What should i do now

Richie_Ricchu · 2025-04-07T11:52:01+00:00

It mainly depends on how well the escalation has been tbh… like have u even passed the sexual hookpoint? Does she even know the real intent behind why u approached her in the first place? If your fundamentals are solid and there’s already that underlying tension, then ya go for some fun date vibe not the typical dinner/movie stuff. Something chill like arcade, pool, bowling, rooftop cafe, or anything that keeps it playful but still gives u isolation for escalation.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-04-07T12:00:55+00:00

Try to separate "PUA" from the more current climate of inner game enrichment and self empowerment. PUA tends to be more sociopathic. Ignore the Mystery Method type teachings of the past and work on building your social skills, confidence, maintaining and learning new skills and hobbies, and career goals, etc. Don't just be a nerd who studies "game" without other things going on in your life.

But to answer your question, first dates should be in an environment that will make her feel comfortable and safe and in a well lit era if it's after dark. Clubs are generally not good places to bring someone since they're loud and dark, so you can barely see or hear one another; plus they tend to be a bit trashy and it's probably not a good tone to set. Movie theaters are also not good because they allow for zero conversation. But you do you. Coffee is a general standard because it allows for conversation and is a low cost investment that can be done any time of the day and without planning for weather. If you don't want to rely more on social skills, you could try activities like bowling that will be a bit more interactive and competitive.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-04-07T12:05:31+00:00

It's much easier to get her to agree if you invite her to something low stakes. Like coffee or lunch

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-04-08T02:06:55+00:00

Go somewhere you can escalate logistically or physically. See my post on escalation "how to pull a girl home in a day"

Title	What should i do now
Author	Zealousideal_Data_40
Upvotes	4
Comments	4
Date	April 7, 2025 11:20 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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