 7 i'd say probably 6-soft 5 territory. Wheat waffles does really deep dives on face symmetry and stuff. I would take it with a big grain of salt but he is trying to be as objective as possible. He does blame usually everything on looks so i wouldn't go past the "rating" benefit of his channel. But if you're truly looking good and having no success maybe you're not gi…
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:35 PM
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He's a piece of shit, one of the worst role models to have. He says reading books is stupid He is lying to girls and making them do videochat - the police busted him but we have a shitty corrupt system so as long as he pays the police they are all good He moved from UK to Romania cuz he got busted there I've seen some shit from him, he is a moron who knows how to trick naive girls and makes money from them. I hate him with all my heart, he is the male equivalent of kim kardashian or some other b…
/r/seduction16/07/22 01:44 PM
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Megan fox is a dumb bimbo who has no acting skills, no personality and had tons of cosmetic surgery done. Would i hit it one time? sure. Would she be a good gf/wife? fuck no
/r/seduction14/07/22 10:04 AM
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I actually heard it in Mate: Become the Man Women Wan by Geoffrey Miller and Tucker Max if i'm not mistaken
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:49 AM
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True, but that doesn't meant they are not both morons. the quality of the pussy matters
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:48 AM
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well, maybe from the conversation before she picked up on stuff. Or maybe she is projecting. Hard to tell usually. But if you're getting too many rejections something is wrong probably so take a deep look inside yourself and see how genuine you are.
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:01 PM
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I think they can tell you are fake. You want to be labeled as a fuck boy but fuck boys don't care or they even pretend not to be. If you really were a fuck boy you'd know how to smooth talk your way into her panties. Also you probably are failing some shit tests and you don't even know it. The bad boys i know usually are kinda crazy. Easy to start fights, drunk driving, maybe some jail time, crap like that. They attract women because they really are on the edge and could kill someone. Other guys…
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:46 PM
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Owen cook does not look like a healthy individual by any metric. Or mistery. I don't know the new ones but calling yourself a pick up artist shows a lack of maturity anyway. First you play with toys, then you play with your friends, then you chase women, then you chase money and if you're lucky and don't stop ( some just stop at women ) you chase a good life, meaning you start giving a shit about the world around you not just about yourself.
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:44 PM
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Game is only a fraction, it's the "fun" part where you understand how to be charming and make a girl laugh. But the 90% of the iceberg that PUA's don't see or want to see is the self development, the focus on health and career and being a decent human being while still having boundaries. That's why PUA's will always be a joke
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:31 PM
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yeap, clear sign of interest
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:21 PM
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People grew up
/r/seduction13/07/22 03:18 PM
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"If looks were the only or most important route to pussy, then guys like Patrice O Neal would have never gotten laid (Obese comedian who pulled a ridiculous amount of hot girls)." Actually i don't think he pulled too many beautiful girls, he was often talking about going to Brasil ( if i'm not mistaken ) to pay for prostitutes, and his gf at the time was a single mom kinda fat, he wasn't doing that well. Especially for a guy that had fame and i guess some money, so not really average. Looks abso…
/r/seduction13/07/22 03:14 PM
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It's never them, search on youtube " it's complicated " channel, it's amazing. Interviews with people on the street. The amount of lack of responsibility or deflection women do is unbelievable
/r/seduction13/07/22 10:15 AM
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Change your mentality, how the fuck is a guy happy is he gets a piece of a flaky bitch? You should actually appreciate her showing her true colors so early on.
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:25 AM
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ok, really interesting to see it from your point of view. Ok, maybe then you should mold yourself in a woman that is highly attractive to these kinds of men. I saw in a different reply that you are beautiful so that's really good. The thing is, like you said, there are a ton of beautiful women on earth so why would a 1% guy pick you? I'd say work on yourself a lot, if you have any unresolved trauma from your past resolve it, or baggage from ex's. Next step is to add value to yourself, all you we…
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:22 AM
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I'm not from a western country neither but guys will approach girls who look nice and kind, but if you have resting bitch face ( that's the term ) guys won't except the assholes who love a challenge and approach anything that moves anyway. Yeah, and i was saying, it's not just about tinder, but overall social media. Girls have really inflated egos since they get a ton of dm's but they can't separate that the guys that message them is just for sex and not for relationship/marriage. If you have a …
/r/seduction13/07/22 02:36 AM
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Interesting that you are so aware of it and still can't do anything about it. My guess is that female nature is to pick the best out of the pool of guys she has access too. The problem here is that in the last 10-20 years, the pool of guys went global more or less so you want the 1%. I suspect that if you shut off your social media you will adjust to your new pool of guys, meaning the ones that you know personally. And in that way you will look for the top guys there, so it should bring your sta…
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:58 PM
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Most guys want the same thing. A healthy pretty looking girl that is feminine and nice. That's it.
/r/seduction12/07/22 11:45 AM
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yeap, he's a moron. Any type of preference is racism, if you prefer thin girls it's fat shaming etc etc.
/r/seduction12/07/22 11:45 AM
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you are kinda right but not there yet. See, as guys we pretty much understand women nature but women understand guys too, from thousands of generation of experience. What are you projecting to the 1st group of women? Woman in cat 1: Well, he has some time for me but sometimes he doesn't answer ( he has other stuff to do, hopefully productive and doesn't put me on a pedestal ) he doesn't put that much effort into the date ( hm, so he thinks he can do better than me, he probably has options ) and …
/r/seduction11/07/22 10:42 AM
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Also there is the fact that there are more men on tinder than women, also a lot of bots. I know some high value women and they never use OLD since they get approached anyway and have a lot of guys to pick from. Pretty sure the prettiest women on Tinder usually have a lot of mental issues, that's why they need to find someone there ( either they think they are too amazing for anybody in their real life or are too bitchy ) or for ego boost/fun or for riding the carousel Also warm approaches are be…
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:39 PM
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Yeap, good points. That's why social hobbies are the best for meeting women
/r/seduction07/07/22 05:35 PM
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Basically texting should really be done with the intent of meeting. Texting for texting sake is kinda low value in a way, it says you don't have anything better to do. You can schedule a call from time to time or send a funny shit that you liked, but don't just text to text " hey beautiful " " good morning " crap like that
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:04 AM
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Just talk to her like a normal human being. First of all clear up if you are monogamous or allowed to see other people. 2nd of all, are you the one always texting first or sometimes you sometimes her? If you're the one texting first cut it out and see what happens. If she doesn't text you, you never had her. If she asks why you're not texting her, tell her it's a 2way street and she should write to you more. If sometimes you sometimes her, it's nothing to worry about, just talk like a dating cou…
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:48 AM
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Words are agreed by society on what they mean, that's why we have books that record it. If it changes, sure, we can use them that way, like gay used to mean happy and now it doesn't have the same meaning. Also the way neil strauss and mistery used negging was exactly to the point of lowering the girl's self esteem. Anyway, gl mate, not gonna answer anymore, i said all i could say
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:41 AM
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Man, i just gave you the wiki definition of negging. This is the dictionary definition noun Slang. the act of insulting someone or something with a backhanded compliment or with qualified approval, especially as a ploy to lower the self-esteem of a person or cheapen an object before showing romantic interest or making an offer: I will not tolerate gaslighting, negging, or other mind games in my love life. I don't know how much clearer i can be.
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:15 AM
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I think they see it like strolling through an apple orchard and picking the best apples she can reach without getting the ones that are poisoned
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:56 AM
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Well, it's pathetic when hot guys do it too, so you should do some soul searching why you would put up with shitty behavior just to sleep with someone. What does that say about you?
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:49 AM
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No, the purpose of negs is to bring down the women's self esteem. I think you're talking about teasing Wiki Negging Negging is an act of emotional manipulation whereby a person makes a deliberate backhanded compliment or otherwise flirtatious remark to another person to undermine their confidence and increase their need of the manipulator's approval. The term was coined and prescribed by pickup artists.
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:48 AM
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This is one of the stupidest things i've seen here :)). The game means to be charming and to get a girl to like you. If you are handsome it doesn't mean you have game, or if you have money. Please read some books, grow up, develop yourself.
/r/seduction07/07/22 06:25 AM
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haha, nice job man
/r/seduction06/07/22 09:35 PM
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my pleasure, stranger!
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:05 PM
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This is something i was thinking about a lot too and not sure how to feel about it. On the one hand i get what you're saying, they weren't interested in you before so now that u "made it" they wanna be in your life? meh On the other hand, let's say you have a friend that is a girl, that is overweight but otherwise a nice person, she likes you but you only like her as a friend. And she loses the weight and becomes hot. Now..you'd hit that and she has a good personality. Should she take you? I kep…
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:48 PM
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Dude, if you really want a serious thing are are happy settling down you hit the jackpot. If you wanna fuck around some more do that and let her find someone else but u said you had plenty of experiences so it's only incremental fun from now on. If i was you i'd def wait as long as needed, a woman with a good personality submissive that hasn't been on the c**k carousel is a very rare thing. That's wife material
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:52 PM
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" I purposely never put “single” on my bio(to show abundance) and I think this makes girls curious(i.e. is he dating, is he high value like I think he is??)" This is pretty stupid first of all. If you're a catch you're a catch regardless if you are single, in a poly, married etc, girls will hit on you. "So, she asks yesterday “is that why you don’t date?” while looking surprised This can be a few things, it can be a shit test to see how you react or she is genuinely curious. My gut is that she i…
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:33 AM
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So, a woman starts a conversation with you and you are annoyed by it? God damn it :)))
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:29 AM
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of course, there are exceptions but i don't think they call it "daddy issues" for nothing. I know it was understood in psychology that every man wants to marry a woman like his mother and every woman a man like her father. Maybe it's been debunked but from my experience it holds pretty true and most well mannered and emotional stable women come from emotional healthy environments.
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:16 AM
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Eastern Europe
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:25 AM
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Of course i read it, i'm not an asshole. Not gonna go point by point but a few things Healthy and white teeth through vit K2 Acne is caused by diet, hormones are affected by diet, washing your face with water is more than enough. Acute vs chronic stuff is different, of course you need doctors for acute stuff but they have no understanding of chronic stuff. If they would you wouldn't see the obesity/Alzheimer/dementia epidemic that we have rn We know what normal women look like and most of women …
/r/seduction05/07/22 08:17 PM
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So stop being narrow minded and arrogant. You aren’t a woman so you have no idea what you’re talking about and you can’t put everyone into one category. yeah, that sounds so nice :)) " It’s pathetic to say women are attracted to abusive men." Some women are, i didn't say all, but coming from what originally started the conversation, OP saw that if he is an asshole come girls dig it. And i kinda said that women that come from bag backgrounds usually like that type of men. So you kinda agreed with…
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:45 PM
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Ok, last message because i'm sure i'm not gonna change your mind so it's just wasting time for both of us. "You’re assuming that your personal unique experience of fixing your acne is universal. The facts are skincare products can resolve acne and slow the ageing process" I did all the skincare shit, and if you research it Accutane was prescribed as a last resort. My personal unique experience is actually understanding biology and how to detox properly and help my liver since i have an MTHFR mut…
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:41 PM
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I like how you put words in in mouth. Shaving your hair is normal and hygienic. Washing your face with water? sure. never plucks her eyebrows - again, you don't add toxic chemicals that fake enhance your beauty. "never styles her hair" i mean, a comb is fine, maybe at special events something more fancy. dresses in cheap clothes -> you ever though a guy said no to a woman based on her clothes? you don't understand man at all :)) . Sure, not to look like a bum with torn clothes and stained, but a…
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:06 PM
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very true, i think some of it is genetic. spanking, chocking, hair pulling is pretty normal these days. Not sure how normal it was before Maybe it's a genetic adaption from thousands of years ago when a tribe would conquer another tribe and rape the women. Maybe it's because they like to feel submissive ( i know i enjoy it because it makes me feel manly and dominating ) . So..it's a mix of things i guess
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:56 PM
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most /məʊst/ Learn to pronounce determiner greatest in amount, quantity, or degree. "they've had the most success" While maybe you are an exception ( although you seem quite aggressive ) can you point me exactly where i was narrow minded and arrogant? I said "my take" as in my opinion, i didn't force it upon you or said " all women are sluts " . There are women that have daddy issues or women that become the "male figure" in the household, i have friends like that. Pretty girls that have a boyis…
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:52 PM
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medical slave - this is an awesome interview from a channel i love. The woman basically developed a kink because her dad was a doctor ( or had utensils at home, don't remember exactly ) Our environment shapes us somewhat and while i can't prove a rule from only one interview/person, i think from experience and everything that it usually is the case.
