Well let me rephrase the title "Top Mistakes Guys I made" because this is from personal experience

 

NO one gets played in the game

 

People play themselves by not being real and trying to fake disinterests and act cool, I don't do that shit, I tell girls I need more attention , if they not going to give it to me I will find 2-3 girlfriends if you feel I'm to clingy. 9 times out of 10 this solves the issue , none of this pretending not to be interested crap, with me its Tits or GTFO.

This works wonders when a girl is trying to use you for your money, now I could play myself and pretend to like her and give her money and hope she will sleep with me or I can be real and tell her I want to fuck you, and I'm not giving you a dime, even if she says no she will respect you.

I seen both men and women get played, simply because they try to play it cool and are motivated by fear, rather than motivated by what they want.

 

Degrading

The Truth is never degrading, making analogies with women to other things is fine, To many guys avoid this because they consider comparing a women to an object degrading and she is a human/

Get use to joking and get use to having fun, compare women to animals,objects,trains,cars,buses she will do the same,

"Women are like cats,they only want attention when you don't want it"

Too many guys lose a lot of conversation ability and have to struggle what to say because they are filtering themselves, Its important to say the first thing that comes to mind, "First thought, Right Thought".

"Girl you got a faaaaaaaaaaaaaat ass"

Is this rude? If she doesn't have a fat ass it is, but if she does, its the truth, and the truth is never degrading

I had conversation with random girls on the street yell,scream and cuss and still give me their number, not because I got game but because I Spit truth. There is no pretend to what I do, no precanned pickup lines, if you are fat and ugly I will call you fat and ugly.

Many people hate negging because some guys try to do it just to do it, if a girl has perfect teeth, don't neg her fucking teeth. I see to many people misuse negging, negging is truth , rather good or bad, and believe me unless you find a perfect girl there is some bad and you need to say it.

 

Finding Women's true value

 

A person true value isn't the fact that they are a person but rather what they give out, your value to the world is proportionate to what you do for the world, however many guys are taught to value women innately(A.K.A Nice guys).

This mindset includes

  • Respecting her wishes to take it slow:

    If a girl wants to take it slow , she has every right to but you have every right to walk away. and to call her a prude.

 

  • Thinking she is a prude

    She is not a prude, she is a prude with you, all girls like passionate buck wild sex. To many guys make excuses saying "She is just not a sexual person", only to find out 5 minutes later she licked a guys asshole.

 

  • Buying her dinner I won't even go over this

 

  • Feeling you have to earn something You don't have to earn nothing, she has to earn you and earn you she has to have sex with you, Even if you want more than sex its very important to establish you are a guy that fucks girls, you are not the guy who brings all her problems to, if she is whining , tell her to go to her nice guy friend, than come back when she is done and ready to get fucked. (This line actully worked)

    If she is not giving you want you want, sex,love,attention, than you need to devalue her, she is worthless to you, you see that can on the street , that should be her value to you.

 

This whole notation that we should give women value for being women rather than give them value for what they do, adopting this mindset of Tits of GTFO , will make you a asshole, but girls will fuck you with you because they know you are valuable and have standards. I could of wrote this and sugar coated it

 

"Girls want confident guys who aren't losers, if she is not interested move on" : But to many guys struggle to move on and have their ego's hurt and they hurt your ego because you are giving them value , the words out her mouth should be worthless because she is worthless. The question is why should you give her value? Because she has a vagina? , that is literally the only reason you are giving her value which in it self makes her nothing but a sex object, to me women have to earn value though action, not words.

 

Articulating what you want

 

Women pay attention to undertones, so much so that even if you are direct with them they will still look for the hidden undertone. This is why nice guys don't work, rather than focus on the actual niceness they focus on the undertone,

"He is nice because he is desperate,needy,lies ect..."

You can't just say , "I want you to choke on my dick and swallow my babies" , even if you are brad pitt because this is really saying, "I'm so horny and desperate I will fuck anything" the

women will think to herself, "You don't even know me, or my value, I could be a low value, aids infected whore"

The first thing you need to do is articulate you want valuable women, this will make her validate herself naturally. You want someone fun, someone who has conversation skills , someone who is good at sex.

This is really evident that we almost always consider nice guys as needy losers, and almost all of them won't see it that way because they say, "They do not want to be disrespectful"