Hey guys,

I have a problem with getting one really hot chick out via texting. We hooked up pretty much randomly 4 times already(club), every time it was passionate as hell, kissing and all that stuff, ended up at my place once. Problem is I simply cant get her out other then random hooking up. Last time I was with her(2 days ago) she said I didnt try hard enough and obviously she is not gonna ask ME out. Well if would look at my messages that I sent before to get her out, it was really bad and now when I look at it, I feel like an idiot. Totally I tried to get her out about 4 times, no luck. But I didnt set exact day, I was asking when she will be available an pretty much letting her decide which day etc, all kinds of mistakes. I dont wanna make the same mistake again, we talked and she said next week we could hang out. I didnt write her yet and I dont wanna screw it up again and see some lame excuse from her as always. I was thinking about message like: "I will pick you up wednesday night." And thats it, but any ideas will be really appreciated.

Another thing with me is I have these weird phases. When I am at my uni city I feel good, attractive and now at home I feel like how did I get this hot chick again. Now I feel really like some under-average looking guy. Wonder why that is.

Another option is its maybe not only text game but she just doesnt want to hook up ? Ideas ?