Why?

Humour helps you be charismatic and open doors (to girls and pretty much anywhere else).

What it requires:

  1. Start to change the lens in which you see the world i.e. Shift the lens of seriousness/ analytical mindset
  2. See humour everywhere
  3. Eradicate anxiety by willing to be goofy
  4. Spontaneity

What is humour?

Releases tension from change of expectations (punchline).

How?

Look for humour in the mundane.

  1. Ridiculous situations, taken to crazy proportions. Ridiculous compliment
  2. Role-playing = Arrogant King/Divas
  3. Self-deprecating humour = obnoxious putting-yourself-down.
  4. Blunt social commentary = call out the underlying feelings in social situation.
  5. Use goofy noises, faces, smiles
  6. Breaking expectations completely (going against the grain). Exercises: randomsentence-building, visualisations and affirmations.
  7. Make your joke and laugh genuinely yourself.
  8. Stop people-pleasing, and start going to the gym.
  9. Imagine you are drunk.
  10. Use humour as a part of a conversation, to break the ice, and then every now and then. Try use it to move towards deeper, meaningful conversations and overall connection.

Go research and Don't forget to Enjoy yourself!