Let this challenge be the motivation you need to make a change. I'm tried of seeing in this sub that guys are terrified to go the club or bar. Trust me when I say that is where women are. I'm challenging every guy who says the club/bar are not "his scene" or to scared to go the club/bar to go out TONIGHT (or tomorrow if you're seeing this too late.) I'm not challenging you to dance or bring 10 girls home to bang simply go and talk to people.

Specifics of the challenge:

  1. Find a club/bar that fits your vibe/taste in musicif you like hip hop music go to a hip hop club, like country music go to a country bar. Don't like neither? Try a gay club/bar. They can be wildly entertaining and people should be easier to talk.

Alternatives: Local rock shows, live bands (I mean like Jazz), karaoke, hookah lounge

2) Spend at least 30 minutes there

Give a real chance, don't do in a walk out.

3) Talk to at least one person

I don't care if it's the bartender,a bouncer or some random drunk guy in the bathroom. Talk to someone.

Personal tips: Look up reviews and dress code if you've never been to the club/bar. Dress comfortable, but still nice. Pre game (take a few shots before you go out to loosen up and eat before you drink.) Look up the best time to go.Most importantly just go out and have a good time.

Going to me is never about the women. As soon as you make it only about women you're going to have a bad time, waste money and time. Go out to relieve stress, get out the house, and try something new.

report back tomorrow with your experiences or just post your excuses for why you don't want to do it.