I have been told by people that I sound arrogant.

Here is an example with a woman:

H - He was really weird, I didn't like him Me - I'm pretty weird, do you not like me? She seemed a little upset afterwards.

The funny thing is, men have told me that they were mad, then later realize there was nothing to be mad about. My intents are never to be offensive, it's just a way for me to really get to know someone.

What are your opinions? Am I a huge douchebag?