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:18 PM
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I've spent a loot of money on doctors that wanted to sell me shit. I've had cystic acne since forever, nobody told me what sugar and omega 6 oils do to your health. Nobody talks about glycine/collagen as much as they should, that it's a key and sometimes limiting factor in glutathione production that detoxifies you. It's by far the most important thing and there are plenty of people that cured acne/eczema/psoriasis with it, where "conventional" a.k.a shitty medicine didn't do anything. But glad …
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:15 PM
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Skincare actually comes from the inside, from what you eat and don't eat, from how your body deals with toxins, from a lot of things. It's actually a really good proxy marker for your overall health so putting stuff on your face to cover the blemishes is like not showing your true self/health. Most men want their woman to be as real as possible, no fake tits, fake hair or fake health. Sure, some dumbasses want bigass titties but we call those republicans :)) Also you're proving my point with the…
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:43 PM
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hehe, you're a woman, right? Actually nobody really gives a fuck about 90% of the effort that women put into appearance. well, except other women that love to gossip about it. Guys don't care about long ass nails, about purses or shoes or matching bra and panties, or, and god damn it i hate this, make-up. Or hairstyle or earing or any of that crap that you think guys care about. You know what they do care about? Being a nice person, chill, feminine. Going to the gym or at least doing some sports…
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:22 PM
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There is a 1% chance she is sick, but that's soooo rare. If she tries to reschedule do it, sure, but if not just leave her be.
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:15 PM
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ok, fair enough but the "he continuously praised my appearance" does not really mean anything. Also an old school trick was something like " tell the cute girl she is gorgeous and the gorgeous girl she is smart " , it's the thing they want to be praised for basically. Anyway, the advice is still the same, go and look for someone that likes you and makes time for you, otherwise it's just bullshit
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:14 PM
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He's not that into you and probably has a lot of options. From what i know girls on apps swipe right way above their league ( 9s and 10s only ) so they get treated like sloppy seconds.
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:58 PM
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There is no game or seduction, this is the "hard" part where there's not cheat sheet and you just show her the real you. If you work on yourself as hard as you do in the gym then you gonna be fine. But if the last book you've read was in highschool, you have no informed opinions on important stuff, you have no social skills and cool people to hang out with...then you have a long road ahead.
/r/seduction05/07/22 01:16 PM
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Meh, it's reddit, in a different day the same answer gets 10 upvotes, who cares :))
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:01 PM
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My take is that most women get their attraction signals from their father, so they want someone like that. Most guys 30+ years ago were assholes, guys that would beat their kids and stuff like that, so that's what a lot of them are attracted to subconsciously. That's why girls with daddy issues go for stripping or outlaws. Anyway, if you want to be genuine and goofy find someone that had a good childhood, i don't they are many but they are still out there and she will love you like no other. On …
/r/seduction05/07/22 08:49 AM
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Yeap, a lot of red flags here. Keep her as a good fuck but not wife material
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:34 PM
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Always always always take your shot. Respectfully and with pride, but do it. There is research coming out that looks and status have 0% correlation with happiness in a relationship. Happiness comes from being respectful with each other, good communication skills, doing stuff together etc. Make her happy and you will become the best looking guy in the world. Most women don't know shit about what they want, that's how u get girls saying they want nice guys and end up with shitty dudes. Edit: also …
/r/seduction04/07/22 10:00 AM
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True, meant to say interesting for a woman. There are plenty silicon valley type people that i'd find interesting for their take on technology and stuff and most women would think they are boring
/r/seduction04/07/22 08:10 AM
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Sure man, my pleasure. Also, this is my opinion, i don't presume to know everything but i do love understanding human interactions so i have some knowledge. Reading and learning more is always good, i recommend Mate: Become the Man Women Want , it's such an underrated book imo. Goodluck out there
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:53 PM
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To be honest I don't do that that much, I have to work on my social skills because I am indeed too sexual oftentimes. It attracts women but they also don't trust me enough. Yeah, this right here is why they think you are a player. You're not really interested in them as a person, just to get your dick wet :)) . Nothing wrong with that i guess but some women don't want it or like it but the ones that just wanna fuck will be glad to join you. "I get it. So what should be my response when women tel…
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:36 PM
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There's an innate disgust threshold that every person has, it's rooted in our genes, we don't want to get a disease. "Many women tell me stuff like "too bad you're a player" You probably come off too shallow or sexual. A lot of players are like that, can make them laugh all the way to the bedroom. Do you discuss deeper topics and really get to know her? Maybe tone down the sexuality? "Yet any time I tried telling women that I'm only interested in them and no other woman, or that no other woman m…
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:03 PM
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I'm sure the number of women without orbiters under 35 is extremely fast approaching 0 nowadays. So finding one without orbiters will be a hell of a search. Also all women are insecure, some just act out like they are secure like a chihuahua acts tough If she's a good person of course it's worth it. And provided you can give her attention like she wants and make her happy she will forget about the other guys.
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:42 PM
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Ok, it's pretty easy actually. 1st of all your mindset is off, you need to be in a party mood and have fun, whatever happens happens. No hidden agenda no nothing. 2nd - she slaps your butt playfully? awesome, turn around, have fun. 2 options here. Make a stern face and "scold her" - "heey, you need to buy me a drink to touch my butt, house rules " " Oh, that's how you wanna play huh? spin her around and smack her ass while grinning" 3rd. After flirting, playing, try and isolate her and go in for…
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:11 PM
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I'm not saying not be attracted to it, that's genetic and you can't help it. But to be blinded by it is a different story. Genetic is to crave junk food because of the high fat high carb high calorie content but you can say no to it
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:56 PM
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Read his book. The short version is he upgraded the way he looked ( contacts, a bit of beard if i remember, shaved head instead of balding ) and he memorised some lines/routines that made him interesting. He was not interesting as a person but learned some interesting stuff, like having a friend that is not funny that learns to tell jokes. One is creative and smart and the other has good memory, it's a world of difference. From what i remember in his last book he said he regretted doing it and i…
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:52 PM
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They don't "need" to be anything since a lot of simps just offer things without expecting anything in return (well, except sex) . When guys will grow the fuck up and start having expectations and not be blinded by boobs or ass the shitty women will complain and get cats and the smart ones will upgraded themselves to what is expected.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:49 PM
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Usually the answer is to run but if she reaches out so much and thinks she has feeling for him i think he has a good chance. But if she doesn't want more than friends and he does, he should break if off of course
/r/seduction02/07/22 01:49 PM
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I'm gonna go against the grain here and say she is conflicted and will make up her mind once you two see each other. If you really like her and it's a good connection, probably her relationship is ending and wants another guy before she jumps ship. If i was you, i'd go out with her, kiss her and see what happens. If she wants it she will rationalize it and with a bit of help you can "steal" her from her bf. Some women are in bad relationships and are scared to leave the bf, doesn't mean they are…
/r/seduction02/07/22 12:34 PM
1

True. Remember, women are very different, maybe she got cold feet, maybe she wasn't feeling sexy that day, who knows. But you tried, it didn't work, don't lose sleep over it and just move on, you seem to know what you're doing.
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:59 AM
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With some girls you have to push for it multiple times ( in the same night ). They either test you to see if you really want it or just are shy and want to "preserve" their good girl image. So you try, back off when she tells you no and try again later. Of course, if it's a hard NO you just give up. This, assuming you really want her and will make the effort, but if it's meh, you can just give up and let her play her games
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:44 AM
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I don't think that's negging, that's just playful banter. Some girls love it and will throw it back, some like it and will just laugh and some will be stuck up. The ones that are stuck up you need to flip the script and stop with the banter like that ( probably she's a princess, doesn't have siblings etc ) and just go for the compliments. But from my experience those girls are not worth it, if you can't take a joke it's gonna be a shitty date/relationship
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:01 PM
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Neah, don't listen to the naysayers, it's perfectly normal to be invested in a good convo. But the cold hard truth is that girls will just go with the best looking guy out there, so if one comes up in the meantime ( or a good in bed ex ) she will go there. It's shit, there's no excuse actually for her not saying anything and just ghosting you if you had a good connection. We normalized being an asshole and surprise surprise, dating has gone to shit.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:55 PM
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Dude, there's a tinder experiment where the "hot guy" literally had in his bio that he is a convicted pedophile or some shit like that and he gets tons of action and girls saying that " it's ok, everybody does things they regret " https://thechive.com/2017/08/10/guy-poses-as-pedophile-on-tinder-and-it-doesnt-deter-women-one-ounce-13-photos/ You think looking like a slob would make a difference?
/r/seduction27/06/22 07:55 PM
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Sorry, that's just stupid. Being a "creep" is a very subjective thing, i've been sorta labeled a creep by some women while dressing the same and acting the same and other women are neutral and other's love me for it. Also, take a handsome guy and let him look like a slob and women will be like " omg, he's so anti establishment and he does his own thing, i love it " Dress an ugly guy good " oh, he's such a try hard " etc etc. There was a funny saying like "the only thing that distinguishes a cree…
/r/seduction27/06/22 07:42 PM
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From my point of view a normal courting process should be like: Kissing first date, kissing and petting 2nd date and from 3rd to 10th should sex happen. don't get me wrong, there's a time and a place for one night stands too and sex on the first date but if i want a gf i don't want her to give it up too fast. I know it's old school thinking in a way but it's just my preference, doesn't need to be yours. Probably there are very loyal girls out there that had sex the first date but i'm gonna need …
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:17 AM
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You have to make up your mind about it. The thinking was that if she fools around with you fast then you can't trust her in a marriage because she will fool around with somebody else too, fast. Everyone has different opinions about it, but from my experience when you get something that is of high value and not easily accessible to anyone you will treasure it more.
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:35 AM
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I actually have pretty good people around me, but that doesn't make me blind to facts. The dating scene is abysmal, sex work from women has gone up a lot, divorce rates gone up and most are because women never have enough and the grass is always greener, the rate of single moms is climbing, women shop like crazy and waste money, not even going to mention the content on tik tok. As i said, most women, not all. There are exceptions and there are some wonderful women out there but the percentage is…
/r/seduction19/06/22 07:02 PM
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well argued sir, well argued
/r/seduction19/06/22 04:12 PM
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That most women are shallow and boring and social media is extremely important for them. That most women don't value men of integrity or good morals, they just value looks and status/money -> that's how you end up with good girls running towards assholes that look good or are doctors/lawyers etc. Most women live in the moment like you said, but not just about the date, but most of their lives. One moment they make plans but if something better presents itself or they have some emotional flare up…
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:21 PM
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Basically you're friend zoned when you are not masculine enough, looks or personality. Imagine the most rugged man you can think of, muscles, thick neck, deep voice and goes after what he wants and is not afraid to show interest in a woman. Now imagine the other extreme, a skinny ( or fat/obese ) guy, little to no muscles, shy as fuck, and feminine by nature and easily offended. 1st guy is never in the friend zone since most women want to fuck him, 2nd guy is always in the friend zone since he i…
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:45 PM
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here ya go mate https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xa-4IAR\_9Yw
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:42 AM
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Cuz what the fuck you want? 10 magical words that will make a woman want to sleep with you? no such thing
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:23 PM
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You're thinking about it the wrong way. The things that make you attractive to women are the things that are important in life, but you do it because it's important not because you want a woman. Also, if you have your shit together women will flock to you and you can pick the ones that have their shit together too. Examples: A lot of people go to the gym to look good, but that's kinda stupid, you should go to be healthy. You can look good by doing TRT, Steroids etc ( and a looot of people do tha…
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:59 PM
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exactly, best example here. You can and should be somewhat aggresive after you talk a bit and laugh and see if you're into each other, otherwise it's the mentality " i don't care if i like her personality, i just want to fuck her because she looks good and will hit on her regardless "
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:42 PM
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yeah, do it man! Remember, if she likes you or is neutral and wants to see what you are like she will be nice whatever u say. If she doesn't like you no matter the opener she will blow you off. You can't miss. I'd just say " hey, i saw you sitting alone, would you like some company? " and just try and get to know her. If you want to be more polarizing " hey, i thought you are cute and would love to get to know you, my name is " and just sit next to her
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:39 PM
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I'm pretty sure a lot of feminist (3rd wave ) just hate men or have serious mental issues. Some of them were hurt and lash out at all men, some of them have almost 0 sexual value so of course it's the men to blame, not the fact they are 100 pounds overweight and masculine, and some of them are just too dumb and easily brainwashed. Just as easily they could of been part of a cult, MLM, bought a 20k nft so on so on. But really now, who cares? just run away from the crazy ones and find good people …
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:35 PM
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Yeah, and they back reason ( not sure this is the exact saying ) any interaction. Like ..if the guy doesn't pick up on the signals and kiss her exactly when needed she is like - oh, he is nice but we just didn't have chemistry - or - i think i like him just as a friend - But if it goes the way it's supposed to she thinks - yeah, she is really charming - or - i don't know what happened, i just went with the flow - The smarter women actually either just use this to justify in front of their friend…
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:29 PM
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Nobody is saying that they have to be without imperfection but it's absurd to imply that people should not work to be better. " What if you're attractive even though you are 30pounds overweight" " what if you're attractive even if you are 30 and still live with your parents " etc etc. There's a baseline for everything, nobody says you need to have a six pack ( although if you judge only by tinder i think it started to be a requirement ) but you need to have a decent body. Nobody says you need to…
/r/seduction09/06/22 04:04 PM
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Before learning to pick up women you should learn to be socially calibrated and have a good vibe overall. I can't imagine a women being affected if a decent guy approaches her in nice fashion without being creepy. The ones that are affected probably need social calibration too. I agree that being hit on a lot would be weird, but let's say you're in a bar and 2 guys go to a woman to try and pick her up and it doesn't work you can assume she is not in the mood and not "try your luck " . Also if wo…
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:45 PM
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Yeah, for me it hurt like hell but it was the best thing for my mental health. Also my mind can't reconcile the fact that i had hotter girls and this one with which i had feelings didn't want me, but hey, everyone can have preferences.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:32 PM
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Nice job man. Next time just move on at the 1st sign of non interest, saves both of you time and pride. She will appreciate it, paradoxically that you're not invested in what she says and you just move on. " i have a bf " oh, ok, have a nice day!
