I'm getting plenty of numbers and dates. However, quite a few dates like mine on Sunday have been going like this:

We meet for an activity based date (pool, darts, walking, etc). A little awkward at first like most dates, but then I build comfort and get into light teasing/touching, Sexual innuendo, and i usually get the kiss in within an hour of our date when I feel the time is right. We leave the acticity/bar and go for a walk/talk. Things get pretty physical and we do everything that wouldn't get us in jail since we're in public. Set up a second date, then I hear nothing. Logistics turn to shit, so we can't go somewhere more private.

The girl I took out on Sunday hasn't replied, and out of the last ten dates, three of them didn't reply after a good time. I thought things were going well, mutual touching, arm holding, hand holding, kissing, she escalated to frenching (don't like it), sensual kissing, spanking, etc.

Am I escalating too much? Do women just like to tease and play games? The age range and personality of my dates vary a lot, so I don't think it's the attitude.