UK daygame infield diary

HolidayWhile · 2021-09-07T21:07:28+00:00

Should have got a filming loicence first.

2021-09-08T06:08:54+00:00

Damn, I thought these replies might actually have shed some light on my interactions, instead they are just jokes. You guys suck!

2021-09-09T20:36:29+00:00

I did 1 approach today, but it was a startling one. I approached a pair of 16 year old girls.

How did I know they were 16? They told me. The scary thing was, they looked fully grown, like 18 or 21. I can normally tell in most circumstances but these two seemed like adults to me and standing about 5'10 tall and with adult voices bantering with each other.

Now, for those who don't know, in the UK, 16 is the legal age of consent, with no age gap laws like you guys have in America. But in general our country frowns on age gaps and considers it "noncing". So the age of consent doesn't mean jack shit, the girls will call you "pedo" and "nonce" if you are unlucky and get family and friends to start on you, if they are from a rough background.

No such thing happened this time, but I can't risk more underaged approaches especially on the same day game session.

This interaction went like this:

There were a pair of them walking whom I found attractive

I chose the one on my side as I draw along side, blonde hair, although the brunette was equally as attractive.

I said "Hi, I'm (my name), you seem nice I want to meet you". I asked them what they were up to as I was walking alongside them. After a few jokey questions, her friend, the brunette one asked "Excuse me, how old are you!?" and using the classic day game method I said "guess".

She facetiously guessed 40, to which I jokingly responded "blimey, that's harsh and her friend (the one I approached) agreed that it was a harsh reply.

Her friend was then like "So...anyway, we are 16" to which I replied "oh, sorry, I thought you were 18", somewhat tongue in cheek because if they were 18 they still wouldn't be interested once they found out I was a 32 year old virgin and would still consider me a nonce case due to the age gap.

So anyway, I wished the blonde one (who was the friendlier of the two) a good day and broke off from the way they were walking.

But their declaration that they were 16 shook me to the core and I didn't do any more approaches in the session as a result. This is one of the approaches I wish I got on video because I am sure I've seen late teens and early 20s who looked younger than them.

There is nothing you can really do to tell how old a girl is other than tattoos which mean they are at least 18. I've even seen what I now assume were TEENS smoking cigarettes which I could have sworn they raised the age to 18 to.

There seems to be a complete void of girls aged 20 plus in this whole county.

Say if a girl is 18 but still at further education college is that okay? It seems a bit weird to me.

This is one of the problems getting into day game at a later age. You even have to be careful talking to females who look just like adults, especially when you are obviously and boldly trying to "hit on them". I was talking to these girls and they didn't seem in anyway under 18.

I knew as soon as her friend said "how old are you" that I was in trouble. The best you can do in that situation is try to be as normal as possible and make light of it without panicking and I think I handled it well.

2021-09-15T20:36:15+00:00

Well, I'm not quite sure what to make of today. I was in my approaching town where I am 2 days of the week for a few hours. This is relevant to a couple of scenarios I describe.

I tried a few approaches

This was weird, I barely even got to my opener and the chick said "I'm on a work thing, so I don't have much time, but thanks anyway" before I'd even given a compliment. It was as if she knew that I was the "approach guy". But how could it be!? I'd only been seen in this town consistently for about 3 weeks, tops. Could she have seen the news article about the scandal in my town, some 40 miles away and over a year ago!? Doubtful... but it got me in my head, the worst place to be, for day game.
This one was a good approach, but I followed the chick for way too long, outside to her place of work. I didn't realise it was her place of work, but she was walking fast and I was trying not to scare her by doing the jogging for which I got criticized for back when I made my infield videos. So it took me a long time to eventually catch up to her.

She stopped outside a pub for which I believe she worked as a barmaid. I said "Hi, I'm (said my name) you seem nice and I wanted to meet you".

She reacted fairly well, I said something like "what are you up to today, you look kinda tight for time" to which she replied that she was just about to "go in" gesturing to the door of the pub for work.

I said something like "oh, looks like you don't have much time to talk, then" to which she concurred.

I then said "well listen, how about another time, we go grab a coffee" to which she replied "I do actually have a boyfriend and I don't think he would be very happy.

To which I replied "Oh sorry, I didn't realise you had a boyfriend" then she said "thanks anyway".

I wished her a "good shift" and then she replied automatically "and you too" to which she awkwardly had to correct to a "good day" once she had registered that I said "shift" as in like her shift at work.

I count this as a "good approach". I was direct, I offered a coffee, she said no. Straightforward stuff.

