Dear seducers. I am trying to learn about many things these days, one of which is seduction process (both in theory and practise). So far I learned a lot, but ended up a bit confused aswell.

I have read 2 books on this topic: 1. Mark Manson - Models 2. Robert Green - Art of seduction

The thing is, they are really contradictonary.

While the first book is focused on investing more in yourself than in others at the first place and suggest to always be honest and bald, because that is not needy and is therefore attractive, the other book is about those "tricks" and "games" that can be used in the process. Isn't that actually covering our inner insecurities by playing those games, and useful only short term? Mark Manson's concept about putting yourself in the first place really makes more sense to me, but might be wrong.

What is your opinion?