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:44 AM
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I don't think so, pretty sure you are not as handsome as you think
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:29 PM
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yeah, moving out helps a lot, having your own place even if it is with a friend is much better than with parents. But independent like doing your own things, hobbies, etc but for you and not to impress anyone, making money and investing or putting aside instead of buying stuff to impress people/girls.
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:54 AM
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It doesn't, it has some good concepts but strikes out a lot too. Non-neediness comes from 2 things. Be healthy ( and trust me, from my research i think only around 10-15% of people are healthy ) and second, be self-sufficient but that ties in a lot with the 1st one. If you do this 2 things your hormones and neurotransmitters will be balanced and you will feel like a million bucks. Biology always trumps psychology. Being vulnerable should be earned, you will be with long time friends or family, b…
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:42 AM
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A lot of women are just mentally unstable. They go for guys who treat them like shit most of the time. I'm tired of hearing excuses for shitty or idiotic behavior, either know what you want and stick with a guy or stop wasting his time. Being an asshole ( guys do it too ) got so normal these days that it's accepted behavior and then we try to understand why the dating market is so fucked up. Cuz a lot of people are just entitled narcissistic little cunts
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:39 PM
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play stupid games win stupid prizes
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:47 PM
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I love to go down on a hot girl, let me lick everything :)) . But some girls look decent but are a bit nasty, you just get the feeling you shouldn't do it. Smell or how it looks, i don't know, it's a vibe. I bet the same is with dicks too, so it's just the way it goes.
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:17 AM
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That's pretty bad imo, it's one thing to tease and another to call someone a prostitute. And i've said some pretty fucked up shit in my life but that's kinda of a no no, especially in text. Her: Only if you earn it You: Well, i'll return the favor when we get back to my place You: I thought i'd already earned it by being the most amazing guy you've ever met. You: Oh, never mind then, thought you like to make me feel good, like i do with you ( more serious but will set up better expectations from…
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:55 AM
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Yeah, maybe not the best word, my bad. Maybe it's a culture thing and it's mostly in my country. For example. In high school if you had a class of 25 women and 4 guys, there used to be a lot of drama and fighting. Where there are more boys or at least even, it's way more fun and people are nicer. At work, where there are more women ( my uncle and aunt have a medical clinique ) and they hire a bunch of nurses there are so many problems and gossip. Also most women i know agree that guys are a lot …
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:14 AM
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Why in the world would what she wants more important than what you want. Just ignore her, get someone new, don't make it more complicated. Also for me at least, it's a huge red flag that she can't take no for an answer or doesn't respect your decision. Personally even if she'd change her mind i wouldn't want anything serious with her except maybe a fwb.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:59 AM
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I'm 5'7, hooker up a few times with a girl that was 6' but she was special, really fun. Had another date with a 5'9 girl, it was ok, and picked up 2 polish chicks with one of my friends, i ended up with the tall one but have no idea how tall she was, but i'd assume over 6". We just kissed and some heavy petting on the beach but didn't go further. Shoot your shot, don't treat her any special just because she's tall and have fun.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:13 AM
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Actually i have pretty good success with women. Ruthless in the sense of not wasting time, not mean. Like if a girl is manipulative just leave, don't play her game. If she says she has a bf, leave. If she plays hot and cold, doesn't answer text messages etc etc just leave. Go search the 10-20% that don't do shit like that. Yeah, it helps a lot actually, you screen really fast for the toxic ones. Remember, looking good will give u a free pass on a lot of stuff so that in turn will make you not th…
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:10 AM
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You have some good points but.. while i do agree with you that you should be nice to people, the idea to be nice to a woman just for the sake of being nice and not have a toxic view of them is bad. People are great at stereotyping, it's an evolutionary trait that's been keeping us alive for thousands of generations. While it can be unfair to a minority, having stereotypes is good. Not gonna go into the whole race, but from my point of view growing up in a 3rd world country, if a gypsy is coming …
/r/seduction30/05/22 10:24 AM
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yeah, exactly
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:45 PM
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Good post, i'd bet my left nut that most high quality people don't stay on apps, it's too shallow
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:47 AM
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It's really not, i've been with a bunch of girls that wouldn't give me the time of day on Tinder and it explains why you see sometimes average looking guys with pretty or beautiful girls.
/r/seduction23/05/22 08:24 AM
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Awesome, go do it!
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:18 AM
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No problem. But this doesn't mean you can't still grow and look better and better. Just invest in yourself, in your health basically and if you want to meet girls just find a social hobby that you like, volunteering and dancing worked for me. Good luck man
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:13 AM
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You're competing in different situations. Day to day you are probably a decent looking dude, let's say you've met your classmates at a reunion and you'd be like the 2nd, 3rd best looking guy there. Now imagine going to a reunion with 1000 people, you'd be like 100th maybe. It's not bad, but women don't go to what's in their range, they go for the best. So the top 20-30 guys would get all the action and attention. Of course, in real life it's not that simple, because the women would see a lot of …
/r/seduction23/05/22 12:25 AM
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Pretty good, read it
/r/seduction23/05/22 12:18 AM
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ok, well for OLD and cold approach you need to look good . In the 1st photo you look nice but the belly screams to me as visceral fat. Dieting and exercise will help, but diet is by far the biggest thing. I've been researching this topic and trying out everything, from carnivore to vegan, from keto to low fat. Pretty sure carnivore is the best solution for everyone but i think fermented foods play a key role so you have a good microbiome so you can digest the fat properly and have enough polyphe…
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:57 PM
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Meh, just get off tinder and bumble and online in general, if you're not masculine enough you won't stand a chance. From my experience women will pick the best guy on the available social interaction, here you ( we ) are vs. buff dudes, good genes, millionaires etc. I got a really good profile, got over 100 matches in 2 months but still got ghosted, left on read etc etc, doesn't matter how good your personality is or the convo, the minute she gets a six pack ab guy she will go with that one. Mos…
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:59 AM
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If you really want to do it, just park your car and get out and talk to her like a normal human being, not like that..
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:35 AM
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While i agree with you to a certain degree, just because something violates social norms doesn't mean it's bad. If you watch old movies you see from time to time how guys approach smoothly in bars, trains etc. If you are socially aware and courteous and nice, i don't see anything wrong with going to a woman and talking to her. Some people don't have time or inclination for hobbies, some hobbies are more isolated or have more men in them etc etc. A lot of people go to bars/clubs and secretly hopi…
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:36 AM
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you stop, take a break, grow where you need to grow and start again.
/r/seduction15/05/22 11:15 AM
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so how the hell will he ruin you? :))) just find someone close, this is a dead end
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:15 PM
0

"well, ball's in your court now, how you wanna do this?" " well, if it this was interesting just wait till we meet " winky face " "
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:23 PM
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Game is important, knowing how to be a man overall is important. I'm just saying that, in this day and age, the spoils go to the victors much more. So the top men get an overabundance of women so it's even more important than a few years ago. I'm a pro poker player, so in these terms, imagine cash games vs tournaments. In cash games everyone gets what they put in or manage to get, in tournaments the top 10% get most of the money, 70% don't get anything and 20% get something.
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:33 PM
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We're going more and more from a " each guy gets a girl " to the top guys getting most girls. I'd blame it on girls to be honest, since 5's want to date 10's . Nothing wrong with that but after being pumped and dumped a few times, maybe try and get someone on your level? not everyone will get a king and not every guy will get a model. But since top guys now can fuck basically a diff girl every night and tbh i bet almost every guy here would do that, why would he ever settle down? maybe if he get…
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:07 PM
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not sure what the question/problem is here? The jealousy that she can fuck more guys? it's like being jealous of a guy born rich that he can buy a lambo and u can't. From growing up, wisdom etc i recommend reading the stoics, marcus aurelius, epictetus, socrates. Maybe it would put things a bit in perspective that how much you fuck doesn't really matter
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:08 PM
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Was just messing around, acting jealous :)) . Good for you for going to therapy, life's shit for so many people but few act on it
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:01 PM
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well, fuck you and your happy fucking life. good for you mate
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:37 PM
1

ok, last answer to you cuz i just don't like you. It was an exceptional case because she wasn't in the country for a few years so we developed some feelings and we were emotionally compatible and i thought when we spend time together it would evolve in a relationship. We dated other people in that time but we had a special connection. But when we finally moved back here we tried but she kept dodging the sexual part and didn't understand what's happening but she finally admitted. That's the short…
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:53 PM
1

No i'm not and any guy who knows anything about girls knows that you will always take some L's . But sure mate, assume anything you want, your game will get you any girl, go away now
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:32 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9HGzFGt7BLmWDqooUbWGBg Matthew Hussey seems pretty good
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:04 PM
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Nice of you to update, a lot of the times i wonder what happens. So basically i was exactly in your shoes but at least after a lot of pressing she straight up admited that she didn't find me physically attractive. It's a blow to self esteem but i'd always prefer the truth. I'd bet a good amount of money it's the same thing for you too. Remember, girls always make excuses and rationalize bad decisions if the guy is hot. Imo if you get in good shape you will get her if you still want her.
/r/seduction08/05/22 01:29 PM
1

yeah, exactly, that's why i was saying it's not an individuals fault per se but the society as a whole that is not more demanding about health and rights and better pay
/r/seduction08/05/22 01:26 PM
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👀
/r/seduction08/05/22 01:25 PM
3

I've been through something similar, but i can't just be friends with someone that i'm attracted too. Maybe for you it's different
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:52 PM
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That "average" guys are actually getting worse and worse and women are kinda right when they don't want to date average. Not saying it's the guys fault, but it is a reality. An average guy 50 years ago could sustain a whole family, buy a house, was thin/fit and testosterone was much higher. It's estimated that it's a drop of 1% per year so in 50% it's 50% drop. That "average" women today are more shallow and materialistic and guys are kinda right to go their own way. Why would you work just to b…
/r/seduction07/05/22 03:01 PM
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Well, 1st of all you need to make sure you're not taking advantage of. So coffee date and a walk through a park, cheap and low pressure. 2nd of all, just treat it normally. Flirty, hit on her, etc, kiss her. There's only so much you can do. Also woman ( just like men ) are allowed to change their minds. Maybe she heard good stuff about you or you started looking better, who the hell knows. But i do know that if i have a chubby friend that's a girl and i like her personality i will friendzone her…
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:32 PM
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so, let's analyze objectively. on the plus side, she clearly likes you ( we'll see if as a friend or more ) you had 4 dates you 2 have fun together you talk everyday. On the minus side you've been a little bitch about kissing her you told her you're a little bitch you tried to kiss her and got rejected So... You're either in the friendzone because you didn't act in time, because you're not her sexual type ( and just wants to be friends ) or you made it weird and when you went for the kiss she go…
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:25 PM
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Interesting. My only experience kinda like that was with a girl that used to kiss me like slobbering all over my mouth, so weird. Just had one small relationship till then so i get your point. If i was you i would of just told her to chill a bit and kiss her and fuck her and teach her a few things. But i get your point, if you think she was crazy just run away. I just think she was uncalibrated as you say, nothing wrong about that, everybody been through that and it would of been much easier if …
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:10 PM
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sure, up to you. I don't do framing/games like this, i speak honestly and it usually works out, when it doesn't it filters out the crappy women. I'd rather meet from time to time a cool woman than to deal with crap, but i understand your point of view too.
/r/seduction01/05/22 12:56 PM
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It's not really up to you, it's about her. If it's really important for her to get fucked well than you might of lost her. Also, do you have an emotional connection or anything besides fucking? If it's the only thing keeping you together.. you have your answer. I'd just say something like " hey, sorry for the last time, i'll make sure next time i'll be well rested and won't dissapoint "
/r/seduction01/05/22 12:43 PM
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For the average guy, it is kinda important. But if you're ugly i don't give a fuck how good you think you look, you'll just end up a joke like the fat girls that wear skinny outfits but having a high self esteem. l.e also just cuz a surgeon says something it doesn't mean much, it's called appeal to authority bias
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:53 PM
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you ever on a diet when you know what you should do but end up eating cake at 1 am? Sounds a bit like that There's something wrong there but if the guy is not telling her anything it's not your problem, if i were a betting man i'd give them most 5 years
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:01 PM
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Ignore franniedelrey, she talks out of her ass. Every person just wants to get whatever best mate they can get. It's biological of course, you want the best chances of survival and healthy offspring. MOST women are most fertile when they are young of course. So 18-24 is your best bet. There are exceptions and some women look amazing even at 30+ but, again, most women are best at that age. Usually they don't have that much baggage so they don't hate guys and they don't blame it on the patriarchy,…
/r/seduction28/04/22 01:54 PM
3

Well, some of them just test you to see if you really are confident. So they try and make fun so you make fun back. If they go too far you tell her to cut it off. Sometimes they give u signals only to pullback if you make a move. If you read her right she just pulls back to see if you really understood her ( there was an old saying, watch what a woman does not what she says ) . Maybe she interrupt you while talking, if it happens once, it happens, if it's multiple times you tell her and stand yo…
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:58 PM
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You have a long road ahead. Stop thinking about women for the next couple of years. Get some money, a good job, you're going to need it. Put some muscle mass on you, it's easier said than done since sometimes there could be problems, so some of the money that you made will go to doctors/tests etc. I'd go for some beef, pale usually goes hand in hand with iron deficiency and small muscles. When you have some money in your pocket and some muscles ( not a lot, but 15pounds of muscle on a lean guy c…
/r/seduction27/04/22 04:06 PM
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if amog stand for alpha male of the group and he acts like that, i got news for you, he's not alpha, just a douche bag. so either man up and tell him to stfu once in a while and let other talk and try to have other topics or leave the group. I had a "friend" like that and i don't stand for bullshit like this so i kept interrupting him. He asked annoyed why i keep interrupting him and i told him because he never takes a break and talks constantly.
