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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Time to walk away - You are what you tolerate. Never tolerate this behavior 👍
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[–]Digital-Beard 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea man that logical voice is the way I need to go, unfortunately while it’s the wisest of the voices it’s not the loudest. It’s a daily struggle to keep myself in check not texting her, not being overly flirty or approach her just to feel some connection.
[–]appmanga 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Keep your options open, but don't develop any feels. She's actually working a push/pull frame on you. Now that you know what's going on, use that knowledge as power. Continue to engage, because she is interested, but I think she's looking for a test drive, not a relationship. Don't go cold. If she wants to flirt, go with it. Be casual in confronting her about the no-show, let her know while you were willing to meet up, when it didn't happen, it was cool because you went ahead and had a fun night out just with some folks you wound up meeting. Translation: she's alright, but you don't need her.
Don't throw away a chance at good poonanny out of pride. JUST DON'T DEVELOP FEELINGS on spec. Just roll with it. You're not losing, and there is something to be gained. JUST DON'T DEVELOP FEELINGS on spec!!
Good luck.
[–]Digital-Beard 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I like this. But should I even bring up her ghosting me last night at all? I want this girl to want to text me regular again and obviously to follow through on meeting up. Preferably on my terms. But I don’t wanna come off needy or relinquish any power in this situation since it’s already confusing enough. So do I not mention last night or her lack of reply and NOT text her without her initiating or just bring it up myself
[–]appmanga 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's not needy if she busts meeting you and you have fun on your own. Right now you don't have any power; she has you off-balance. If she's brings it up, okay, but you don't. That's the shit test: seeing how you respond to her flaking. Don't give her that. You've got enough going on that you don't have time to be annoyed by silly bs. This girl is interested in you, but she's kicking the tires. Keep being alright with her, but don't play her game. If you're alluding to having a relationship, shut that down. You're probably better off with her thinking you're about hooking up.
This is what I needed. I know what I need to do, but it helps so much to get some confirmation that it’s the right way to go about it. I appreciate you for taking the time
[–]Liz_Lemondrop 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Did you ask her where to go?
Yeah I had asked her if she was already out and where
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