So, i've never been bad with women... But also, never been exceptionally good. I was always picky, usually landed HB7s and 8s. Mostly 8s, still, nothing much.
So, i started a relationship in september just to end it in a BRUTAL manner in feb.
Got depressed for 2 months, told depression to fuck off, started working out, working hard and lurking seddit.
Called some booty calls to feel better about myself, just to find out I appreciate the challenge more than anything, so sex just felt empty.
So I started investing more of my time reading seddit and opening sets around malls, bookstores, cafes and clubs just as practise. The inner game to me is all about having fun, if I fail a set when I'm having fun I'll just think "Oh, I was inviting you to have a great time with me, guess you aren't awesome enough." an proceed to having the time of my life. But i always aimed for HB7s and 8s, rarely took chances with 9s.
Knew some tricks already, but not the whole shabam. Not a 100% AFC anymore, but still long ways to go.
So, this friend of mine (actually best friend and wingman) got invites to a party that was a pretty big, and very hard to get in. He asked me to pick up his girlfriend since she lives close to me and he was drinking. I said "no Problem".
Upon getting there, I see his girlfriend (let's call her Kate) as expected, and right beside Kate, I see the most stunning girl I have ever seen, I was actually stunned, pulled the car up close, took 5 seconds inside to get my shit together, before getting out and greet them both.
I get out of the car still nervous as fuck (I knew Kate was a model, and that her friends were hot, but DAMN, this girl was just too perfect.)
I can't make eye contact, just go over, greet Kate, she then proceeds to introduce us "Doctor_KY, this is Alex, she studies in my class". I greet her also, still a bit stiff, but already feeling a bit less tense, since I knew I'd have the best help any man could hope for; A wingwoman who's friends with the target. Playing matchmaker since all of her friends were single.
So, we go to the club, making small talk on the way, i still don't know how to engage her, but oh well, the night has just started. We get inside the party, (and kate is actually the hottest girl there, all the girls and guys are looking over) i find my friends, talk to them and pretty much ignore Alex. My wingman and wingwoman tell me to go talk to her, so I start a conversation just like an AFC.
DR_KY: "Do you also work with the same agency as Kate?" (since Kate is a model)
Alex: "Oh, I'm not a model"
DR_KR: "Really?? Oh sorry, i just assumed" (mental facepalm for qualifying a HB10)
we small talk a bit, i decide to use the Takeaway so i just say BRB gonna meet my friend
That actually phased her a bit, since the small talk was quite good and actually made up for the horrible opening, she was left hanging, and it must have never happened to her before.
I got inner-game straght and just proceeded to have a great time. I didn't need anyone's approval, didn't care what she or anyone there thought, i just got my cup, stood on top of the table and danced like i didn't give a fuck, cause I actually didn't. Also, i noticed she glanced several times while i was up there.. Thinking back on it, i guess it did raise my value, since I was the first one to just get up on a table and just groove.
Now, it's getting kind of long so let's fast forward: I get down from the table, meet a friend (chick) we go to the smoking area since she smokes. We chat a bit, grab drinks and joke around. The smoking area is waaay more silent, so it's better if you want to have a conversation.
As we're speaking, Alex shows up, looking kind of lost(she doesn't smoke), finds her friend (chick, HB7) and starts talking to her. Alex is with her back turned towards me, while the HB7 keeps looking at my direction. Once Alex turns, our eyes meet. I keep the eye contact without any hesitation. Alex's eyes look at the floor. Now i Know it's game.
I go over start chatting her up, Disqualify her a bit, then start kino. She starts giving me all sorts of IOIs. Fixing her hair, looking at her hands than back at me, and always with a very discreet smile which was just beautiful.
Now would be the boring part, where i'd just go over for the kiss. By this time, I knew it was pretty much done, but even if i could K-close, I'm not sure i could F-close her later.
So, her friend (the HB7) pulls her to tell her something and i have an idea, a risky one, but again i'm just having fun and it's all just a game. So i get up and leave go meet my friends and stay there, just talking, drinking and dancing. Now, I know there's a lot of controversy on Negs, but i just felt i should do it if i wanted to get a bit farther with this girl.
My friend then proceeds to ask me what did i say to Alex, since she seemed a bit annoyed, i told him that i wouldn't just sit there waiting for her to finish her chat. I'm high value, I don't wait for her or anyone. He laughs and agrees.
The party is about to end and i stopped giving her any IOIs, i just chilled, danced and had a great time till the end, since i noticed the Neg had been too effective and she was actually a bit pissed off (hahahah) so i just wait for the party to end and leave.
Now there's the fun part: 2 days after the party, Kate told me that Alex wouldnt stop asking about me. So the neg actually worked. So, i lay low for a week, and friday I get her number and call her up, invited her to dinner. I was going to cook: Risotto.
We have dinner, i give her full IOIs since i negged her too hard last week, and end the night with a K-Close under the moon after some great wine and diner. Pretty romantic.
Well, now i'm fucked. I don't know how to proceed on my phone game since both of us doesn't have time during the week, but oh well; It's just a game.
TL;DR Got introduced an HB10, started off nervous, bombed the opener, worked up courage, started push-pull and ended the night with a Neg. Next week we go out and we k-close, not much, i know, but i'm just your AFC.
Important: Even before knowing seddit and before having ANY game, knowing how to cook has helped me A LOT. It's fun, it's impressive to girls, it's a great conversation if your conversation ever has a tilt. Just learn 3 recipes really well, and you'll see how much it helps.
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