/r/seduction27/04/22 11:12 AM
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One doesn't preclude the other. You can be charming like Daario, strong and masculine like Drogo, and a good leader and have good values like Jon Snow. You need to work at them and basically you have stoicism somewhat, they put emphasis on learning, on oratory skills and on fitness too. Just like you'd want a woman that has brains, beauty and charm, they would like someone like that too. In your example, if you can't have them all, of course you'd go with the deep values instead of the charming …
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:05 AM
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I've found some strong women that can turn down the act and become more submissive once they see you cut through their bullshit. But others are just annoying and a pain in the butt, manipulating and being a shitty person.
/r/seduction26/04/22 06:52 PM
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"i don't particularly like going to the gym" "i don't particularly like dressing well" "i don't particularly like being interesting and charismatic" Just because you don't like something doesn't mean you shouldn't get good at it. Learn to text, nothing major but at least get some basic skills.
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:16 PM
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sure
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:36 AM
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i didn't say short guys can't get women, but it is a bit harder. Broke guys can get women but it is harder. dumb guys can get women but it is harder.
/r/seduction21/04/22 09:02 PM
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There will always be women like that, no guy will be loved by all women.
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:33 PM
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while that is pretty true, you have guys like James Bond and the old movies where the protagonist was the dark tall dangerous guy who would get the women.
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:46 PM
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Basically you never ask. there are a few scenarios She has a bf and he loves him - she will tell you without asking, not respond to flirtying, etc She has a bf and fucks around or wants to breakup with him and searching for something better - she won't tell you at the start, you will kiss/fuck and will tell you usually after She doesn't have but wants you to go away - she tells you she has, same as in 1. She doesn't and likes you - ... She is not sure about you - a lot of women need some time to…
/r/seduction21/04/22 04:08 PM
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While Mark Manson contradicts himself a lot, i don't think here it's a matter of contradiction. Having a fear and doing it anyway is literally the definition of courage. Being courageous is not the same as being needy of course. Needy is when, without good reason, you accept the other's person point of view as more valid than your own. Being needy is giving someone more than they give back.
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:58 PM
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Sorry but this is not science. there are plenty of guys that are not tough looking that get a ton of pussy
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:39 AM
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You can try different places of course. See what you like, what inspires you, where the age range is close.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:18 AM
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I had a fun highschool, didn't mean to bring out bad memories
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:17 AM
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Ask friends who do stuff like that, search online on groups near you, c'mon, show some initiative :))
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:17 AM
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yeah, true, didn't see it like that but i guess some people can go overboard with hitting on girls. well, i guess no community takes kindly to that kind of thing, so just talking to girls and see who's interested
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:10 PM
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What the hell did i just read. So you don't want to go out but still go out to meet a girl, she is kissing another dude, you befriend the dude, he says he knows she's your girl ( so..she knows from her? ) and after that he leaves and you 2 smash. So many red flags man
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:07 PM
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True, but you won't ever change unless you accept that you will be a creep sometimes, it's part of growing. Also you can just chat and talk to people, not just to flirt
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:04 PM
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Ok, call me naive, but i have a few friends that when they were 18-20 they would smash a lot. This was 15 years ago, and no Tinder etc, so that would multiply things. Let's say you're a pretty boy and start fucking since you're 17..to 20 you have 4 years more or less. it's 15girls per year, so a little over one new girl a month. It's def doable. You you add a job as bartender or travelling a lot it can be pretty easy.
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:03 PM
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not sure why you're getting downvoted, that's just hate for no reason. Anyway, like your username says, goodforyou, keep slayin and use protection, hehe
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:28 PM
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I guess a book club if you can find something like that. Mountain hiking groups can be fun.
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:13 PM
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Yeap, true, i always recommend that. Also volunteering, i used to go to Red Cross and you have so much time to talk and have fun it's like high school
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:05 PM
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I don't wanna hate but those are crazy numbers. Everyone goes to the gym and takes care of themselves but to come to those numbers so fast i kinda assume you are very goodlooking? Like, congrats, but some people have it easier than others. Fuck, it seems like any way i try to say it it seems like i'm hating and i'm really not. Your advice is spot on regardless
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:10 PM
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I found that mate: Become the man women want and Models from Mark Manson are some really good books that explain a lot. Getting good with women will be a good amount of work if you're not naturally talented and it seems you are not, but it's worth it. Because getting good with women also can prepare you for life somewhat. For example. Women like guys who can protect them. That means, you should try to be fit, some muscles and do some form of self defense. So it makes your life quality better Wom…
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:01 PM
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Well, it's clear she has some issues. First make up your mind what you want and then tell her. If she complies, good. If not, find someone who is not so immature. Don't make it more complicated
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:16 PM
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" I think dieting has hurt me more than it has helped. It's just a bunch of skinny ass bitches that are jealous that i have curves, i swear. It starts from a place that "you're not good enough" or " you are too big" or "guys just like thin healthy girls " . But i know i'm not needy and i'm a boss bitch, why should i improve just so they like me? "
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:21 PM
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haha, of course not. But getting fit ( not jacked ) and healthy is a priority for everyone. Tats make you seem more dangerous, i think it's old tribal mentality. It's not necessary of course but it can help a little. Being tall..nothing you can do that so it's even more important to be fit.
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:43 PM
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2 things. Tall tatted men are sexy since it shows protector capabilities and good in bed/fit/healthy Now the toxic part, women who love toxic men are either toxic themselves or have a low self esteem and think that's what they deserve so..be fit and show protector capabilities, have boundaries and be a decent person and you'll end up with a good woman, not a tiktok bimbo.
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:09 PM
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Very interesting thoughts. Is it worth it to go through the bitch face shield? Like, met any girls that are really nice once you get through it? From my point of view it seems they are not really adjusted socially and are too defensive but maybe i'm wrong
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:16 AM
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Well, i can give you my only fans 👀 😂 No problem mate, glad to help out!
/r/seduction17/04/22 06:50 PM
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I don't really know the culture there, some places are meaner than others so i guess you know better. But it's pretty clear there's unresolved trauma there and i think you're a smart guy, you know the stuff you don't know but always be careful about the stuff you don't know you don't know. Especially if you have the money i'd go to a therapist, just to talk and see what happens. If you don't see improvements or AHA moments you can either try someone else or give up. I understand the need for fre…
/r/seduction17/04/22 06:33 PM
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Well you seem to really have your shit together. While i do understand the pleasure of spinning plates are you sure you're not missing out on having a LTR? I had my fair share of women for my looks and honestly besides a 4year relationship the fucking around part of my life was nothing special. Sure it's fun but it's not deep or meaningful. Obv the best thing would be to have a LTR with a girl that will allow you to have fun on the side, i think it's harder to get but not impossible. I would sug…
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:39 PM
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Having so many options to choose from shows the shitty side of people, guys and girls. It's the same over and over again, girls complain about chads ghosting and guys complain about girls ghosting. Chads don't complain and are not on reddit, neither are the 8s,9s,10s. Not think about how many people you met in real life and how many have decent moral values and are well grounded good people. For me, i'd say maybe 5% or 2% ? So now think about how many of these pretty girls that usually have a li…
/r/seduction17/04/22 02:41 PM
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True that but i thought it's a given. You can get rejected by a shit load of unrelated reasons to you, but i was talking about the reasons you can control. #2 she could be a lesbian so not even the perfect guy will water her mouth #3 she got raped a few months ago so all guys are shit right now #4 she just came out of an abusive relationship etc etc
/r/seduction14/04/22 05:32 PM
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The amount of girls who reject you will be an accurate measure of how attractive you are in that society. But it's a shallow 1 min assessment of you as a person, so try not to take it too personally. The same person that rejects you can be attracted to you in a different context ( few guys available or social proof or position of authority etc ) . If you get too many rejections either try and become as attractive as you can, physically or get into social circles where you can meet people for mor…
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:41 PM
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Mostly it's good but i'd change a few things. The sexual value of a woman is based on fit she is ( healthy etc. ) . While i do agree that most women tend to peak at 20, some can peak at 30 ( think about a woman who had health problems or drug addictions and started eating healthy and exercising around 25, the best she will be at 30. For fat girls it's the same thing ) some can peak at 20 and decline very rapidly ( think about good genes and bad environment, drugs, alcohol, a lot of partying ) so…
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:31 PM
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😂😂 Dude..what is wrong with you? First of all it's not anyone's responsibility to try to be helpful, i'm not getting payed here, i was just trying to help you out. 2nd of all i was trying to use the socratic method, if i ask and you try to answer it will be much easier to get to the answer and you remember it than if i just just game you the answer. Guiding someone to the conclusion is much better than just giving away the ending. You seem really entitled, and no, the answer had nothing to do wi…
/r/seduction12/04/22 08:05 AM
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Well, let me ask you like this. What do Bruce wayne, Iron man, James Bond etc have in common?
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:45 AM
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ons one night stand, pua pick-up artist
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:50 PM
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that made me laugh :)) But batman is the alter ego, i bet Bruce could get tons of pussy
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:43 PM
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Good game doesn't meant lying and acting like a fool. But if a good looking guy that is charming and makes you laugh comes up and talks to you and you're bitch about it, maybe he's not the problem?
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:54 AM
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Chads don't usually have game. They just look good and pull, need breeds competence. The best looking guys i've seen say some idiotic things and still pull. That doesn't mean they are good after sex or how they treat a women or anything like that, they are just good at ONS. God i hate the word PUA. Just try thinking about the most interesting person you know or you've seen in a movie and try to understand how to act like that.
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:25 AM
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This is exactly why guys laugh when women give dating advice
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:05 AM
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red flag 1, she plays hard to get. That's immature and stupid red flag 2, she gives you and ultimatum. Don't think you need another red flag to bounce
/r/seduction09/04/22 12:13 PM
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I bet everyone was a good looking friend that gets girls and just is. The one that just breaths around the gym and looks better, he can drink and eat like you and while you are 3pounds heavier each month he looks the same. We are not made the same, some people have to work more for the same results. The good thing is that you get to understand the process and it's more logical to say " i've read books about these topics, i understand nutrition and exercise, i understand game and how women work "…
/r/seduction08/04/22 09:31 AM
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Ok, i get your point, maybe you are right
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:12 PM
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Check out the argument from authority fallacy . Basically you can get advice from a guy that gets tons of pussy but has no idea how he got it " just be yourself bro " and good advice from someone that studied the game for a long time but doesn't get pussy for different reasons. If the advice is good, is good regardless of the guy who says it. Advice like looking better, having boundaries, being a good person but not a doormat, stuff like that will always be fundamentals for good reason.
/r/seduction07/04/22 04:50 PM
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Not everyone reacts the same, if they said they will keep it casual and she catches feelings she could take a step back
/r/seduction07/04/22 04:47 PM
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Yeah, i guess she started falling for you, you awesome guy, you. So..i don't know, just try to not have regrets if you lose her, the dating world is getting crazy
/r/seduction07/04/22 01:13 PM
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Either she started catching feelings so she is purposefully distancing herself from you so she won't get hurt. Or she found someone else. Btw, if you guys are having such good times, how come you don't have a relationship?
/r/seduction07/04/22 01:05 PM
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Sure, not saying game is not important but the more looks you have the less game you need and the less looks you have the more game you need. There is a cut off point, no matter what game you have but those are the exceptions
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:31 AM
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Just remember the survivorship bias. "Survivorship bias, survival bias or immortal time bias is the logical error of concentrating on the people or things that made it past some selection process and overlooking those that did not, typically because of their lack of visibility." Do you think guys that don't get rejected are in this sub? You think a guys who is lucky metabolically and naturally skinny and fit looks for dieting advice? Here are the people that are most prone to getting rejected an…
/r/seduction06/04/22 06:45 AM
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went from getting 1-2 matches a month to 60+ . A few girls swiped just to tell me they loved my profile. Sadly, me, not so much :)) . So it still boils down to looking good, for Tinder women
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:58 AM
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Nice to see a lot of people are having the same experience. Online dating is a joke tbh unless you're very good looking
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:41 PM
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Easy. Get another Instagram account and have it for friends and family only. You give it and make her feel special. You do your thing, either a ons, a fuck buddy, a relationship. Depending when it ends, you unfollow them etc.
