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[–]whiskytango74 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Give zero fucks. I can tell from your post that you are way too wrapped up in your head over this. You can start winning by earning an abundance mentality then you'll stop getting shit on. Don't like the way a chick treats you...? Move on. Spend time only with women that show interest and add value to your life. Meet people in person and stay off the apps. You can meet women anywhere by taking them off the pedestal your carrying around for them.
[–]forget4 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
How do I get over what happened to me?
[–]whiskytango74 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Why do you hang on to it?
[–]forget4 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Because shes attractive, I trusted them both and they lied to me, I cared about her and she treated me like crap, I feel inferior to him and a joke to her, I havent been able to get that kind of relationship and experience and its what Ive always wanted, and I feel resentment that they have that after what they did to me and Im still nowhere.
[–]whiskytango74 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Have enough self worth and you'll stop trusting people who don't deserve it. You're still here, on Earth, learn the lesson and move on. Dude there's plenty of fish and plenty of time. Focus on you, hit the gym an extra time for the next few weeks and you'll feel fine. Also forget about the relationship aspect and focus on and live in the moment. There's no guarantees in life and no one gives a fuck about you or owes you anything. Same goes for me too and each of us. If you're not looking out for you you can bet no one else is.
[–]forget4 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its easier said than done. I know no one gives a fuck about me, I dont give a fuck about me. Ill try to do what I can for myself but I honestly dont think there is anymore time, everything I wanted cant happen anymore. Even if I turned 40 and some 21 year old virgin wanted me Id be disgusted by it and feel even more resentment because Im not her age and I didnt even get to be with her or anyone else at that age. No one and no experience will ever be enough at this point.
Anyways, Ill do what I can for myself when I have the time and can afford it so I at least have some small good moments in my life, like buying myself a shirt or going to the movies. I dont think Ill ever be able to get rid of the pain, embarrassment, and resentment I feel. Ill keep pushing myself to go to work, work out, etc but Im sure Ill feel this way for the rest of my life.
[–]Chitlinsandgravy 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Relaxed. playful. Enjoy yourself. Enjoy the other person.
[–]buttgoogler 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
How about the "I gave up like a loser instead of pushing for my targets/dreams" mindset?
[–]forget4 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Im not sure what else to do.
[–]buttgoogler 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Go monk-mode, forget about girls for some time. Lift, get money, read, meditate, travel, get a hobby, work on your SMV, work on your frame, work on your IDGAF attitude. Then rise from ashes like a phoenix and enjoy your life.
[–]forget4 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks, I just want to go monk mode forever. I don't think a relationship or sex is worth what I've had to go through and miss out on already. I don't want to have to get over a girls past, pretend like it was worth going through all that crap and loneliness to get to her, or that I'll even matter to her. I can't even see a girl actually caring about me because of the way I've been treated, it will always just feel like lies and fake to me. I'll keep doing those things but I'm not sure how to get over this weird feeling I have, even if I am the best me I don't think I'll ever be happy. But its like a game, I'll max out everything but not ever be able to get that one part, its locked forever.
[–]IdontevenKnow022 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't know. You can only be yourself. I approach whenever.
[–]IAMTHESmoothOperator 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're basically me. Welcome to the club. Except I've had 0 experience.
[–]FrostingTip69 -2 points-1 points0 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
https://youtu.be/70jhQ8VajF4. Hope this video helps you
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