What should my arms/hands be doing while conversing?

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-05-21T03:00:22+00:00

You should be the animated guy who gestures and touches people.

Go to YouTube and search for "How To Kino" and watch the ten part series by Lance Mason.

Banana_Slut · 2014-05-21T03:03:39+00:00

Emphasis what you are saying with hand movements. If you say thing like "I dunno?" don't shrug with your hands in your pockets, rather use your hands. If you are declining something, use your hands to emphasis it. Also, don't forget KINO! Like if you say "Ill swear to you (blank)" Touch her arm as if you are bracing her for the impact of something. subtle shit. etc. If you are simply listening, put your index, middle and ring finger in your pocket, stand with your one leg forward and the other slighting less so. but stand Up straight.

carBoard · 2014-05-21T03:40:15+00:00

I use to be the same way. I started trying to force myself to leave my hands by my sides. it works a little bit.

most the time I settle on sort of holding my hands by my waste or putting one hand on something like a chair casually.

Regardless keep them moving whether it is gesturing when you talk or resting on a girls shoulder briefly when you address her.

_Brimstone · 2014-05-22T07:38:56+00:00

Crossing your arms is closed body language. Gotta clear that up. Some good advice is here already, but when they aren't applicable, hooking your thumbs into your pockets comes across better than either position you mentioned. I had these problems also.

Title	What should my arms/hands be doing while conversing?
Author	rScarlet
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	May 21, 2014 2:40 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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