Hey Everyone, New to this sub and studying seduction and am looking for some guidance. I have quite a bit of success with women who I don't know but an ex (easily a 9-10) and I reconnected about a month ago after breaking up for about a year and seeing other people. Since reconnecting, I have been very careful not to initiate contact and let her come to me. We've seen each other a handful of times (around 6?) and had plenty of dates at my place but I haven't been able to get past her barrier. Every time we hang out I make a move and escalate it more and more by trying different techniques (escalated touching, talking to open her up, or even sexually flirting before she even gets to my house) but eventually she just pulls away and then ultimately leaves telling me that she had fun. The farthest I've been able to get it is being on top of her and us aggressively kissing and rubbing each other under our clothes. Every time she leaves, I tell myself that I'm done wasting my time, divert my attention to something more fulfilling, and then the next thing I know she's blowing up my phone again asking to hang out and come over to my place. So of course, I find myself wanting to give it another shot and make a date. I should mention that she always had a low sex drive when we were together. I know she just got out of another serious relationship and that there is still some drama there, but how do I either get it to where we are hooking up or stand up for myself in a way that communicates that I'm not interested in what is currently happening? I do love her because of our history but to be honest, it feels like it did when we were together only we're not in a committed relationship and I am not interested in a cuddle buddy. I want much more than that boring type of relationship and want to have a girl who sees and wants me like I deserve. Regardless of if its with her or not.