I’m a relatively successful entrepreneur, fit, in early 30s in the states.

I’ve met many beautiful women in my life but most are no longer friends. I think my problem is I want to sleep with most of them. And I can be semi-pushy in terms of getting them to meet.

I only like 9s and 10s and have had a few successes in the past.

Sometimes I see it as a sales process and I move on if a lead gets cold.

The problem is 1. I don’t have cute female friends to hang out with. 2. I think some women can feel that I have an agenda, stops trusting me, and therefore stops responding.

I’m thinking about taking the approach of a “add value to others and tone down my aggressiveness” mindset for 3 months in 2018 and see if that makes a difference.

What’s your mindset and how is it working out?