You've met a few girls, You have had some fun, You move on to newer girls. Until you find the girl who you feel can add more value to your life if she stays a little longer than the rest. If it doesn't workout whatevs their will be more. You haven't done the monogamous thing in a while. You don't quite remember how you used to go about it. You certainly don't know how your new self "after-seddit" would go about it. You haven't slept together yet.(hmmmm) You are in no rush. Right now that desire is met by other women. You wonder if you would be happy if it was limited to only that woman. You turn to seek advice as you have before.

What is a good way to transition from having fun with someone to experimenting with the thought of having them in your life? How do you get them to invest beyond just physical desire? What frame is needed to set the interaction down the path of LTR? How do you know if she is on board? How do you get her on board beyond sex? What does the best version of yourself do when He treats the people he cares about in life? How does that translate over into your seduction?

I've become complacent in my current success to sleep with multiple girls. I feel as if it has become a chore. I would like to feel the excitement I once had when I started. I feel as I have neglected the other, vital half of seduction; keeping the girl.

TL;DR I want to shift focus from being able to sleep with women to dating women. What are the differences; internally and externally that might not seem apparent?