What does this mean? Help I’m oblivious!!

Workamaholic · 2019-09-27T21:41:31+00:00

Stop trying to bond with people over text. It’s bullshit. You can’t make a true emotional connection with someone over text. I don’t even try to have text conversations anymore. They do more harm than good.

For example: Think of the ideal masculine man that most women pine for, is he sending texts with emojis and dumb memes? I don’t think so. It’s hard for me to imagine some roguish badass hunched over his cell phone all day. Seems to go against everything a man should stand for.

Start to understand this because it is without a doubt the most important to truly know and is a very difficult thing to understand:.

ALL of your problems are rooted in communication and so are all of your solutions. Problems with women. Problems with success, ambitions. It’s ALL based in how well you communicate with yourself, others, and the world. It’s how you tell your story. That’s it. That’s everything. How well you understand communication and how well you communicate.

If you think she’s interested in you. Call her or if you’re scared to call, text her. (But learn to call, it will set you apart and it’s a valuable skill. Your voice is better than any clever text.) But don’t ask for shit.

Instead Say, “Hey (whatever her name is. people LOVE hearing their own name) I’m going to go do (insert cool plan with stuff you enjoy doing. Bonus points if you can make it slightly mysterious) at (time and specific location) come with me.”

That’s it. If she’s into you she’ll accept and you go out. Or at the very least will suggest a plan B. If she’s not into you she won’t. If she’s on the fence she will test you by trying to get you to confirm call or check in. Or ask questions if it’s too mysterious. Don’t fall for it. It’s a test. The offer is black and white. Don’t let her make it grey.

If she declines or doesn’t respond walk away knowing you did your part as a man and move on. If someone isn’t into you, it’s really not worth the effort to get them into you. Just move on. Better in the long run, also if she changes her mind. SHE’ll reach out to YOU. Sounds crazy but when you pull back they do at least once.

Stop using your phone for anything else besides setting up awesome fun dates. I know that’s crazy to understand but trust me. I’ve watched these guys on here use their phone to drop Ryan Gosling memes and dumb shit. To me, this makes you look like an immature child. It might work on girls but not awesome women. There’s a line between playful and immature. Know it. You want her to crave you. The phone is the cheapest fix there is. You want her to be accustomed to feeling your presence and the void that’s left when she can’t. Curiosity is a powerful seducer.

Always remember. Action is the purest form of communication. A true man acts more than he speaks.

Good luck man. Knock em’ dead.

magnetradio · 2019-09-27T23:00:52+00:00

If she's not responding to your texts, try to talk more to her in person. Let her start texting you. Never blow up a woman's phone. It will only boost her ego and lower your value

sinbad2011 · 2019-09-28T12:59:01+00:00

she got other guys.

she leaving u as backup.

Title	What does this mean? Help I’m oblivious!!
Author	JackEatsBurritos
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	September 27, 2019 5:07 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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