Through tinder, I get the girl to exchange Instagram and we talk there (should I get # instead?, my Instagram has 2000 followers, so social proof hopefully). But from there it's hard to know when to schedule the coffee date. Should it be soon as possible (2 to 3 days after) ? In the afternoon? ALSO, if I'm not sure what my schedule is , should I just tell her I'm unsure when we can meet up. Or should I just not respond? I'd appreciate if someone could atleast answer the last question. As a 18 M in college I'm still unsure, what the better ways are.