Hello members of subreddit, I have been reading this subreddit for like past 2 years. I had zero girls until I was 17 and then I had 2 months, where I had some girls, but was not satisfied with them. So I started to read about such things as self-improvements, getting your life together, discipline and etc. So I started working on my hobbies and passions. I thought, that I will not be needy anymore, because I will also have other things to do, so if a girl rejects me, I will be okay with that. (I actually am)

My current situation: 19 years old, studying at really good college and doing it very well (gonna smash those tests), working out regularly for 2 months with freeweights ( was doing a lot of homeworkouts before that), I am learning how to sing and my teacher says I am getting really good at it ... so generally I would say that everything is going perfectly. I don't fear almost anything. No social anxiety, people would say I am an extrovert, I talk with people easily when I want. So basically I believed that solving those areas of my life would make me more attractive to women. I had GF this summer, but it was sloppy. I tried to discuss this with other people, and they said "You are 19, you have time.", but I disagree. I don't want to wait or anything. I know I can have it now if I do something about it. Relationships with girls/women are the last thing I wish to improve, but do not know how. I read tons of articles, had a few books with different approaches (Mark Manson, our local writers, RSD Max, ...0, but they did not give me what I wanted. I feel like they all present something unique, but miss that "thing", that I am missing. I know people, who are total opposite of what would you describe as a person with good "game" or "thing", but they manage to have really decent girls I would kill for. I had few girls in past year or so, but for me they were not my type.

I would be happy if anyone, who related to my situation, would share advice. :) Thank you