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[–]dailymanup 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Here's the best advice I can give you my friend. Don't rely on your looks. Girls telling you your good looking may be true, but it can be detrimental if you take that to heart and think that looks are going to get you girls. Hot, shy guys always have trouble. You're super young man. Start developing your personality and social skills now. You're be really happy you did later in life.
[–]cloutdrought 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How though?
[–]dailymanup 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Basically two ways. One, start getting involved in anything social. Clubs, groups, whatever. Make friends and hang out with them. Get invited to parties. Friends lead to more friends. You will develop social skills and personality. Just make the right friends (i.e. stay away from drugs).
Second way. Just start talking to girls. Even if you're scared. Do it now and pretty soon you won't be scared anymore. If you get rejected, keep doing it anyway. Take my word for it, anything that seems important at your age now related to girls, will be long forgotten not to far down the road. So take lots of chances now with approaching girls. A few years from now you'll be really good at it, and your friends will envy you.
[–]redinkinc 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's no such thing as 'wrong' in game. Whatever you do will be 'wrong' according to some PUA, but correct according too others.
(for example, Mysterymethod and Mark Manson are polar opposites on every single nuance of pickup/game)
[–]africanpyjamas69 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Women care A LOT LESS about looks than you'd think. Start developing your personality. Talk to everyone. It's easier said than done obviously, but I think that's the best thing you can do.
Us guys fall for women based on their appearance.
Women fall for us based mostly on our "confidence".
[–]cloutdrought 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wanna build my confidence but I don’t know how to. I’m going to the airport tomorrow and there will be girls from our sister school. I’m not tying to hit on them but talk to them and hold a decent conversation with them.
I’m new to this subreddit so I don’t now who they are and what PUA is.
I go to boarding school and my parents don’t allow me to go out. So I make the most of what I can a school.
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