Hello Seddit! I've been lurking for a bit. I'm not sure if I've got the basics down or not but I have purchased a couple of the ebooks online that seemed pretty good (Double Your Dating by DeAngelo and 4 Elements of Game by Bauer and Judge). None of it has really helped me much.

I don't know if it's because I'm using it wrong or if I don't fully understand why certain attitudes and actions are prescribed. I'm attributing this lack of improvement to my learning style. I learn by watching and doing. If the concept is simple to me then just doing it a bunch and crashing until I figure it out usually works well. If it's muddled though or I can't figure it out I need to watch someone else do it a few times so I can catch on; compare my own actions to theirs.

I'd love to get a personal training session but that would be way too expensive for me and I seriously need a boost in my currently nonexistent love life.

So, are there any videos out there that show all of these principles actually being done out in the field? Sort of like a how to for the more basic stuff or examples for the more abstract