Okay so I'm a weird dude and I've had one girlfriend in the past. She was the one to initiate basically everything in terms of starting our relationship but then we built it together. After a few years we decided to break up (also she wanted to date my old best friend) so since then I've had no luck starting up literally anything else. I've kissed a couple girls and played mario kart or danced with a dozen more but really that's it :/

I'm the kind of person who's looking for the real thing but I don't even know what that really is or how to achieve it. Can Reddit help a lonely boi talk smoothly to peoples? Initiate good conversation and lead to literally anything? Also what are standards for kissing/hand holding/sex coz I'm literally incapable of reading anything other than overt body language w/o knowing the person.

Thanks, AMA if you wanna help more