So a guy I follow advised for a pull away strategy if a girl shows little interest to a date: withdraw the offer and hit up again in 3 weeks. (Don’t judge I’m just trying it out).

Anyway it happened with me more or less and now it’s been like nearly 3 weeks, he never specified what to say when you hit them up.

What would you guys reccomend? I want to hit this girl up again but idk to send a funny message or just a hey, and do I jump straight to asking them out or nah?