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:12 PM
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My 2c are that you moved too slow and she still is giving you a shot. If you fingered her that night, you respectfully back off for like 30 min and try again. And again. If she gets mad then you stop for real, otherwise is just women being women, Bill Burr here explains it perfectly under a minute https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GZ3QHTpMZgQ Women want to be desired and you didn't give her that. So decide right now, do you pursue her some more or just cut her off. Otherwise the "what if" will alw…
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:38 PM
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Tinder is a scam. I made a really good profile, spent a few months on it. Got platinum, got around 60 matches a month and i swiped right maybe 50% of the time. Thought i hit the jackpot. After 2 months, countless ghosts, countless adds on ig just to have the conversation die, only a handful of dates ( not that great tbh, lowered standards too much i guess ) and just shitty women all around i came to the conclusion that Tinder is where you only go if you look really good to fuck and not much else…
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:24 PM
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Bitches be crazy, yo! Ok, for real now? Well, a woman that loves her partner won't flirt with you, i don't care what anyone says. If the girl is truly loyal and 100% in the relationship she won't flirt. So these hoes? They will cheat if you make the right moves. But they won't kiss you if everyone sees them, so you need to isolate the girl somehow and she will be down for business. But it does require a bit more work. Also it can be antislut defense, they want to see if you really want them. It'…
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:20 PM
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It's an evolutionary thing. Do some research online why girls like bad boys, why some girls love guys who go to prison etc. Basically what a woman wants is a good monster, a tender defender, a beast that will protect her. Think about the most dangerous person you know in real life but he is kind and good towards you but is someone would mess with you he would fuck him up. That's what they want. Even going towards the known assholes or criminals because it's so important to them. Their safety abo…
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:53 PM
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Awesome. Depends on body language, voice tonality and overall how you present yourself but it was nice and to the point, good for you man. Update us if you get a date with her
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:39 PM
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I don't know but maybe if you dig enough you can find some answers. But don't forget, there was still societal pressure then, to not cheat to be a good woman/widow. There wasn't so much sex liberation and instant gratification and endless possibilities to meet new people. So it was quite different in my opinion. In this day and age the fact that we have IG and Tinder is really messing up the dating market even with enough people to go around. But of course, to this things we can add that testost…
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:07 PM
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That's very interesting. I guess it's a mix of both? Since in the majority of cultures the guy is the one who is doing the approach i guess it's biological but it's susceptible to change depending on the environment. Imagine a place with 70 women and 30 guys. I know there is literature about different ratios on campuses and where there are more women than guys, there's a flourishing hookup culture and where it's 50/50 or 60/40 for guys it's a lot more relationship based. I do tend to view the av…
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:52 PM
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+++ very nice!
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:29 PM
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Sure, there are exceptions and the better looking you are ( friendly too ) the more will come. But it's still a very small percentage. Also the most feminine women and the best looking ones won't come up to you almost never.
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:03 PM
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Hell no. Only damaged manipulative women need that. What they do need is an exciting life, tbh everyone needs that. So take some spontaneous trips, make her small presents without occasion ( like a flower, a chocolate, a silly thing that you saw in a store ) make some long term plans like traveling, stuff like that. Making a woman feel insecure instead of happy is a moronic thing to do
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:52 AM
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This is just crass. Honestly i wouldn't pursue her anymore. She's either stupid by saying something disrespectful like that ( if you're flirting a decent thing is to not say about your other flings ) or she is just playing games which means she is immature as fuck. Have standards, have a backbone, drop her ass. I'm pretty sure that's why you feel something is off. Imagine you telling a girl the same thing " i slept with a girl but was thinking about you the whole time " It's cringe and disrespec…
/r/seduction28/03/22 07:53 PM
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I have a forearm tattoo, the pain is not that much. It doesn't increase looks that much but i guess helps out a bit. I wouldn't sweat it too much, if you like one get it, if not, don't. It's not a big deal in this day and age
/r/seduction27/03/22 06:13 PM
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If the penalty is a lot less severe how come so few people can get over approaching? Also do you think you can weed out a trait that has been useful for hundreds of thousands of years in a few centuries? Most people still used to live in small villages.
/r/seduction27/03/22 06:07 PM
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Yeap, trust your gut. It was kinda fun, she was a bit too crazy for my taste but the sex was pretty good. Yeah, you're spot on, any decent guy she would date would not let her dress slutty if she was in a relationship. Of course, again, there are exceptions but think about it, if she is in love she would dress down and cover up. Just like she does when she visits her parents etc. But some will just love the attention for attention's sake, or for followers on IG etc, so don't take it to heart if …
/r/seduction27/03/22 04:47 PM
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Most women are very nice even when they tell you "no". So shoot your shot, even if you give them attention, it is an unlimited resource. Just be respectful, nice, and try and have a conversation. I don't have much experience cold approaching but the ones i did, i usually got a "not interested" but in a nice way. But i do remember a hot russian chick that was on a beach, granted she was wearing a bathing suit but she looked smoking. I talked to her, we ended up having breakfast and spending the n…
/r/seduction27/03/22 04:34 PM
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Most of our human history we used to live in 100-200 people tribes. There were all friends and family so you would be "confident" everyday. If you met people from another tribe you would be fearful - genetic trait that got passed on - and usually ran away, if not, the chances of being murdered were extremely high. The only people who can be confident a.k.a fearless all the time are psychopaths. Fear from other people was what made it possible for all your grandparents to reproduce. That's why me…
/r/seduction27/03/22 04:14 PM
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The more revealing a woman dresses the more open to sex she is. It's like signaling in nature. She's not open to sex from everyone, just to the "right guy". The more conservative a girl dresses ( think Amish ) the more reserved she is. Tattoos and piercings are the same usually. Of course there are exceptions to these rules but it's just like everywhere. The girls that "need" attention are the same that stick their buts out on IG and love it when guys drool over them. Most of them have a high bo…
/r/seduction27/03/22 04:10 PM
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True but i meant us as a collective, for the good of the society
/r/seduction25/03/22 12:59 AM
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Dude wtf, run. She is either messing with you, crazy, or just plain stupid. either way just run
/r/seduction24/03/22 10:21 PM
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Both men and women need to grow the fuck up, accept responsibility that the environment is against them and make themselves much better than they are right now. So many girls that would be cute/wife material if they would drop some weight, so many guys that would be better if they would hit the gym and get some therapy. Actually therapy goes for the women too, we lost our values, women are going to OF and guys are simping, wtf is this life.
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:52 PM
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Yeah, they seem like normal conversations, nice job. Maybe you were trying too hard earlier so being a bit more chill helps. Anyway, thanks!
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:43 PM
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So, brats are the girls that are submissive but you have to earn her submission, she will play-fight back. In the sense that she will test you like a little brat but all she wants is someone to tell her "no, we'll do it like this" . Not by being mean, just good boundaries. In bed she might play that she doesn't want to fuck but you have to kinda force her. In america i know consent is a big thing so i'm not exactly sure how to navigate that so i don't really have any advice for you here except t…
/r/seduction24/03/22 12:31 AM
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awesome
/r/seduction23/03/22 07:02 PM
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This is really interesting and i agree that before 2015 it was kind of a diff game. Could i see some screenshots? Maybe post somewhere? Nice job
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:59 PM
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:)))) mate you got your name wrong, mark manson wrote models. that's The way of the superior man. It's funny cuz in Models Mark is exactly the opposite, he doesn't respond to tests and he ignores or challenges women that test him. I think it's a much healthier approach, if you play stupid games you win stupid prizes. The best women i know don't test because you don't need to test if you're smart enough to understand a person.
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:00 AM
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Since you got 0 matches across 4 platforms i thought the info is good enough. If you look decent than maybe it's a racial thing? I know white guys usually are preferred by all the women and all the others have a really strong polarizing effect, like in my country black men that look decent get a ton of girls. Anyway, was trying to be helpful, didn't mean anything bad by it.
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:06 PM
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So.. sorry to be an asshole but you probably just ugly. It just sucks sometimes. So you have a few options, the other advice here is pretty shit. go to a country that likes white guys and your success will improve dramatically. It won't really change anything when you come back home though. hit the gym and if you can't look really good maybe try some good cycling of steroids. Not going overboard, just a little bit to help you put on some muscle and shed fat. Looking good is 90% of the battle. Or…
/r/seduction21/03/22 03:48 PM
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mate: become the man women want . I think it's the most scientific based book
/r/seduction21/03/22 12:16 PM
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It's his only good book. the other ones are a crash grab. No shitty puns or jokes, no meaningless advice, no forced comedy. Models is a must read and Mate too
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:40 PM
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Oh shit, you just answered one of my questions that i had in the back of my mind for a long time. Didn't understand why a butterface girl was so mean to me, even though i treated her just like i treat all the girls i date - respectfully - but because she was projecting so much crap on me she acted like that. Cheers man
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:04 PM
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They do like personality but after they like how you look. Just like you like personality of a girl but it has to pass the threshold of minimum beauty.
/r/seduction13/03/22 12:08 AM
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Most people tend to have short attention spans and a lack of self awareness. I said true about this and then gave you examples of why women are usually worse. In the sense that while i agree that a lot of guys are subpar, the percentage of women that are subpar is a lot higher
/r/seduction11/03/22 08:08 PM
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True but look women's friendships. Look at the entitlement. Look at who is buying the most amount of crap that they don't need. Look at kids raised by single moms vs single dads. Look at who initiates most divorces.
/r/seduction11/03/22 07:31 PM
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True, some guys are dumb as fuck as well, so that's good because our competition is not that great. "Women who are genuinely interesting, attractive, interested in me and available are very few and far between. That's why I can't see it as being a numbers game, because it's not every day or even every month that I find a girl like that." That's a contradiction. Would the chances of meeting a girl that you like go up or down if you meet more people?
/r/seduction11/03/22 07:54 AM
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Didn't really want to respond again but here it goes, since it seems i'm not getting through. Being unique doesn't mean shit. A lot of people are unique but don't have SMV ( sexual market value ) But if you take 5 guys that are basically the same, 6foot3, lean with muscles, high iq, well developed emotionally, and making 200k a year, they would be a total fucking catch and all the women would date them, since they would be in the top 1%. Are they unique? Fuck no. Do they have a high SMV? you bet…
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:30 PM
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To be interested means to appreciate someone/something. A lot of people just appreciate the attention from others, not the people per se. That's why op ( and everyone else ) is having a tough time finding a decent person, a lot of women are getting so much attention that they are hooked by it and can't pick someone or value someone. Look into the paradox of choice. It's the same thing for the top guys that have all the women in the world and still can't settle down. It's a side effect of todays …
/r/seduction10/03/22 03:40 PM
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being unique doesn't mean shit. Being good at something, better, special, important, that's a whole different thing. Susan Boyle is unique and she ain't getting men
/r/seduction10/03/22 03:30 PM
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He probably started the convo, made it funny, picked a place got them on a date etc etc. they have a lot of reason to care but since they have a lot of options they are just used to being selfish and not really interesting or interested. The same woman when she reaches 35 and the options dry out will be a lot more engaged. Also asking questions about the other person is basic human decency when they ask you about yourself. Stop defending women as they are magical creatures, some of them just fuc…
/r/seduction10/03/22 12:20 PM
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"On the other hand they give me the signal that they're not (never really asking me questions, not reciprocating the effort)" Most women are pathetic when it comes to flirting and engaging since they are getting pursued most of the time so no incentive to get any skills. It's a by product of a women centric society. Also a lot of them are simply dumb. Look at most women's average day and it's work/school and going out or meeting a friend. Sure, some have some hobbies but learning how to dance wo…
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:58 AM
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Look for the scientists not the bro's that want to sell you something. Look for the things that make sense from an evolutionary stand point. Looking good and being healthy, having a job and money for the security purpose, learning to fight and other hobbies. But also having standards, not letting girls disrespect you, standing your own ground. I'd recommend Models and Mate: becoming the man women want.
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:30 AM
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Probably someone else came into her mouth life and after that she remembered you. Don't say weak stuff like "you don't need to apologize" wtf, of course she does. Play it as you like, but my personal opinion don't fuck with people that don't keep their word, they are used to do that all the time
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:22 AM
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Trust that feeling
/r/seduction08/03/22 08:33 AM
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Ask yourself, if you have a gf and she meets a guy like you met her and she meets with him for a drink how would you feel? Don't be a shit person and move the fuck on
/r/seduction08/03/22 01:41 AM
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I don't know man, i feel like this applies to a lot of women but then again a low of woman are fucking crazy and immature. The ones that you really want to date don't fall for cat string theory or stuff like that, if it's honest and logical and you both feel good talking to each other why would a sane person lose interest? The ones that do, loved the feeling of insecurity but not you specifically. Just like the cat loves that the string moves, not which person moves the string. So..play stupid g…
/r/seduction07/03/22 09:11 AM
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So she ghosted you and you still talk to her? Dude.. have a fucking back bone and cut her out. Maybe she'll learn something from it. Otherwise the only thing she'll learn is that guys are morons and she can do anything to them and they will still take her back. Fuck low expectations, stand her up and block her
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:45 AM
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It will def help your chances. BUT do you really want to date the girls that are attracted to you because of the things you have? Or because of the person you are? I would do this in your place. 1st. Buy some well fitting high value clothes. I have a leather jacket from an expensive brand for the last 7 yeas, one of the best purchases i made. So buy a few expensive and well fitting items ( if you think you're body weight will vary greatly than disregard it ) 2nd. Move to your own place but make …
/r/seduction05/03/22 10:52 PM
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"I feel she has been irresponsible with my feelings" your feelings are your feelings, you decide how you act based on how you feel but don't blame it on her. She probably got scared cuz it was like a "come to my place and fuck" type of thing..c'mon, when you invite a girl over that's what's going through both of your heads. I bet you are both pretty young, 18-19? You gonna mess up sometimes, just own it and move on. You can't make her do anything, the best thing you can do is present yourself as…
/r/seduction05/03/22 10:43 PM
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Fair enough, i was only in zone 1. Well, i'm from Romania and we have a ton of beautiful women here but so many stuck up and the culture sucks. But when i was in the Philippines i was a top guy there so i had a lot of fun.
