25f here, flying high from having attained "emotional hookpoint" (as we call our goal in fPUA) with a particularly excellent dude last night. When engaging with a guy that I like, I often have two or three reminders playing in the back of my mind throughout the course of the interaction. They're rarely as generic as "use kino" and "be confident", and more frequently something like "focus on sexualizing the conversation". So guys, what has your focus been during recent successful gaming?