This was awkward, I walked pasted a girl with a dog, the dog seemed to be friendly to me, I walked past and then thought "hold on a minute, there's a chick with that dog" so I went back and asked her what type of dog it was. She told me and then I wasn't really sure if I was into her or not. She seemed to enjoy the interaction but she wasn't sure, maybe it was because I awkwardly walked past and then went back to ask her about her dog in a really unnatural way?

Anyway, she said "well I'm walking this way" gesturing a direction of travel and seemed to want out of the interaction. I kind of thought she would be more open to the interaction, not sure why I thought that.

Those were the three "straightforward" approach situations that I described. The next situation requires it's own post on the matter.

2021-09-15T21:12:21+00:00

Remember that pair of 16 year olds I describe in last week's field report? The interaction went well, for an under aged approach.

They didn't look 16, more like 21 and stood about 5'10. I apologised for my mistake and the interaction ended amicably without further ado.

I don't think a facebook post would have been made about that incident at all.

However, someone must have over heard them saying that they were 16, because what happened today was weird and left me shaken up.

Now, bear in mind I am completely anonymous in this town, it is some 40 miles away from my home town where I got into trouble for filming my approaches. I don't do any filming of these interactions and my approaches are much less creepy than in those videos. My approach style is simply "Hi, I'm (my name), you seem nice I wanted to meet you". Nothing that could be construed offensive in anyway.

So I was chilling in the town square, there are a lot of 16-18 year olds that go to the local further education college, which makes it very hard to pick out the ones in their 20s who aren't single mums pushing pushchairs with babies in them.

I was scoping out this one girl, just looking, didn't even move in her direction as I judged her to be too young.

Then something weird happened. This guy, who didn't even look like a "pillar of society" type, dressed in sports wear, went up to the girl I was just looking at and said "excuse me, I'm lost" then he asked her "how old are you" I assume she replied 16, because then he blurted out "She's 16 you fucking weirdo", he then walked off, spat on the pavement before walking into a shop.

This was extremely disturbing for me because I felt like I was in total anonymity in this town and I didn't think that underaged approach caused too much of a scene. But he must have overheard them saying "we're 16" and took objection to my mistake and thought I was deliberately "targeting" them or something.

It took me awhile to process what had just happened and piece it together in my mind, then I thought "hold up a minute, was that aimed at me!?" so I went outside the minimart he'd just walked into to see if he was there, at this point, my forearms were pumped and my hands were almost curling themselves up into fists, I was pumped for a fight, but he wasn't inside that shop, I don't know where he went.

It felt almost as though I'd imagined the whole thing, but I know in the UK that day game is looked very dimly up on, so I know it was a genuine reaction.

I'm racking my brain though, I can't believe this happened. This has really shaken me up and brings me back to the age old question of "how do you know how old a girl is before you approach them!?"

I wasn't even being awkward, I was talking loudly at them, not being creepy, being jokey and confident.

If I do an approach on a girl I feel really paranoid for awhile in case she turns out to be underaged. Is that office wear or have I made a mistake and she's actually a 6th former (high schooler).

I'm actually feeling a bit afraid of going back to that town, I wonder if someone has made a facebook about me harassing girls in the town centre!?

This reminds me of exactly the reason why I began filming my approaches, because people I was describing these situations to didn't believe me, it's just text on a screen, whereas actual video footage brings it to life.

2021-09-17T20:15:41+00:00

Not much to report from today's session. Earlier this week the incident with that rude boy type got me shaken up a lot. Where he went up to that girl I decided was too young and shouted "she's 16 you weirdo".

I was extra cautious of all the 16-18 year olds around, of which there appear to be many around lunch time and around college course finishing times.

At the end of the day, it's almost impossible to tell who is 16, 17, 18, 19, all the way up to mid 20s sometimes. In general in my part of England, the people in their 20s only seem to come out at night and I wouldn't stand a chance in night game, I'm not a chav.

I still made a couple of approaches.

Approach 1

I was very nervous with this one, I think she might have been under 18, I don't know, but she looked THICC from behind. Her friend was tall and thin, by comparison. As soon as I said "Hi, I'm (my name), what are you doing today". She said "I'm going to my boyfriend". The first thing out of her mouth told me that she didn't want to talk, so I unconfidently (after the incident with the pair of 16 year olds) broke off without even saying anything.

I sensed DANGER, so I got the HELL OUT OF THERE. I felt people were watching, I was afraid, I admit it. I walked off into the crowd to calm down. I feel the atmosphere changing in this town after I've been seen there semi regularly.