/r/seduction05/03/22 10:33 AM
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Sure, it can be that, i have no idea exactly what's happening there but it's clearly not working out so maybe consider moving or getting someone to join you there?
/r/seduction05/03/22 12:33 AM
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Sure, it's basic supply and demand i guess, but when i was in London i saw a ton of beautiful women. I don't know the ratios so maybe you are right
/r/seduction05/03/22 12:32 AM
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haha, ok, i get your point. Maybe exotic was the wrong word.
/r/seduction05/03/22 12:31 AM
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you're always compared in relation to the other guys in that specific location. Your value is relative, not absolute. In London you're maybe a 6, decent but nothing to brag about, especially since i bet there are a lot of male models in london, rich as fuck guys etc etc. In Warsaw maybe you are an 8, exotic etc etc. But there are cultural differences too, maybe in London people can meet easier in bars, maybe in Warsaw Tinder culture si blooming right now and in London it was in 2016 , again, a m…
/r/seduction05/03/22 12:01 AM
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lol, no. it's def not all relative, i don't even know where to start. go on /rateme and you see def guide to beauty
/r/seduction04/03/22 11:04 AM
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Yeap, you probably look good and maybe Sweden women, because i bet it's safer there and better community, are easier to go out with
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:58 PM
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nice, well.. try to have a more open body language? i don't know what to say, usually good looking girls have their pick of men, so i have no piece of advice to give you. Maybe ask other friends that are in a similar position?
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:38 PM
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So, it depends, you're either weird looking or very hot. Can't really imagine being so hot that nobody approached you yet, and you'd know it. Do you get a lot of compliments from people, friends, free stuff etc? Use a website where other people rate your pics and see what numbers you get. If you get really high marks then congrats, you won the genetic lottery and people assume you are taken or way above their league. If you get low grades than...well, you have some work to do, just like a lot of…
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:19 PM
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True, but i'd add only if you are high value yourself. I bet you had the skills for the job and you had a good emotional/mental attitude
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:37 PM
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Well...sorry, i don't really have any piece of advice for that, i don't play games and if a girl says no i take it at face value and move on. For me it worked out well till now
/r/seduction26/02/22 11:17 PM
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Butch as in a strong woman? like more masculine characteristics? Well the advice is the same, just me a strong masculine man and take action. If she likes you she will make it easier for you. I know the language, i know what it entails, it's just bullshit. Is elon musk and alpha cuz he has money? or putin cuz he has an army? or trump cuz he was president? Made up words to somewhat convey status but not really
/r/seduction26/02/22 09:20 PM
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oh God. You need to quit the alpha sigma beta shit, there's no such thing. Higher value ( or having your shit in order ) is a thing, as in how good are you, how maxed out are you in different areas of your life. Anyway, back to your problem, first of all read Mate: Become the Man Women Want or models, should help you out a ton. I recommend Mate since is better 2nd of all just ask her out, make a move, and stop being such a pussy. Reserved, outgoing, shy, doesn't matter, if she likes you it's the…
/r/seduction26/02/22 07:29 PM
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https://www.puatraining.com/blog/last-minute-objections-anti-slut-defence It's easy, back off and try again, be persistent without being pushy. I think it's like a last test to see that you are truly that confident and not just an act. Also, always take off your shirt before or right after you take off hers. it does 2 things. One it levels the playing field ( imagine if she is naked and you are fully clothed, she is much more vulnerable ) and 2 it gives the message you are ready for more. Ez pee…
/r/seduction25/02/22 09:22 AM
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I have a friend, really talented in his job. Focused only on work from like 18 to 26. Work and gym. He retired at age 27 with a lot of money and a good body. His social skills are pretty bad but still gets a lot of action on tinder and the likes. He doesn't flaunt his money at all, if he would do that he'd attract all kinds of women so maybe it's for the best. He still needs to learn some social stuff because it was always hard for him but having value beats social life anytime. Imagine a fat gi…
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:45 PM
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I've read Models like 3 times and loved it, implemented some things, was really good for me but i disagreed with some stuff. No read Mate: Become the Man Women Want, it's like models on steroids from as evolutionary psychologist, basically 60% is what mark manson says but a lot more in depth and some other stuff too. Imo is a much better read
/r/seduction18/02/22 09:26 PM
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Just be yourself! Ha, got you, that's shitty advice. Well, just treat it as a fun hangout, be excited about meeting her but not go overboard, try and really get to know her and see what you like and dislike about her, just be truthful about everything and have a great time. Also if you like her just go in for the kiss at some point, you'll regret not trying a lot more then if she turns you down. Not too soon, not too late.
/r/seduction07/01/22 03:43 PM
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If she has a bf and flirting with you, don't give her the time of day, she sucks as a human being. If she is available and flirts and u don't flirt back of course you will get put in the friend zone. In how much time that happens depends, but with technology and some many choices right now, it happens faster and faster
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:35 AM
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Even more, now we're competing vs dildos and all kinds of gadgets. You add the shitty advice like "you're a queen, you deserve a king etc" you add the massive ego from instagram and the likes, you add the simps that give them validation, you add tinder that gives them too many choices, the fake choice of " well, i have my job i don't need anybody in my life, nobody deserves me " and you add all the ways you can entertain yourself without needing another person and you get this shit show that is …
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:45 AM
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"before deciding if she was attractive" as a guy you don't decide if she is attractive or not, you just like her or not, it's in the first second of seeing someone. But if you say if she's compatible with him and has same values, sure. " front and back writing to each other until I told him I was in a very happy relationship and he was incredibly respectful " Ok, so after he found that out and he's goal is to find a gf or something like that, then talking extra is not worth it, that was my whole…
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:42 AM
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It sounds kinda like a nice experience and don't want to be a hater here but there should be some goal with every interaction, making friends or trying to get a date. Talking for the sake of talking doesn't really have any benefits except maybe for some entertainment value or maybe if he was really that great you could of introduced him to a single friend. The approach was cowardly, it's an easy way to not get rejected to your face and it shows that you're scared to say what you want and to whom…
/r/seduction31/12/21 09:23 AM
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It's a not survivorship bias, in the sense that the people that don't get dates in real life usually are on apps like this, or the ones that are really relationship material will usually be in a relationship. Of course, there are exceptions, but u add to that the massive amount of messages that girls get, it's no wonder things are so skewed and weird.
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:16 AM
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i don't think she was intrigued, you didn't reject her, u didn't have the balls to do it and then used "just told her she was a bit of a tease and asked how she'd have reacted if I made a move that night" this line for validation and approval. Embrace your mistakes and learn from them, and for the love of god kiss her
/r/seduction07/12/21 05:45 PM
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Sorry man, but she saw you chicken out and lost a lot of her attraction to you. Girls date a lot more and are more intuitive at this sort of things, she will judge you based on how confident you are and how physical you are with her. I lost a girl like this once too, a 10/10 for being a pussy, so i know how it feels. After a few years i was a dumbass again, she gave me another shot and i ruined it. The only way i feel this would work if she gives you another chance, or by luck run into her again…
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:49 AM
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"I waited 2 hours to text her, I just said : « Tomorrow night, 8PM, at the restaurant x ». Nothing more." Here is where you lost me. I don't think this happened at all. Otherwise, nice story, you had some good points.
/r/seduction06/12/21 10:27 AM
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Yeah, fake it and play games. Don't show that you're happy to be with that person, cuz that the type of relationship you want. I know it sucks when i see a hot girl that really appreciates me and is exited to be with me. /s "be cool and masculine" is the type of shit advice that people do when they don't have a personality, boundaries or anything going in their life
/r/seduction03/12/21 01:07 PM
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Well, some of it is right and some is wrong. Why would you talk about astrology if you don't believe in it? also if you do, you're plain wrong. Talk about anything you are interested in as long as it's not too weird. Politics? sure. Religion? sure, if you can be open minded about other points of view and studied them enough to find common ground. Sex? sure. Anything can be talked about if 2 people are mature enough. Is the girl not mature enough? drop her, you'll be doing yourself a favor. "Prep…
/r/seduction30/11/21 06:01 PM
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The fuck is the point of this? That hot people have problems too? im14andimsodeep :))
/r/seduction29/11/21 11:29 AM
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not yet but it looks pretty good, i'll view it soon, thank you
/r/seduction24/11/21 05:33 PM
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Think of the imagined perfect " hero " that we have depicted in our culture. You can call him Jesus, Iron man, Superman, or the people that lived that came as close as possible to that like Martin Luther King, Mandela, Mahatma Ghandi and my personal favorite Marcus Aurelius. What these people have in common? The will and strength to make the world a better place, the wisdom to recognize the problems and to try and address them, the intelligence to understand that there is strength in numbers etc…
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:09 PM
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Exactly. The world is full of non-needy people that don't really bring much to the table. A lot of girls are attracted to that in the 1st place but it means 2 things. 1 is that she is not in tune with what a real man is, value-wise. And 2, being non-needy ( usually arrogant, cocky, good-looking ) will only get u so far. If you want something more then a lay, you don't have the skills for it. Just like a lot of PUA type guys. One of my fav example is the late patrice o'neal, he is the definition …
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:08 PM
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Being assertive and expressive with your wishes is required for getting a girl. Women desire to be desired, those guys act like assholes maybe from your point of view, but just try to remember how many girls go for that attitude because besides the obvious obnoxious attitude it signals " i want this/you and i don't care what i have to do to get it " and that's a go-getter attitude that a low of women crave from a guy. Of course, the best way would do it with charm and style, but if the woman has…
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:49 PM
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Awwww shucks, that's just cuz u haven't met me personally 😄. But for real, thank you!
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:41 PM
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She's been around the block, she knows how things go and if you 2 are smart and honest about it i see nothing wrong. Escalate my brother
/r/seduction07/11/21 02:41 PM
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Meeting them. Otherwise i'll do allright. You won't be eager/needy if you are looking for something in them too. What is important to you? That she is smart, curious, well read, good heart, soft spoken, what? Being eager about getting to know them is not bad, being eager to fuck anything that moves is a turn off
/r/seduction29/10/21 12:55 PM
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She is testing how much of a man you are. And how much you'll give up just to get some pussy. The first remark, ok, you can take a joke, 2nd one you look at her dead in the eye and tell her to cut it out, you won't tolerate crap and if she wants to be mean you'll leave. There is no next shit test cuz you prove you won't be bullied. Holding the frame and other crap advice is... crap. Imagine you need some money and a friend had a lot and could help you. He starts asking u to do menial tasks cuz h…
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:08 AM
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Depends how much is that money worth to you. Is it a big deal? if not, meh, if u do it one time and not make a habit out of it ( like coke ) it can be fun. Let me ask you something else, if it was 200$ would it bother u? if not, then it's not the principle, it's the sum. And the sum is relative to what you earn and how much it's gonna hurt. Also, get some viagra so it's really worth it :))))
/r/seduction27/10/21 04:48 PM
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I feel for you, i love philosophy, psychology, biology, politics, stuff like that so i understand completely where you are coming from. But i try to also make sexual/funny remarks that push the boundaries, i travelled a lot so i love to talk about that and understand that people have different things they like and you can't vibe with everyone. Try to meet people that have some of the same passions, try a book club or something like that. It's harder but it's worth it, instead of meeting 100 girl…
/r/seduction27/10/21 07:23 AM
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How in tune are you with your emotions, your passions, your goal in life? Record yourself speaking, does it seem interesting or is it flat? What do you talk about? Nobody wants to hear about too much "serious" stuff on a date, i'm not saying it's not important but always mix it with funny stuff, random cool stories and try to make it personal and get some kind of chemistry going
/r/seduction26/10/21 08:38 PM
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"attract girls naturally do these things rarely have I met a attractive girl who doesn't play games" while it's true there aren't many girls that play games, it depends how you set up the interaction too. They will play games if you allow it or encourage it, otherwise they will drop it if you are serious about leaving if they start playing games. So if you go into an interaction with the mindset that all girls play games, then you're setting up yourself for failure "From the moment I got there t…
/r/seduction26/10/21 10:32 AM
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So.. you want a girl for a long term relationship that u need to play games with? Also when you said " you think you love her back " i think it sounded pretty bad in her mind. I think mature people pull back because they want to figure out their feelings, not to a play a game, and actually it happens rarely. If she is in uni she is young and usually immature, so i don't think you did anything wrong. "Hope this helps people If you attack me I dunno mate I did what you guys said and it backfired b…
/r/seduction26/10/21 10:06 AM
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Oh God, this is so bad. It's not bad that you want to be unique, it's so bad how you go about it. " i fucking hate the color red" " too much fire is bad for me " " if i stay in the rain i get wet " . Also, being unique is not important, being competent/great is much more interesting. A guy with purple hair, nose rings, tongue ring, red eyes, and 95% of his body covered in tattoos is unique, but unless he brings some real world value to the table he is just a funny ornament - For example arguing …
/r/seduction26/10/21 08:13 AM
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Attraction can be really complicated, not just how someone looks but how someone acts too. So, yeah, don't do it if you don't feel like it. But just make sure porn or masturbating aren't the reasons you're not horny, when i take a 2 week break from masturbating i'd fuck anything :))
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:56 PM
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I understand where you are coming from but i think sometimes the one that rejects can still want friendship, not validation. An example would be, let's say an overweight girl that has a cute face is really friendly, you like her a lot personality wise but you are just not attracted to her. You might have a lot of stuff in common and laugh, but you just want to keep it platonic, and she keeps hoping you'll change your mind. The problem here is that she keeps hoping that you'll change your mind an…
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:49 PM
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Dude, it's on her not on you! Stop putting her problems on yourself. You had a fun date and she pulls back, it's not your job to make her want u or hook her or any crap. If she is unhealthy emotionally this type of behaviour will fuck you up. Ask yourself what u really want from her. And tell her. That's how mature people act. If she doesn't want it, move on, seriously. There are so many normal girls out there that act better and not "hot and cold" You will waste time and energy.
