I often at times find myself struggling to talk to girls. I sit and wonder, why? I'm a very outgoing person, I grew up literally saying hi to everyone and striking up random conversations with people that I saw around my relatively small town (just a few thousand people, I lived in a town within a town, townception lol). So here I am, 19 years old, now struggling to hold a conversation when I'm one of the friendliest of people lol.

I got to thinking about it and MOOD is really everything. When I'm in a good mood i can make people smile and laugh like there's no tomorrow, but if I'm in an "oh my god i really don't want to be here" kind of mood, or if I have my mind somewhere else, 9/10 times I can't really hold a conversation past the "hey how are you, what's new, that's cool alright bye" kinda thing.

So as long as you go out feeling great, excited, happy, overjoyed, relaxed, and interested in meeting people, I bet you 9/10 you'll have no problem talking out of your ass and being the life of things.