based on this field report.

Prior to reading lots of seduction material, it seemed perfectly reasonable to AFC me that it might commonly take 3 or more "dates", including dinner or other such supplication, before a woman might eventually sleep with me. To not accept that seemed unrealistic and impatient.

Reading [FR]s and starting to understand something about the processes of seduction, it now seems very plausible to collapse that timeline, and that a series of dates without sex is beta/AFC territory. But, I also think that nexting a woman if I haven't seduced her after just two meetings/dates may be a bit rash.

Do different women have different timelines? Is it just a matter of finding the right targeted approach to speed up her processes? If escalation seems to be happening slowly, what sort of signs inform the decision of whether/how to proceed?