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:51 PM
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Don't make it a competition with them. Find other groups were you stand out. Find hobbies and get good at them, dancing, volunteering, anything social.
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:28 AM
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I'm just stupidly optimistic about human nature i think
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:43 PM
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Thank you man, glad you like it. Not that much of a ladies man cuz i still have to work on health/body and finance, otherwise i got it covered, but still doing pretty good
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:41 PM
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hi, thanks for the cool reply! 1."I usually kiss the girl as soon as she takes off her coat and shoes when she comes to mine at the end of the date." then it's not the end of the date, haha. But true, don't overdo it with the touching, it has to be an ok balance. I feel like sexual tension is built easier through touching. Yeah, it was more for the pump yourself up and don't give up or don't get too passive about it. yes, i totally agree, but until there it's good to have somewhat of a game plan…
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:40 PM
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Maybe but i don't really care, if she keeps guys just to get money i don't like that, and if she really does have a bf then i don't want to be the guy she cheats with. So either way i'm out
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:54 AM
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I was saying that the equivalent is you going in a place that you are considered exotic and interesting, out of the ordinary. But sure, shoot your shot wherever, u can't win if you don't try.
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:45 PM
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True, but let's not be too quick to judge that someone is weak, life is hard for everyone and we don't know about the other people's problems and upbringing, not to mention hormonal and inflammation status. People will change when they are ready for it
/r/seduction20/10/21 03:03 PM
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Actually calorie management in a good hormonal balance. And the hormonal balance is the tricky thing, because if only calories mattered then how come pre insulin, diabetic type 1 could eat 10.000 calories a day and still die of being skinny and malnutrition.
/r/seduction20/10/21 10:54 AM
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While i agree some men exploit women, can you tell me how i did that? I just dated by normal rules and we had a good time. I never promised anything that i didn't uphold. Why is wrong for a girl that has a harder life ( cuz she was born there ) to go out with a foreigner that treats her well. Or any other guy for that matter? Most of them thanked me for the good time and that i treated them well. With some i still keep in touch and we are friends. People are not 2 dimensional. Also some hope to …
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:43 AM
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I think anywhere u are "exotic" you will have bonus points. But of course, couppled with a good body and a good sense of fashion
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:36 AM
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Maybe we just need a bigger sample size 😄😄
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:35 AM
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Thank you! I thought the "rules" would be the focus but..what can you do 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:34 AM
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Virtual high 5 back!
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:31 AM
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There are trannies sure, but there are a lot of great people too. And the islands, the water, some of the food...awesome
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:30 AM
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Thanks! I think it's easy to make it about one issue, like "I'm not tall enough" or I'm not rich enough or white enough. Sheds responsability
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:27 AM
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Thank you, i like your energy! 🙌🙌🙌
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:26 AM
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Hi! Yeah, not sure how it got so far skewed towards sexual tourism, just wanted to be honest about the differences in perceived social status. I totally agree with being vulnerable and understanding your trauma and bad habit while trying to correct them and be as good as possible.
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:26 AM
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Hi! Good human being is not like being a nice guy. Means being strong and having boundaries while being kind and trying to make the world a better place
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:23 AM
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You think how many people someone sleeps with shows what qualities a person has necessarily? Could you be a good person, have good values and be a positive force in your society and still like to have fun with different people? And is the corollary true, just because you are with only one person then you are special or a good human being or can you be nasty? Hitler was a one woman guy, just saying 😄. Also 16 million men are direct descendants of Genghis Khan, haha Ok, i should go to sleep now
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:59 PM
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"And yeah, not to judge people, but sometimes the wild, one-night-stand, party type of girls usually aren't relationship material" Yeah, that's pretty true. And of course you judge people, everyone does, it's just in this day and age you can't say that, we live in a weird world i swear. "When I have money and after covid I'd wanna go to Europe, Eastern EU and Scandinavian countries and Spain haha." Yeah, you'll be exotic there and if you're 5'8 you'll do pretty good i think. "Regarding the profi…
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:53 PM
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surprised pikachu face! 😄😄 But now for real, you're not impressed about what? Is the advice bad? Also, most comments were supportive and in the others the conversations were civil and interesting, so who do you agree with?
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:43 PM
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I don't, sorry man. But i'm sure there is a thread somewhere around about it, do it and make a report about it, haha
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:35 PM
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Yeah, see, so it's the polarization effect of meeting someone different then us. Maybe you'd do pretty well in Europe, haha. Join an expat group and "show the girls around town" that should help you out. "Generally speaking, Filipino girls think highly of and they find attractive white guys." I agree "However, the preference is much stronger among the lower classes, partly because" maybe, between my job and stuff the time i had to date i usually used Tinder, FilipinoCupid, stuff like that, not s…
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:27 PM
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That's a good video about it. It keeps dropping, and i think it's a combination of different factors : pollution, pesticides, lower food quality, soy ( controversial topic ) , lower vit D levels etc. Not sure what it means, but there is very interesting research about pollution and some fish changing their sex, or some wildlife having male and female reproductive organs. There was a podcast with joe rogan and his guest was explaining really good this phenomenon. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U…
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:16 PM
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Yeap, exactly. Become as good as you can, in all aspects of life.
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:09 PM
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thank you for reading!
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:07 PM
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I'm from a 3rd world too, and i made it clear from the start that i'm not rich or i don't pay for a woman's company. But i can make dinner, we can laugh and i'll treat her well, you'd be surprised how few people actually know how to treat a girl.
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:07 PM
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Yeah, it's like they got no chill for mistakes. Of course everyone likes their friends/partners to keep their word, but c'mon, we are people, we all fuck up sometimes.
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:04 PM
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Salamat po! From my experience there, there is a big polarization and some women just want to be only with foreigners more or less, a lot don't think that great about filipinos. In my country is the same thing, the girls here a lot of the time think their countrymen suck, so maybe it's just a "grass is greener on the other side of the fence" situation.
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:02 PM
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definition of hobby - an activity done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure. My argument was that in the context of social-political-economical and ecological situation we need to play less and try to change things for the better more. That's why i was advocating for social responsibilities in detriment to hobbies, not that hobbies can't be important...they have to less important right now
/r/seduction19/10/21 09:57 PM
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"An argument from authority (argumentum ab auctoritate), also called an appeal to authority, or argumentum ad verecundiam, is a form of argument in which the opinion of an authority on a topic is used as evidence to support an argument" It's not about that, it's about if the pieces of advice make sense or not, and was trying to share some of the things that i found out to work and be true. The Philippines/Eastern Europe comparison was made to show the difference that status and looks make in the…
/r/seduction19/10/21 09:55 PM
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It was really tough for both of us, the hardest decision i had to make but i thought at the moment i was making the right one. Now.. only 80% sure, wonder how my life would be now. Didn't want to end up at 40 wondering what if and maybe cheating on her. But she was awesome we still have a wonderful thing, i'll always cherish our memories together
/r/seduction19/10/21 09:50 PM
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Awesome, glad i could help
/r/seduction19/10/21 09:47 PM
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I stayed in an Airbnb when i went to Boracay or Palawan and it was around 1500php/night so around 30$. One meal at a restaurant around 10-15$ with a drink. But those are touristic destinations so yeah, the prices are bigger. You can go to weird islands and it's much cheaper but it's not as good..so you can choose. As for looks, yeah, exactly. Try to be fit/healthy and dress nice, cut your hair etc. That's good advice regardless of where you're going or what style you have ( think well put togeth…
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:30 PM
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hey! You don't live like a king with 100$ for 2 weeks, would be awesome if it would be like that. But i don't think the "rules" i've talked about here apply only there, i wanted to exemplify the difference in social status for the same man in other parts of the world based on average height differences and income. To understand that if you become better you will have access to better women in your country too, you can't grow taller but u can look better.
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:20 PM
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haha, you're welcome, glad it helped. Not my concept so have to give credit where credit is due, Mark Manson explains it the best in his book Models, such a good read
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:17 PM
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6'3" should be good all over the place. You might be too "big" if you know what i'm saying for a lot of filipinas :)))
/r/seduction19/10/21 06:25 PM
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hi! The body count was in relation to a previous post by another person that was asking people above 100lays for their advice, i'm not there but wanted to share what i've learned from 50. It's not about bragging, was just trying to inspire that if i can do it being pretty average, then most people can do it. I'll have my test done next week, but i did do a homocysteine test and it's way too high, and i hope that will explain a lot of damn symptoms i've been having. Being so frequent and having a…
/r/seduction19/10/21 06:24 PM
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There are heart breaking realities there, so many 18 year old moms and even younger. There is no sexual education, no social net, it can be really hard for some
/r/seduction19/10/21 06:13 PM
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yeah, kinda. just a quick google search - The average Filipino man is 163.22cm (5 feet 4.25 inches) tall. The average Filipino woman is 149.60cm (4 feet 10.89 inches) tall So not tall-tall, but above average.
/r/seduction19/10/21 06:10 PM
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True that. So, honesty is always best, regarding to height and to filters in my opinion
/r/seduction19/10/21 06:09 PM
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You're just projecting your own views on what i said. 1st of all, i was straightforward with all of them and never promised anything. If they want to make assumptions ( like you are doing now ) it's on them, not on me. Taking them for a fun night out, laughing and making them feel good is nothing to be ashamed of. If they wanted to turn into something more sure, if not then it was a nice date, no problem. I had a few that just wanted a meal ticket, so i got used sometimes, but it's ok, no hard f…
/r/seduction19/10/21 06:08 PM
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I have no idea mate, but everyone like a good healthy body, so maybe start with that?
/r/seduction19/10/21 06:00 PM
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Not sure how u got offended there but, ok, it was a figure of speech. Like try to get better as a person, it's all you can really do in life, other things are out of your control. Even that can be somewhat hard, that's why i said about checking for the mthfr mutation because it can make everything 10 times harder
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:59 PM
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30 at the time
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:57 PM
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No, but you can agree with me that people are of different qualities, right? some people are better then others?
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:56 PM
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None as far as i know, i even refused a few when things got heated up because they told me they have a boyfriend overseas or stuff like that. As i said in the 1st rule, try to be a decent human.
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:54 PM
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Clearly not the moral of the post but ok, you do you
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:55 PM
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I was there for work and had fun with girls that i always treated well, not sure how i exploited anyone and i resent the implication
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:55 PM
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Oh, ok, when you said it i thought more along the brooding Cint Eastwood type of masculine. If you mean boundaries and taking the lead in the relationship then i fully agree and i'd say most women like that but i guess it's doubly true for eastern europe women. Eastern God damn it, i keep misspelling it 😄
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:25 PM
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Lucky bastard. I wonder how much of your appeal was because you were american. My thinking here is that you are more valued then other europeans since europeans are much more common in Ukraine/Eastern Europe
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:23 PM
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You mean about Russia? damn, that must be amazing, they are gorgeous
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:16 PM
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Hehe, awesome, glad it helped
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:15 PM
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If you want notches on your belt, sure, normal guys that don't get attention here can have the time of their life there. Bali too as far as i know, i have a friend there, over 220 pounds and constantly gets laid
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:09 PM
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I've had crazy chicks that were not so good in bed and normal girls that knew their stuff. I think it's a combination of openness and intelligence, so conservative girls will not be that wild overall
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:07 PM
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Yes, i agree, russian, ukrainian, extremely beautiful, but Easter Europe as a whole is filled with beautiful women. Sad thing is that most are really materialistic and for me it's a big turn of. Exactly, the really masculine frame had to be there but i don't think i like it so much, for me personally. I like to joke around and feel good, you can't really do that if you need to show how "masculine" you are all the time.
