What are your best Tinder Openers?

Shadoweddy · 2021-09-03T18:28:06+00:00

If a girl is interested, she is interested. An opener can only go so far, especially on dating apps. I would be more concerned about setting up your profile.

With that said, when you do get a match, you have to learn how to escalate conversations and lead them to your goals. First few messages are crucial.

Here is an example that came up 2 days ago (happened to my roommate. He ended up going on a date with her yesterday and closed lol):

-on Hinge, girl comments on his dog picture something to the extent of “I don’t have a dog but im an aspiring dog mom” - I suggest he asks what type of dog she is looking at getting

-roommate says that’s a bad idea because that will turn into a “breed” conversation

-instead, we decide it’s better to say something that will lead the conversation into meeting up. He settled with “well, we can decide if you should be a dog mom after you meet Penny” (the dog)

-girl says she is down, date is scheduled

This all happened in 3 messages.

Formula I use (and it works):

First message: Small talk

Second message: small talk + “are you free to grab a drink sometime”

If they say yes, schedule the date ASAP as to avoid having them losing interest and avoid the small talk leading up to the date

-edit: formatting and spelling

2021-09-04T13:56:36+00:00

Assuming you have a decent profile, girls should be opening YOU. Really I've had ok success with tinder, mostly invite them directly to my place for a disney movie + wine (really). But for the most part of that, it was them that opened me. And for the most part of that, statistically when I just respond with "Hii" instead of something clever, it works best, because they're already investing in ME so I maintain the investment vector in that direction.

Nofapdeity · 2021-09-04T17:20:00+00:00

Get your ass off of tinder and go meet girls irl.

The only time I do online game any more is if the girl messages/follows ME. Otherwise you’re just another number on the screen.

I’ve done more in the last 2 weeks talking to people at school than my entire youth trying to play the online game

Title	What are your best Tinder Openers?
Author	Astralman2016
Upvotes	15
Comments	4
Date	September 3, 2021 5:15 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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