What Makes An Average Looking Guy Instantly Become "Hot"?

kingcalapsss · 2016-06-17T09:27:17+00:00

Charisma + Social Proof + Fashion + Intellect + Value + Strength and Fitness.. Ad those to an average Joe and he'll become super hot despite his looks.

CrushHazard · 2016-06-16T17:05:10+00:00

The compliance test is really a test to see whether or not they’re going to be able to get away with whatever they want. Why you want to test this? Well, they want to find out whether or not you’re used to beautiful women hitting on you or whether or not you’re used to being with beautiful women.

This seems to be a really common misconception in the community. This analysis simply doesn't make sense. If she asks you to do errand-boy type stuff for her, that isn't a test -- it's a signal of disinterest. She isn't thinking, "let's see if I can walk all over him", she's thinking something along the lines of, "well, I need to put up with this guy, so I may as well get some use out of him. If I can't get him to leave permanently, I may as well buy myself a few minutes alone with my friends. Maybe if I walk all over him, he'll get sick of it and leave me alone." So basically when you "pass" these "compliance tests" and don't put up with her crap, she wins. That's exactly what she wanted you to do. But she isn't attracted to you. You already lost that game.

What women do is test a guy's frame. It has nothing to do with compliance, it's more to do with psychological stability. If you want to test the strength of a structure, you push it a few times to see if it moves. Women do that to men for two reasons: (1) they don't want you to go psycho on them and rape them like the Stanford guy (notice that all the women who interacted with that guy called him creepy -- women have an inborn ability to tell which guys are rapey and which ones aren't), and (2) they are smart enough to know that confident guys are better in bed and weak/self-conscious guys make for dry vaginas.

I agree with all the other stuff in your article, but this part is way off. Women don't test for compliance. It's just a soft rejection.

Title	What Makes An Average Looking Guy Instantly Become "Hot"?
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Date	June 16, 2016 4:40 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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