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:06 PM
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Yes, trial an error helps a lot as long as you can really understand what is going on and understand what you need to change. Maybe you do trial and error and think you said something wrong when actually your body language was off, or you're not in the right mindset ( happy, healthy ) or a lot of different reasons. A friend can help you out there and he can tell you from the outside how the interaction looked.
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:02 PM
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True, but the quality of girls matter i guess, not just the numbers. But that's why i wanted to be truthful and not inflate numbers. I don't know about Russian numbers, not sure how easy it is to get girls there, the one i hooked up with was on a Philippines beach
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:00 PM
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Sure, i had a 4year relationship with a great girl, i ended it cuz i was young and still wanted to saw my wild oats. Now i'm looking for a relationship but what i want and what i can offer is not really aligned so need to work on myself more
/r/seduction19/10/21 02:59 PM
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actually just a 3some but i didnt even really count that. As a white guy there it's so much easier to get girls
/r/seduction19/10/21 02:57 PM
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Yeah, my thought exactly. I mean..not Chuck Norris but i get your point 🤣🤣. But even not talking about the extremes, the middle class girls, the ones that are cute but not extraordinary, the girl next door type, that's my biggest issue. The 6s to 8s ( in a superficial way ) that only want 9s and 10s
/r/seduction24/09/21 05:59 PM
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ooooh, ok, i get it. So you think they see it.. interesting. Maybe..i'm not really that sure, i think a lot of them just go with the flow without really thinking too much about this type of things and just think "i deserve the best" while the best is fucking around always changing the girls.
/r/seduction24/09/21 05:37 PM
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I understand your point but women are not dogs, they have brains and should use them. We can see the society is messing them up, they should see that too and some do i think but yeah, it's the exception rather then the rule, like rich people that are really good at heart
/r/seduction24/09/21 04:18 PM
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oh, haha, didn't think about online dating. Yeah, i already seen that on a few girl friends already, chasing the uber man and ending up kinda alone :( . Good girls too but society is fucking everything up
/r/seduction24/09/21 12:30 PM
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o.l.d. What is o.l.d. ? Thanks for the reply. yeah, i think all of them just want guys way above what they should get, from a social hierarchy point of view, and they all chase the top 10-20% of guys
/r/seduction24/09/21 09:50 AM
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thank you for the reply! "expectations are ridiculously high" being a decent human, not shallow, and healthy in mind and body i really don't think is ridiculous. I've met girls in real life too, a lot. Weddings, dancing class, i used to volunteer at red cross too. Got some stories everywhere, from virgin 18 year olds to 31 ( i was 29 at the time ) who just wanted a baby no strings attached. I keep going back to the idea maybe it's a number's game combined with being a higher value male. Like if …
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:08 PM
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It doesn't matter if it's a shit test or not, if she says that she is either manipulative and trying to get a reaction out of you or telling the truth and if you just want a lay move on. But if you like her, like her personality it's wrong to not make her your friend, you can never have enough cool friends. easy peasy.
/r/seduction12/09/21 09:01 PM
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You should try Philippines or Indonesia, hehe
/r/seduction02/09/21 08:44 AM
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Almost everyone is anxious about the girls they really like. But courage means feeling the fear and doing it anyway. After years of figuring stuff out, attraction is not actually based on non needy behavior, it's based on higher value and good emotional and mental regulation. I like Mark Manson but he is wrong about some stuff, there is hierarchy in everything. To climb the "global" hierarchy you need good looks, money, young age, intelligence, wisdom. Those things make you attractive, because a…
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:23 AM
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best book on seduction in my opinion is Models from Mark Manson. To have a good conversation you need some stuff, knowledge about different subjects, knowing how to make jokes and socially calibrate ( watch a lot of stand up ) , guts to push the conversation. So read, listen to smart podcasts and then you can talk to anybody about anything.
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:37 PM
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This is a good exercise in flirting i guess Who do you think you are? - Whoever you want me to be -> with a grin on your face - The guy who ruined you for other men ->with confidence and a small smile - The reason why you won't be able to walk in the morning Well, guess most of them are better face to face, lol
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:04 PM
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I'd treat her like i do any person, any friend. " Hey, you didn't answer my last text, not cool. We still up for tonight?" Have boundaries and expect people to respect you, otherwise move on.
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:17 PM
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It depends, can be a lot of things. Maybe how you acted on the date, maybe her own insecurities, maybe she wants guys that are really pushy and jerks so she feels "validated" there are a ton of maybe's. But who cares, don't waste time. You could tell her straight and to the point " listen, i want us to be more then friends, if you're cool with that we can hand, if not, no hard feelings but i'm looking for something else"
/r/seduction24/08/21 09:53 AM
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"Whenever I try to escalate the situation I never get the reaction I want so I stop." Friendzoned, sorry dude, drop her if you're not into her as a friend too. You can be attracted to a girl but just be friends with her, nothing wrong with that. But if you just wanted to smash find someone new.
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:50 AM
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Don't sweat it, girls are really intuitive about this type of stuff. Just tell her something came up and you can't meet, she will understand your hint, usually if something really comes up you would explain and reschedule. when you don't do that, you give her some space to back out gracefully.
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:48 AM
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Most of these comments are idiotic, i know i'm gonna get downvoted but i don't really care. I'm here to answer your question "Can somebody guide me on how to develop this "game"? " It can be a shit test for sure, but given the fact that 1. she approached you and 2. "I was never good at non-monogomous casual hookups or FWB type of setups. All my past intimate relationships were serious and semi-serious long term relationships." then we can conclude she was pretty spot on. It's not a serious thing…
/r/seduction24/08/21 05:31 AM
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Adult people can talk about anything basically, in a proper way. You don't have to rant about it but you can talk about the things you learned from that relationship, what didn't work and would change about it, about yourself etc. In the same way you should be able to talk politics, religion, etc, you get to know the person faster to know how compatible you are, not just kick the can down the road. This are rules for immature people, like call after 3 days, no sex until date number x, crap like …
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:28 AM
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Neah, sometimes it's like that but sometimes it's not. Any guy with experience knows there are easy lays/interactions and some that are harder for a variety of reasons. Don't pursue too much, don't pursue too little, giving up so easy will let u only bag easy girls or girls that are super into you. It's not a bad thing but there are other opportunities that u miss
/r/seduction21/08/21 09:10 PM
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I'd say pursuit it more manly. From what you said, she started the flirt and you kinda kept up with it but not that much, stop with the indirect undecided bullshit. Just ask her for a drink later or ask her when is available for a drink. That will do a couple of things for you: 1st gonna show that you are direct and to the point and clear on what u want 2nd will show you exact the type of girl she is. If she gives you anything but a real response she is an attention seeker/flirty type of girl an…
/r/seduction21/08/21 08:25 AM
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Yeap, great advice, too many guys have their life revolve around women and not on doing productive stuff. And not talking about hobbies, talking about making good money, having a great body and a great mind by reading.
/r/seduction17/08/21 08:35 AM
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I'd give u an award if i had one, best advice ever. I was in a similar position with an undecided girl, dropped her ass way too late, best decision ever
/r/seduction11/08/21 08:44 PM
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1# Improve yourself till u make it. Don't fake it, just work on yourself 2# Don't try to prove yourself to anyone, but don't be useless 3# Flirt however u want, some girls like it lowkey, some are straight to the point, some can't flirt for shit. Flirt how you like to and best suits your style 4# It's good to tease but some girls don't enjoy it at all, know your audience 5# Be a gentleman as long as she deserves it, if not, move on
/r/seduction10/08/21 08:25 AM
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"She even got passionately jealous when another girl looked at me" This is your sign, when a girl gets jealous like that it signals low emotional control. So the reasons are endless
/r/seduction06/08/21 07:07 PM
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for me andrew schulz is really really good for improv. george carlin, patrice o'neil has some killer stuff about women, louis c.k ..a ton of great people
/r/seduction05/08/21 07:32 PM
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True that my man, also always appreciate people who are honest about approaching and stuff, i can feel you have a good vibe
/r/seduction05/08/21 07:29 PM
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That's actually bad reasoning man, women can offer a lot of things. Also not the gatekeepers of sex, you could say the same thing about male celebrities, they have plenty of options and usually say no
/r/seduction05/08/21 06:35 PM
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+++ nice , i'll try that, especially love the stand up thing and the drive by thing. quality post right here with good tips, nice job Edit: Even bookmarked it, yo
/r/seduction05/08/21 05:40 PM
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Actually a girl friend of mine told me that when she likes a guy a lot she immediately is a bit more reserved about sex so she doesn't fuck in the first date. I guess the opposite can be true too. But from my experience, most girls wanted to come back for some more, i'm not that great in bed but i can be really honest and vulnerable and they enjoy that, we have deep talks and connection
/r/seduction05/08/21 05:39 PM
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That's just because they play the game better then us, men. And i'm not saying it in a bad way or anything, it's just supply and demand. They learned that by withholding sex or relationships they get in a better position to bargain. But it's not that for everyone. You are talking about the good-looking women, how about the ugly ones, the fat ones? When they try to act by being demanding they get a quick kick in the butt and people usually laugh at them for having so many demands while offering l…
/r/seduction04/08/21 12:07 PM
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It's an interesting concept, i'm actually a poker player so i can relate. The more skill u have the better your outcomes will be. One thing i didn't see, is the stakes where u are playing. So if you play nl5, so buy in is 5$ u can win a lot of hands, opponents will make a lot of mistakes so it's fun but you'll never really get much done. As in seduction for hitting up bad quality girls. The drunks, the crazy ones, the low confidence ones etc. It can be fun for a while but not gonna make your lif…
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:41 AM
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yeap, exactly, i actually wanted to underline that it's important to a good person a.k.a nice but not fake nice to get what u want. And of course it's true for women too, nothing better in this world then having the love a special woman
/r/seduction04/08/21 04:50 AM
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I like your post. Women say they want nice guys but actually they want masculine men. Have stuff to do, have hobbies, live your life the way you want, grow as a person, be healthy and happy and the girl who gets to come along is the lucky one, not the other way around. Become a prize
/r/seduction03/08/21 04:16 PM
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Nice report, maybe just let the 1st one go a little sooner? Congrats on the 2nd one, you could of said " i'm sorry, it was really loud there and i was a bit anxious meeting you and didn't hear your name properly. Michael you said? *beaming a smile* "
/r/seduction03/08/21 03:34 PM
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It's easy, just become good enough for her. If you we're a really beautiful girl with her shit together ( not talking about the crazy ones ) would you date yourself? If not, what would u improve? looks? money? charisma? Height? ( fuck the height, u can't change that ) . Take some time for yourself, work on everything and u will see then u can approach beautiful girls. Be someone great don't act like someone great
/r/seduction03/08/21 03:30 PM
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probably, yeah, i think she gave u a lot of signals. Remeber 2 things, if she is on a date with u, unless u do something really dumb you can probably kiss her 1-2 hours in the date. Also, she expects you to be the man, always push things forward, with respect.
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:09 PM
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Oh man, this happened to me too. But it happened cuz this was the most beautiful girl i dated and was scared to pull the trigger. Basically she thought u are weak cuz manly guys go for it, it's a testosterone thing, so when u didn't go for it 1. it made her feel she is not worth it, pretty enough etc and 2. you maybe are not the man she was waiting for, decisive, bold etc. I feel for you, you got a lot of hints to do it and you chickened out, so she's gonna find someone new. Not sure if there is…
/r/seduction02/08/21 09:11 AM
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yeah, that's weird to say the least, also you can use skype or stuff over the internet that doesn't cost, right?
/r/seduction24/07/21 12:48 PM
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Not sure why he is supposed to spend money on you, i mean taking you on a date an paying sure, but that's different, right? Are you the only one calling and then the phone bill getting expensive just for you? that would suck and he should call too. But if you're both calling then if he is paying for his 20$ why couldn't you pay for your share. But yeah, other than that, he seems like all talk and no action, also long distance sucks by all accounts, not worth it.
/r/seduction23/07/21 11:47 AM
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Actually i'm curious too, especially when it comes to parties. Like how do you chose one without messing up with the others?
/r/seduction23/07/21 11:17 AM
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In my opinion very flirty women need approval from everyone and that's why they do it. So you really need validation from that person? Imagine the best woman you know, or the future mom to your kids, you want it to be that type of person? Just because someone is different does not mean that person is better. Easy way to deal with that girl, either just ignore and do your own thing and find a better woman or just talk to her straight and be assertive and ask on a date, flirt back, see if anything…
/r/seduction23/07/21 10:43 AM
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Best advice i've seen in a while, it seems like " get the girl no matter what " is the norm.
/r/seduction23/07/21 10:39 AM
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Very interesting advice, never thought about the break in the pattern, nice, thanks!
/r/seduction23/07/21 10:36 AM
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Agree 100%, you can't judge someone by how easy is it to fuck them and you don't know if that person fucks a lot of people, or everyone on the first date etc. Judge them by their character.
/r/seduction23/07/21 10:30 AM
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