Hi all, coming to you for advice, for context tho, the girl i’ll talk about and I have met 7 days ago, we’ll call her J and her best friend is S.
So, last monday we spent the whole day together with her best friend (girl as well) and we exchanged snap and she offered to pick me up by car (i font have my license yet) and if I wanna hang out and do things just to text her.
Thursday with J and S we went to a sea expo kinda where there’s vr things and some rides.. then we went to J’s pool, then at some point they were talking and decided they’d throw a party the day after and asked if i wanted to come, said yeah.
So friday at around 7:30pm S and J picked me up and we went to J’s house, once everyone was there we were 7 total. J told everyone where they were sleeping and so I was supposed to sleep on the couch, at that point I was like well maybe I’ll just go home after the party..
At some point during the night J told me "omg the moon is so beautiful come see it" I went and she started talking and asking me if I felt left out, I said a little it but because of myself cause im kinda shy and she said see you shoulda told me that, whenever u wanna tell me something or you feel bad just tap my arm I’ll understand, whether today or another day.
She then told me she will never let me go now and that she wants to help me (with shyness and problems like bad habits) and told me she doesn’t invite a lot of people at her house then she was like "aww I just wanna hug you" while coming for the hug. Talked some more then we hugged again and went back with everyone.
I’m someone who gets attached pretty quick but having her care so much for me made it that much faster / stronger.
Then when everyone started going to sleep, she was like well me too then, so S and her bf slept together, 2 others hooked up that night so they slept together, so there was me J and another guy, that guy told his friend alright see you bro, so I thought he’d leave, but he went down with me and J and I asked him if he was sleeping here or not, he said IDK yet.
J set up the couch for me, told me if I wake up before her to tell her, then her and the guy went into her room, I felt betrayed by the guy cause he obviously knew and tried to act like he didn’t.. 10 minutes later she came out the room cause her dog was barking, she had put on perfume and left the dog in my room. 15 minutes later they both came out her room to take some food and water and went back taking the dog this time. I felt so bad.. especially when she left the dog with me. Also the fact that out of 7 people I was the only one sleeping alone. It was 2, 2, 2 and me.
I then hesitated a lot if I should just go home but I ended up staying, not sleeping and leaving at 9 am before she woke up, then texted her Hi how are you, thank you for yesterday.
Now I'm seeing J and S tomorrow but idk what to do now, should I tell her I'm starting to like her or should I not say anything and just keep hanging out / partying with her ? I'm really confused on what to do.
I'm afraid if I tell her that it'll push her away as it's been only 7 days we've known each other.
Sorry for the long post but had to give you all the story.
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