Approach 2

After the first approach potentially causing heat in the town, I left town for the industrial yards on the outskirts and walked around some urban landscapes for a break from the stress of cold approach.

I was walking the high street and I saw an attractive chick that I was sure was in her 20s. I said "Hi, my name is (my name) you seem nice I wanted to meet you".

She replied with a foreign accent, which was promising, as those ones are always over 18 and more approachable to boot.

I asked her what she was doing and she said "I'm just walking home". Now, after being shaken up by the 16 year olds incident (even though I didn't think she specifically was 16), I didn't jokingly say "Well mind if you walk with you and chat"

instead

I felt afraid and that people were watching so I offered her a way out.

I said "well don't let me get in the way of what you are doing"

to which she replied "thank you" then promptly started walking off.

To me, this was a successful interaction, but it demonstrated the spotlight effect and my lack of confidence thereafter the incident which left me shaken.

I really felt the pressure during this approach, I couldn't do it all the way. I feel like I need a break from this town before something goes wrong.

2021-09-18T21:38:39+00:00

London today, a lot of infield footage but no way of posting it here and I don't want to get back to YouTube just yet, so that will have to go to the archives for now.

2021-09-21T20:30:52+00:00

An interesting day gaming.

Two approach attempts

1) I tried to talk to a chick in the town square, I said, Hi, I'm (my name) and she instantly said "I've got to go" as if she knew who I was. She was thicc, but I think she might have been 16 or 17 from the way she spoke, quite a deep chavy voice. It was awkward. She was so averse to even a few seconds of interaction. Such is cold approach in the UK.

I feel like rumours and whispers might be spreading about my activities in my new approaching town, but how could that be? I've only been there a couple of times a week for 4 weeks a few hours hanging about and walking up and down the street then gone.

This puts me on edge and makes me worried about being challenged by a group of working class locals.

2) This was a weird one, I almost got her phone number. A chick outside a shop, waiting around. I hesitated, thought she might have been waiting for her boyfriend. I ended up going for the approach. She had tattoos which gave me confidence she was over 18, but for all intents and purposes looked just the same as the chick in approach 1) who I think might have been 16 or 17, similar figures.

I went to her and said "Hi, I'm (my name) you were stood there looking bored so I figured I'd meet you. She smiled and seemed quite "receptive", I asked her whom she was waiting for and it was actually her sister.

She said her sister was getting a flu jab, I made a joke about covid and said how boring it was being "locked down", to which she agreed. I then went on to ask her about her hobbies and interests (which weren't memorable) and she asked mine, which is always a good sign in an interaction when a chick reciprocates.

I told her about my passion for cycling and bodybuilding to which she replied "oh so you are quite active, then". I then made a time constraint and said I've gotta dash but "would you be interested for a coffee another time".

I said I should "grab her number" , to which she was initially enthusiastic, but hesitant. But then she almost certainly deliberately suggested that she take my number, for some reason, she lost interest and I knew at that point she probably wouldn't text and she hasn't. I wonder if possibly she had heard of the scandal regarding my day game? I mean, it was in the county newspaper, after all. But my picture was never published, although cold approach is so abnormal in the UK that it wouldn't be anyone else doing it.

I also seem to remember asking her name casually at some point, to which she dodged the question, weirdly. Anyway, I put my number in her phone, fully expecting her not to text back.

I'm not going to beg a chick for her number, the "let me take your number" thing is a soft rejection, that's all.

However, apart from a few awkward moments during the interaction, I think it was generally solid. I left fairly smoothly without any disasters like tripping over or muddling my words up and wished her a good rest of her day.

My only worry is what if she sees me out and about approaching others after this failure? It's going to be awkward, especially since she has my phone number in her phone now.

I am pretty sure my anonymity level is going down in this town, despite not having any "incidents" with approaches that went really badly.

I really thought I would have got the number from my second approach. Dunno what made her change her mind, she seemed interested in me. Maybe I rushed the interaction? I didn't want to mess it up though so I want to keep it short and sweet.

It was her loss.

poppingcandy2 · 2021-09-08T09:02:34+00:00

if the only reason you can't film infields is for your own safety (locals who know who you are) could you not travel a little further afield to somewhere busy and film them again? Nobody would know you and it's almost impossible to apporach the same people and get a name for yourself in somewhere like London due to how busy it is

ps - here's another UK daygamer you might not have seen

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2pSO70bXjk4&ab_channel=KristianKasanova

Title	UK daygame infield diary
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