Whats your dating app strategy?

upyourz55 · 2020-09-01T20:34:30+00:00

Don’t waste your time. Dating apps are not designed for dating, they are designed for making money. Tinder, for example, will give you this blurry circle and tell you 20 girls in your area like you, just pay them money to find out who. Then if you do, you find out they are just spam bots. Do what I did, get a cute dog. My little dog is a pussy magnet.

skullirang · 2020-09-01T21:28:27+00:00

For the time I used dating apps, the only thing that worked was going for a numbers game strategy. I got laid a couple of times through OLD, but damn it was not worth it at all. It's very easy to get into, but it's a fool's trap.

A lot of accounts are fake
A lot of real accounts are inactive
Those that connect fizzle out easily and the conversations are so boring compared to real life conversations where you can see their face when you say a funny joke.
Those that don't fizzle out require so many steps to get on a date. Most girl use it just to increase their follower counts or just for some instant gratification.
Once you do get on a date, the girls look way different than in the picture.
The girls you meet in OLD tend to be weird. They just have something wrong with them personality-wise.
You get trapped in this introvert mindset. Being stuck on your phone just eats up at your confidence and general social sense.
Above average girls are virtually impossible to pick up online because they get so many responses. In person, you can easily will your pipeline with higher quality girls. That is impossible in online dating.

If you are going to try online I suggest using apps and website that are meant for connecting people in a specific interest.

axe122 · 2020-09-02T01:24:08+00:00

Dating apps suck but it doesn’t hurt to use them in conjunction with real life approaches. It’s better to not rely on it though, use it as a tool to meet girls you might not cross paths with otherwise.

Strategy is get her number and set a date on the first night of texting. If she tries to change the date cancel it cuZ she’s gonna flake anyway. Wait a week and ask again. If she says I wanna get to know you better first wait 3 -5 days ask when she’s free for drinks again if she doesn’t set a date move on. If you don’t meet a girl within a week and a half of initial contact you probably won’t ever meet her. Some women are on there looking For free validation and to just flirt with guys and get compliments. If they don’t set a date within 5 days move on. The only reason I’ll even give them a 3-5 days is because with all the whack jobs out there I know some girls have had bad experiences meeting strangers off the internet. However if you match on Sunday and set the date for Thursday you’ve talked for 4 days and if you set the date 4 days after talking for 3-5 that’s 7-9 days of texting and if she ain’t gonna meet you then assume she’s not gonna. I don’t have time to waste wondering if someone is gonna set a date ever and don’t want to be someone’s phone buddy or have a text relationship. Almost every girl I’ve met online we set a date on the first night of talking. Don’t compliment her even if she sends a picture. They get compliments all the time on there so your compliments hold no value and actually lump you in with all the other thirsty dudes.

Also when I say date don’t think like tv/ movie/media idea of a date. I set a date in a public place that’s inexpensive so she can meet me and if I’m not who she thought I was gonna be it’s easier for her to go home: since I know I look the same as in pics and an the guy I’m presenting myself as, I use the date as an opportunity to meet her have fun and lead her to the bedroom. I don’t waste our time together trying to get to know her. I used to make that mistake a lot in my early 20s. The way I view it is I know she wants to keep seeing me so I’ll get to know her over the course of dating. If you met a girl online you probably already know a bunch of shit abour her anyway for her to feel comfortable meeting a stranger off the internet.

A woman will sleep with a guy they don’t want to date but will not date a guy they don’t want to sleep with.

relentless_pma · 2020-09-02T01:15:52+00:00

I'm not an expert by any means, but my experience so far with dating apps has been mixed. I get a medium amount of matches across the three I've used (tinder, bumble, hinge). I usually find the girls attractive, I'm pretty outdoorsy so I think the unattractive ones aren't interested in outdoorsy stuff.

I downloaded tinder back in 2015 after I graduated high school. Tinder was the SHIT back then. Actual real people, met up with a bunch of girls, conversations flowed and they all seemed interested.

It has transitioned to the total opposite. Lots of bots. Even if you match with a girl they hardly ever respond, and if they do respond getting a conversation going is next to impossible. maybe you can get a snapchat or number, but even then I've had mixed results.

Where I have found success is luck of the draw with finding a chick who recently downloaded the app and I am the first or one of the first dudes she goes out with from it. These girls have probably been single for a while and their friends told them to download the app, its a kind of honeymoon stage for them in terms of dating.

overall, it isn't a replacement for going out and meeting people irl.

againbackiam91 · 2020-09-02T15:58:44+00:00

Be attractive lmao that’s it. If you’re ugly you will never get any matches and even if you do they will ignore your messages. So have an attractive face and you’ll match with 99% of women. If you’re ugly post pictures of your hot friends and let them guess which one you are and avoiding telling her which one is you until she agrees to meet up.

Not_Warren_Buffett · 2020-09-01T23:53:56+00:00

Have you tried being more attractive?

relentless_pma · 2020-09-03T08:32:32+00:00

Well the answer for dating apps that you might not want to hear is that you need to be better looking/have better pictures (probably a combination of both) if you are getting no matches now while you have tried it on different dating apps.

Theeaziz · 2020-09-04T06:02:08+00:00

You need 3 good pics min, catchy bio and a good anthem! That’s basically it and I’m average guy who gets likes every day by doing this

Revolutionary-Lab-10 · 2020-09-04T21:43:29+00:00

Unless you’re hot you’re gonna struggle. If you’re getting zero likes across multiple apps it’s time to delete them and day game.

Title	Whats your dating app strategy?
Author	syedhuda
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Date	September 1, 2020 7:57 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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